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How the f*ck do you move on when you're in the depths of a relationship?

Today's episode is with the incredible Jillian Turecki!

Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer. She has helped thousands of people be better in their relationships, including the relationship you have with yourself, and has helped just as many people manage the aftermath of a relationship breakdown.

We ask for Jillian's advice on:

• How to know whether you should break up with your partner
• How do I know if it's just a normal relationship lull or if it's actually the end of the relationship?
• Do you know when you've found 'the one'? 
• Are break ups always devastating or are they an opportunity?
• When it's actually not them, it's you. You're the problem
• Patterns in your dating and relationships

You can find more from Jillian on her website and on her Instagram

We did an episode on break ups back in 2020! You can listen here!

Another episode that we did on break ups with Alexis Fernandez on break ups is here!

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Hey Lifers,

We hope you all had wonderful Easter weekends; whether that is with or without egg hunts and hat parades! Laura shares her feelings around adding magic to special events so that they become your really important memories.

Laura is in Bali and has had quite an eventful plane ride. She's curious as to how you'd handle this plane etiquette and Keeshia thinks the passive aggressive route is best.

Have you ever felt as though a friend bailed on you when they got in to a relationship? Has this become a bit of a pattern? Are you possibly the friend who deprioritises friendship when you get into a relationship?
We discuss the difference between a natural evolution of a friendship, a shift in life stages and expectations of the intensity of friendship. 

We spoke with Dr Hannah Korell about breaking up with toxic friends here

Plus we speak about Lizzo quitting. Is it the result of being guilty in the 'court' of public opinion or have problematic trolls just been given the green light to attack her because of the allegations against her? Is she cancelled? Do you think someone should be hired to perform at an event like a political fundraiser when they have active allegations such as sexual assault allegations against them? 

We previously spoke about Lizzo here

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It's our weekly round up! The best of the week from our National radio show THE PICKUP.

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Hey Lifers!
Producer Keeshia is filling in for Britt while she hangs out with all of the creatures in the jungle! But I'm a celebrity had us thinking about a particular insight into all of our relationships and it's one that will be polarising!

Vibes for the week: 
Laura - Lily Loves range at Target

Keeshia - Shakti mat

Then we jump into your questions!

• HE CHEATED EARLY IN THE RELATIONSHIP

  My boyfriend (31) and I (28) started dating in June last year, we made it official at the end of July. Since the very beginning we’ve been very happy. We are both super committed to our relationship and each other, we communicate really well and he shows me every day how much he loves me. I truly thought I had found my penguin. However… I just found out he cheated on me 2 times just when our relationship started. He cheated on me with a girl he met back in June. She was away in Europe for a bit so when we started our relationship she wasn’t around but they were still texting. When she was back they met up 2 times and had sex. This was 1 week, and 2 months after we made it official. All of this came out because the girl reached out to me to tell me everything.I confronted him, he felt really guilty and owned his mistakes. He said it absolutely didn’t mean anything. He was lost and scared and he said he could never do that to me now because we are in such a different stage of our relationship. I can see how our relationship has changed in the last 4 months. He says he has changed and did the inner work after the cheating. I think he still needs to work on himself to potentially continue the relationship. And he agrees. My question is how bad are the red flags? I know you can recover from cheating but can you when you started the relationship and fell in love with the person when he was cheating? I think I really want to make this work and give him another chance
  
  

• HOW DO I ASK IF HE'S SLEEPING WITH OTHER PEOPLE

  I’ve been seeing this guy for a month so far so good - convos, good hobbies align, values align and watching him work out was a beautiful sight. BUT he is going away in two weeks for a 2 month trip with a mate. Usually it would be way too soon to define the relationship but with him going away my question is do I ask are we not sleeping with other people during this time I feel like it’s usually too soon to ask but I also think if he likes me he shouldn’t want to. He has also told me he’s deleted all the apps (which is how we met) Do I have the convo?
  
  

• BLOW JOB ETIQUETTE

  I was in a 17 year relationship, married with 2 kids. It was a tough time when we separated and I gave myself a year before I started dating again. I hadn't dated a lot before I got married. I have dated a bit now and it has been fun and hard and an emotional roller coaster. But my question is, what is the etiquette when giving a guy a blow job? Should he ask you and/or tell you before he cums in your mouth? I went out with a guy on a few dates and the first time we were intimate together I was quite surprised when I went down on him and a short time later he just came in my mouth without saying anything until after he came he said 'Good girl'. I felt degraded and a bit used to be honest. I usually don't mind this happening but previous guys have always asked or warned me so I can make a choice. What do you think?

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Today's interview felt like such an honour. It's with one of the most successful Australian artists, who likely needs little introduction, Tones and I!
She has over 10.5 billion streams worldwide. Her songs have been number 1 in 31 countries and she was the first female artist to reach 3 billion streams on spotify! 
But, Tones rarely does media and we feel so lucky that this is her first ever long form podcast. 
We chat about: 

• Why Tones felt like hiding from a public life was a safer option
• How she grew up and why she worked so hard for what she wanted
• Dance Monkey catapulting her into the public space and what that felt like behind closed doors
• Being in her sequin, confidence era
• Choosing to go sober
• Living as a married person with a bunch of friends
• Touring with P!nk after offers from Robbie Williams 
• Announcing her OWN national tour!

