If you’ve recently discovered infidelity, an affair, or your spouse’s struggle with sexual addiction, you may be asking the hard questions no one talks about out loud.

In this powerful episode, Lisa and BrittLimehouse—Christian marriage coaches and founders of Marriage Redesigned—walk you through the top 7 questions couples ask after betrayal, including the one question most betrayed wives feel too afraid to voice:

👉 Will he ever forget the other woman… and fully recommit to me?

With biblical insight, real-life experience, and compassionate truth, Lisa and Britt unpack what true repentance looks like, how trust can be rebuilt, and what emotional recommitment actually means after infidelity.

Part 1 today.... Part 2 releases Tuesday, so stay tuned...

Now, let's dive in to today's show!

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Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your husband feeling...confused? Especially after the betrayal.

Maybe even questioning what really happened —or wondering if you’re the one who’s losing it?

You find yourself second-guessing your memory...your emotions...even your sanity — especially after the betrayal.

If that sounds familiar, you may be dealing with something called...gaslighting.

And in today’s episode — we’re going to shine a light on it.

I’m sharing the top 5 signs of gaslighting after betrayal, what it actually looks like in a marriage that’s been rocked by infidelity...and how to stop the emotional manipulation for good.

You deserve truth.

So let’s dive in.

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D-Day. The day everything changed. The day I discovered my husband was having an affair.

For me, it was a random weekday — ordinary in every way... until it wasn’t.

I remember the moment I saw the truth staring back at me — a message, a phone call, a slip-up. It felt like time slowed down. My heart pounded so hard I could hear it in my ears. My knees buckled. I felt sick. And in that split second, my entire reality shattered.

Maybe you’ve experienced something similar.

Today’s episode is a tender one. I’m inviting you into one of the most personal parts of my story — what really happened to me on D-Day — the day I discovered my husband’s affair.

So grab a cozy spot and maybe a cup of tea... this one's for the woman who’s just found out, or the one who’s still living in the aftermath.

Let’s breathe together. Inhale His peace. Exhale the pain. Let’s begin.

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The pain of his betrayal feels unbearable, doesn’t it? Like a weight pressing down on your chest, stealing your breath, shattering your sense of security, trust, and identity. You might be wondering:

“Will I ever stop hurting?”

Sweet friend, I want you to know that this pain you're feeling is not a sign of weakness—it’s a sign that something sacred was violated. And denying it won’t make it go away. In fact, healing requires that we embrace the pain.

Today, I want to share 5 reasons why facing the pain is not just necessary—it’s powerful, it’s sacred, and it’s the first step toward true healing.

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In this powerful episode, Christian marriage coach and betrayal trauma specialist Lisa Limehouse explores the devastating impact of infidelity on the body, mind, and spirit — and what God’s Word says about the path to true healing.

You’ll discover:

The physical symptoms of betrayal trauma, backed by recent research

The emotional and psychological effects of marital infidelity

How spiritual wounds develop after betrayal — and how to begin restoring your faith

One practical step you can take today to start healing in each area

Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, spiritually disconnected, or stuck in the aftermath of betrayal, this episode offers hope, clarity, and Christ-centered strategies to begin rebuilding your life and your identity in Him.

💡 Designed for Christian women and couples healing from betrayal, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking faith-based infidelity recovery, emotional healing, and marriage restoration God’s way.

🔗 Ready to go deeper? Learn more about the Marriage ReDesigned coaching program at MARRIAGEREDESIGNED.ORG

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Today is Part 2 with our Special Guests - Katie & Michael Bommarito

They will be sharing the second part of their story of brokenness to breakthrough.

Katie and Michael Bommarito met and married in seminary with dreams of pastoring a church together and spending time on the mission field. But after more than a decade of serving in full time ministry, those dreams shattered with the public discovery of Michael’s pornography use. Having secretly struggled with a porn and sex addiction for 25 years, the revelation came as a shock to everyone around him. A long series of counselors and accountability groups followed, but Michael continued lying to himself and others about the depths of his growing addiction. For 18 years they lived trapped in a cycle of lying, getting caught, and promising this time it would be different. But finally, God broke through, and Michael was able to admit the depths of his addiction. Surrounded by a network of support, Katie and Michael faced the pain of his betrayal, worked hard at restoration, and found hope and love beyond it all.

Today they have been married for almost 34 years. They have two grown sons, a beautiful daughter-in-law, and are expecting their first grandchild soon.

Listen in to this amazing testimony of God's redemption and healing in the midst of sexual addiction and betrayal.

Listen to Part 1 HERE

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Today I have some special guests!

First, my hubby is in the house! So excited to have him by my side as we interview a great couple Katie and Michael Bommarito.

They will be sharing their story of brokenness to breakthrough.

Katie and Michael Bommarito met and married in seminary with dreams of pastoring a church together and spending time on the mission field. But after more than a decade of serving in full time ministry, those dreams shattered with the public discovery of Michael’s pornography use. Having secretly struggled with a porn and sex addiction for 25 years, the revelation came as a shock to everyone around him. A long series of counselors and accountability groups followed, but Michael continued lying to himself and others about the depths of his growing addiction. For 18 years they lived trapped in a cycle of lying, getting caught, and promising this time it would be different. But finally, God broke through, and Michael was able to admit the depths of his addiction. Surrounded by a network of support, Katie and Michael faced the pain of his betrayal, worked hard at restoration, and found hope and love beyond it all.

Today they have been married for almost 34 years. They have two grown sons, a beautiful daughter-in-law, and are expecting their first grandchild soon.

Listen in to this amazing testimony of God's redemption and healing in the midst of sexual addiction and betrayal.

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If you’ve ever felt pressure to “just move on,” to suppress your emotions, or to act like everything is fine when it’s not, then today’s episode is for you.

We’re tackling a powerful truth: Healing doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t happen. You can rebuild your life and marriage without denying your pain. In fact, true healing requires facing it.

Let’s talk about what that looks like, why suppressing emotions can actually make healing harder, and how to move forward in a way that honors both your pain and God’s restoration.

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I want to get real with you today...

Healing after betrayal is hard.

Some of you have been doing all the “right things,” yet you still feel stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure if your marriage can be restored.

Why?

Because there are key mistakes that many betrayed wives make that keep them trapped in the cycle of pain.

So today, I’m breaking down the 3 biggest mistakes that keep women stuck after betrayal—and what you can do instead to move forward in true healing. If you’ve ever felt like healing is taking longer than it should or wondered “Will I ever feel normal again?”—this episode is for you.

And stick around, because at the end, I have a special invitation for those of you who are ready to take the next step toward healing in a safe, supportive community of women who truly get it.

Let’s dive in!

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It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way  Get in before the doors close March 8th!

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Schedule your FREE CONSULT 

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I am asked this question quite often, "My husband is having and affair and he refuses to stop. What do I do?"

Beautiful, I hear you. I understand that anguish. I was there. 

My husband refuses to stop his affair for 1.5 years. It was devastating and exhausting. 

Today’s topic is one that I know weighs heavy on many of you: What do you do when your husband refuses to end the affair? You’ve prayed. You’ve pleaded. You’ve cried more tears than you can count. And yet, he’s still choosing the affair over your marriage. So where does that leave you? What can you do, and just as importantly, what can’t you do?

Sis, if this is you today, I want you to know this: You are not powerless. You are not alone. And this is not the end of your story. So let’s dive in and talk about what your next steps should be when your husband won’t end the affair.

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It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way  Get in before the doors close March 8th!

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE