Podcast Notes Key Takeaways

• “All sex is group sex” – Suzanne Iasenza
  • If you think you’re in bed alone with your partner, you’re not; you’re joined by both of your trauma histories
• For most men, it’s desire first → then arousal; for most women, it’s arousal → desire
  • “Once a woman gets aroused, she can feel her desire much more” – Suzanne Iasenza
• The best romantic relationships are ones in which the couple is able to quickly recover from fights
• Your love isn’t obvious; frequently express love and gratitude towards your partner
• “Some people take care of their cars more than their relationships” – Suzanne Iasenze
  • Don’t be one of those people—have date nights, spend time together, and nurture your relationship

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Sex therapist Dr. Suzanne Iasenza explains how our personal narratives determine how we grow as a couple, how we communicate, even how we make love.

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