Lessons from a Quitter

By Goli KalkhoranBusiness Careers

Lessons from a Quitter episodes

April 20, 2021 Let It Be Hard
This week's episode is all about doing difficult things. Somewhere along the line, a lot of us adopted the mistaken belief that there is an easy way to have our dream life. But that's false, there are no shortcuts. When we adopt that mentality, we end up making it so much harder on ourselves. We fall short on certain goals, or we bypass certain milestones because we're hyperfocused on having an easy life. But hard things challenge us to grow and learn and live a life far beyond ourselves. We can do hard things, stop wishing your way out of them.
19 min
April 13, 2021 Finding Clarity in Your Next Career Move
By far, the #1 question I get asked is some version of:

"I hate my job but I have no idea what else I would do. How do I find some clarity?!"

I have good news and bad news. The bad news is that no one can give you a clear answer to that question. Because what you're really saying is: "I've lost touch with who I really am. I've done what I was supposed to do and found myself unhappy. I feel lost and don't know how to get back to what I truly want."

The clarity you're looking for can't come from outside of you. The answer isn't in some online assessment. It has to come from within. It only comes from getting a better understanding of who you are when you aren't trying to please everyone else or look perfect.

But here is the good news: Doing the work to find clarity in what you want to do with your life will change every single aspect of it. It will bring you back to yourself. It'll lead to more self-compassion, self-trust, and self-acceptance.

It will help you stop the self-sabotage that will otherwise continue to ruin your life. It will give you control over your own internal state so you're not at the mercy of reacting to everyone and everything around you.

It will let you show up as the full, flawed human that you are so you can experience all that there is in this life. What more important work is there?! So don't go for the easy answer. Take the time to find out who you truly are and do it on purpose.

This week in the podcast, I go more in-depth into how to start discovering clarity in what you truly want.
23 min
April 06, 2021 Coaching Call Replay
If you've listened to the podcast for a while now, you've likely heard me talk about the free coaching calls I do every month. I always love having new people join the calls because I'll inevitably get messages afterwards like: "Wow, that was so much more helpful than I thought it would be!" "Thank you for doing this. I'm not sure why I waited so long to join these." "This was so eye-opening. Just listening to everyone helped me so much!" I've realized that many of you may not realize how powerful coaching actually can be (and the fact that you don't even have to be the one to get coached for it to be powerful). So today on the podcast, I'm replaying last month's coaching call. I want you to see the power of group coaching, the fact that we all have the same fears and doubts, and that your mindset is pretty much the answer to every question (*wink, wink*). If you enjoy this call, feel free to sign up to join our FREE MONTHLY COACHING CALLS
53 min
March 30, 2021 My mom's quitter story: How Ziba Farzaneh used a layoff to build her dream life
This week's episode is truly one of my favorites. I never thought I would say this but my mom, Ziba Farzaneh is on the show. She has a pretty amazing quitter story that I want to share with you all. My mother was an accountant for a number of years. She served as VP of finance of a hundred million dollar company and grew in the role for 19 years. After being blindsided by a layoff she decided to go into entrepreneurship with my sister. Together they have a school for severely autistic children, and they recently opened up a ranch that does animal therapy for the children. Her story is one of courage, resilience, and hard work.
52 min
March 23, 2021 Getting Finances In Order To Quit
Last week we spoke about the thoughts we form around money. This week
I want to talk about the equation that you need to think about when you want to quit your job.
I hear from so many people saying that they can't quit because of finances. That can mean a number of things: They have too much debt, they just made a large purchase, they are not earning as much as they need, they don't have a savings, etc. But each of these things can be remedied. If your thoughts don't get you to bury your head in the sand, there are plenty of ways to tackle the issue of finances. Once we can begin to create a plan, we can figure out how long it will actually take us to be ready to quit.
19 min
March 16, 2021 Thoughts About Money
This week we're going to dive into your money mindset. One of the biggest blocks for people from changing careers is finances. But they don't realize that most of their problems arise from how they think about money and not how much money they actually have. Before we get into how to actually plan your finances to quit, we have to deal with all of your limitations around money. So let's talk about all the thoughts you have about money.
33 min
March 09, 2021 Seasons of Rest
This week I want to talk to you about rest. We rarely talk about it. It's not the type of topic that lends itself to an illustrious career or living your dream life, but it is so important. Today we're going to talk about seasons of rest: How to know when you're in one or when you need one (and how to maximize the benefits of being in this season). So stop pushing, stop hustling, look inside yourself to figure out if you need some time off and take a break.
23 min
March 02, 2021 How Tricia Cusden Started Her Beauty Line At Age 65 And Proved That You're Never Too Old To Start Over
This week's episode features the incredible Tricia Cusden. I don't say this lightly when I say that these episodes are the reason I started this podcast. She is the perfect example that it is never too late to start over and live the most full-life possible. If you can get out of your own way, there is so much more that you are capable of than you let yourself believe.

Tricia started out her career as a stay-at-home mom to her two daughters. When her daughters got older, she went back to university and got her degree at 38. She then began a career as a management training consultant. After working for a company for 10 years, she jumped into entrepreneurship and ran her own consultancy until she was 64.

After 26 years in that career, Tricia closed down her business in order to help with the care of her granddaughter, who had been born with a rare chromosomal disorder. At 65, when her granddaughter had improved and had other help, Tricia decided she needed a new project. She had always loved make-up and saw a huge gap in the market for aging women. Without any experience in the field, she set out to start her own beauty line with Look Fabulous Forever.

What has happened in the 7 years since she launched the brand is just incredible. She has built a business that both her daughters now work in, written a book, attended the Oscars, created a large following, and so much more. She's such an inspiration to me and so many others.
38 min
February 23, 2021 How All Or Nothing Thinking Is Keeping You Stuck
Last week we talked about having a healthy self-concept and the need to give ourselves room to stumble, learn, and grow into our full potential. And while we are worth the investment in growth, we need to also manage our expectations of how that will look. This week, we dive into a root cause of so many of our problems: all or nothing thinking. Hyper fixation on our end goals clouds our vision of the small steps and setbacks that can really help shape us. Everything doesn't have to be absolute or black and white. Learn to live in the grey area and I guarantee you'll appreciate your results. And if you need help on eliminating this type of thinking so you can make progress on your dreams, I'm starting my 6-month group program next week. You don't have to do this alone. If you want to help getting unstuck and finding your dream life, you can find out more information at https://www.quitterclub.com/group
19 min
February 16, 2021 The Most Important Work You Can Do
This week's episode covers the most important thing I can teach you. I think it is the root of everything. The root of all of your problems. I want to talk to you about self-concept. This includes how you think about yourself, how you feel about yourself, and how you love yourself. Do you trust yourself? Do you know your strengths and weaknesses? I want you to ask yourself right now, how do you feel about yourself? Being able to identify and own your self-concept is the key to unlocking your growth mindset. And a fantastic supplement to that is a solid coaching program. Starting next month, I am going to be running a 6-month long challenge to un-stuck yourself and begin working toward your dream life. If this interests you, visit www.quitterclub.com/group and schedule your first one on one call to see if this program would be the right fit for you.
22 min

About Lessons from a Quitter

From the publisher's feed

It is never too late to start over. No matter how much time or money you've spent chasing degrees and jobs to get to your current position, if ultimately you're unhappy, then it is time to quit. Each…