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In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dex about the benefits of the construction of the lifestyle bed over a perfect martini. 

“Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share about building a lifestyle bed. I've been fortunate and somewhat unique in that in the entire time in leather aside from the first month when I discovered it, I've been in a 24/7 with two different submissives. Both of those relationships have been enhanced by the lifestyle bed we discussed.

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General materials needed to construct a lifestyle bed using this design:
iron bed rails bolt on style (use length for the mattress you own-75" twin/full; 80" queen/king)
4 4x4x8 for posts
5 2x8x8 mattress rails, pillow rail
4 2x6x8 canopy rails

5 or 6 1x4x8 ideally oak or pine with no knots for mattress rail slats

Headboard/footboard designs (others only need imagination)
St. Andrews Cross
A Frame
Ladder Back

Footboard will require 1 or 2 more 2x6x8
Headboard will require 2x4x8 to asthetically match the footboard design

Note the raised cage bed I described will not use iron bedrails, but will use the 1x2"s Lady Petra mentioned and a solid piece of plywood for the foundation to sit on. It will also have a 2x4 the length of the middle of the mattress foundation from headboard to footboard for support.

in leather,
Dex”

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In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about interrogation play for Part 6 of the Edge Play series over a Sazerac. 

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In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the thitd  part of Chapter 4 of “The Story of O” by Pauline Rèage over a  Campari Cocktail. 

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In this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster replay their discussion reflecting on the first two years of their experience together, This is one of our favorite D/s conversations and worth a listen. We had the conversation over tumblers of The Balvenie Single 14-Year Malt Scotch Whiskey (Extra Matured in Rum Casks).

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In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Mistress Schari of Mischief Matters about her journey, her dungeon and her classes over a Vieux Carrie. 

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In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about their dynamic and the twists and turns of the rabbit hole over a Hemingway.

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In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the second  part of Chapter 4 of “The Story of O” by Pauline Rèage over a  Seven and Squirt.

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In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with CBombz about her attraction to cross dresses and her pod, “Conversations With Cross Dressers”, over a Perfect Martini.

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In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Podopheleus about his recently published book "Triple Formed" over Scotch Old Fashioned  Cocktail. 

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In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dex about food play over a Toronto. 

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