In this episode of The Psychedelic Podcast, Paul F. Austin speaks with Dr. Chandra Estelle Khalifian, a clinical psychologist, relationship researcher, and co-founder of Enamory, about the intersection of attachment science, couples therapy, and psychedelic-assisted healing.

Find full show notes and links here: https://thethirdwave.co/podcast/episode-357/?ref=278

Drawing from her work in ketamine-assisted couple therapy and MDMA research, Chandra explores how relationships are shaped by nervous system regulation, attachment wounds, and patterns developed long before adulthood.

The conversation examines how ketamine and MDMA can help couples move through rigidity, betrayal, grief, and disconnection by creating greater emotional openness and flexibility. Paul and Chandra also dive into conscious uncoupling, relational growth, community, and the deeper distinction between love as a feeling versus love as a practice.

Chandra Khalifian, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist, researcher, and educator specializing in psychedelic-assisted couple therapy. She co-founded Enamory, alongside Dr. Kayla Knopp, a private practice clinic, training institute, and research foundation based in San Diego, California. Their work focuses on ketamine-assisted couple therapy, including clinical data collection and therapist training programs designed to support practitioners integrating psychedelic-assisted couple therapy into their practices. Chandra's work bridges attachment science, nervous system regulation, relationship psychology, and psychedelic medicine.

Highlights:

• How Attachment Shapes Adult Relationships
• Ketamine for Breaking Relational Rigidity
• Why Secure Attachment Feels Safe
• MDMA for Betrayal & Repair
• Conscious Uncoupling Without Hatred
• Why Love Alone Isn't Enough
• Healing Grief Through Psychedelic Therapy
• Couples Therapy as Nervous System Work

Episode Links:

• Enamory Website
• Enamory Couples KAP Training
• Enamory on Instagram
• Dr. Chandra on Instagram
• Enamory's Ketamine-Assisted Couple Therapy Training

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• The Microdosing Practitioner Certification at Psychedelic Coaching Institute.
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