You can find everything about her tour at her website!

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Hey Lifers!

Britt has gone into the jungle!! She's petrified of heights and we don't know why she didn't lie about her fears.  
It's Laura's 38th birthday!!!! (It's possibly her 37th but we've referred to google for reference). Laura speaks candidly about not being a birthday person and why she feels a little bit indifferent to gifts; unless they are plants. We speak about being in certain places of life by a certain time as the years click over. 

Over the weekend, Princess Catherine announced that she has been battling a cancer diagnosis and undergoing preventative chemotherapy treatment. We question whether people in positions like hers are entitled to privacy just like everyone else, and whether we should feel bad for contributing to the public speculation. Did she feel as though she had to come out with this information because of public harassment or because the PR team royally f*cked up so many times that it pushed her into a corner?

You can find the episode with Ellie Cole here!

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Hey Lifers!

We will get to your questions but firstly, BRITT IS GOING TO SOUTH AFRICA and entering the "I'm a celebrity, get me out of here" jungle!
We talk about how it came about, what it's going to entail and which charity Britt is going into the jungle for! You can check out the charity Rize Up Australia

Vibes for the week:

Britt - watch I'm a celebrity on channel 10. It starts on Sunday!

Keeshia - Ultra sonic cleaner Zima dental pod

Laura - One Child Nation on Prime Video

Then we jump into your questions:

-Last month my family & I were at the beach and we set up our Cool Cabana and 3 beach chairs. We were there for a few hours but decided we wanted to have lunch so we packed up our beach towels but just left the cabana and beach chairs underneath it. A few hours later we returned and a whole family was sitting under our cabana on our beach chairs. They had their rash shirts all hung up on our cabana. We said ‘what are you doing here?’ and they said they asked people nearby if anyone owned it and when they said they hadn’t seen us in a while they thought it was fine to use. When we asked them to leave the mum rolled her eyes at us and only the young boy apologised. When I told my friend about this she said they had every right to use our cabana and beach chairs. This isn’t correct beach etiquette is it?

-I had a friendship of 10+ years who was my best friend and had been through everything with me, this friendship ended last year. The friendship in itself got quite toxic towards the end so it’s definitely a relief that we are no longer friends, however it’s hard to not look back on all the good memories and good times we had. I feel like I’m coming out of a toxic romantic relationship. I know I'm better off without her but it’s still sad. Now that I'm out of this friendship, I find myself looking around at other female friendships and feel sad. I have friends but I feel like it's all on a superficial level, and I'm never truly myself like the way I was with her. My question is how do people make good pure friendships in their 20’s? It's just making me so sad lately

-My partner has had a declining sex drive for a while now. I've noticed that his instagram explore page is full of raunchy bikini models. After confronting him about this, he admitted that he jacks off to these pictures. I want to know whether this is a problem to most people or if it's me overreacting?

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Hey lifers!

First up today, we've got two very special (s-paw-cial if you like a pun) guests in with us today. We go through the worst things you've done to get revenge on one of your exes and you are all very CREATIVE!! We also promise that we won't report any of you because some of these things are borderline illegal.

Plus we unpack the big changes that Meta is about to make to your instagram and facebook news. Things could be really changing next month. But who is in the wrong here? Is it the government for legislating something that benefited some news providers (but not all), or it is Meta for wanting to save themselves from paying Australian news providers a lot of money. There are a few independent news players in this game that are really going to be affected by this change, despite them never benefiting from the agreement that was made in 2021.

We also speak about our desire and ability to pay for content such as news. If we eventually did need to pay for this type of content to keep these news organisations going, would you be willing to? Would you only pay for some or the types that you liked and enjoyed? Would that make you end up in an echo chamber?

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Today's episode felt like such a privilege. We finally got to meet lifer Nikiya Love in person!
You may have gotten to know Nikiya in the life uncut discussion group. Over the years Nikiya has brought us along for the ride throughout her fertility journey and her leukaemia diagnosis while she was pregnant with her beautiful daughter Lexi. 

In this chat we speak about:

-Nikiya's IVF process
-How her leukaemia diagnosis happened
-Losing her beautiful daughter Lexi
-What fertility looks like after chemo
-The stem cells from a stranger that saved her life
-How important blood donations are

Nikiya has a gentle strength and a grasp of what's truly important in life. This chat has left us feeling forever changed. 

You can follow Nikiya's journey on instagram here - Nikiya's Instagram

If you'd like to join the facebook group where we first met Nikiya, you can do so here! LIFE UNCUT DISCUSSION GROUP

Sign up to donate blood - Life blood

Register for the cheek swab test to see if you could be a stem cell donor match -Strength to give

The life blood teams that you can join are called:
'Hannah's Bloody Heroes' or 'The Love Squad'. 

You can also find out more at Leukaemia Foundation's World's Greatest Shave

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