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In this episode, Jake and Michele are joined by Gina and Amber from the Weird True Crime podcast to discuss the tragic story of Judy Malinowski, a mother of two who was set on fire by her abuser, Michael Slager, and bravely fought for 696 days to survive—ultimately making legal history by testifying against him.

The discussion delves into the devastating impact of domestic violence, the legal significance of Judy’s case, her brave testimony, and the historic role she played in speaking out against her abuser. The panel also explores the warning signs of abusive relationships, the difficulties victims face when trying to escape, and the lasting legacy of Judy’s Law. They emphasize the importance of raising awareness about domestic abuse and the vital work Weird True Crime is doing to highlight lesser-known cases and bring attention to critical issues in the true crime world.

**PLEASE NOTE** The topics discussed in this episode are dark in nature and may be distressing to some listeners. We will be exploring sensitive subjects, including domestic violence, severe fire burns, and murder, which may not be suitable for all audiences. Listener discretion is strongly advised. 

Support Links 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.thehotline.org/resources/get-help-50-obstacles-to-leaving/ 
https://www.facebook.com/Judysfoundation.org 

Weird True Crime
https://www.weirdtruecrime.com/
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weird-true-crime/id1642363009
https://open.spotify.com/show/3BHNffWPPzW79m0s5phIWM
https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/9d0c54e2-1ec0-4994-bc3c-33c8a0c3dcaf/weird-true-crime
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcAPlqQ1t9nzA9B6kAKifmA

Case Source Links
https://lawandcrime.com/crime/michael-slager-pleads-guilty-to-murder-after-dousing-girlfriend-with-gas-setting-judy-malinowski-on-fire/ 
https://www.judysfoundation.org/about/
https://people.com/judy-malinowski-woman-set-fire-ex-testified-grave-behind-bars-life-7503471
https://people.com/crime/the-fire-that-took-her-judy-malinowski-case/
https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-set-fire-fiance-heroic-fight/
https://people.com/judy-malinowski-last-moments-fire-that-took-her-exclusive-7503538
https://appgateway.drc.ohio.gov/OffenderSearch/Search/Details/A731261
https://www.nbc4i.com/news/judy-malinowski-dies-nearly-two-years-after-being-set-on-fire/
https://www.10tv.com/article/news/local/gahanna-man-pleads-no-contest-charges-setting-woman-fire/530-bebe39bc-62ac-43a7-b42a-50e121da7965
https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-set-on-fire-fiance-5-things/
https://www.10tv.com/article/news/local/judy-malinowski-attack-survivor-who-fought-change-ohio-law-dies-33/530-1fe7ee85-aa78-499e-bad3-f065fae1bbcf
https://web.archive.org/web/20190702053044/https://www.10tv.com/article/find-help-run-woman-set-fire-shares-message-abused-women
https://web.archive.org/web/20190702083142/https://www.10tv.com/article/woman-set-fire-i-want-fight-live
https://web.archive.org/web/20171002181027/http://www.10tv.com/article/woman-set-fire-attackers-punishment-doesnt-fit-crime
https://web.archive.org/web/20190702051023/http://www.10tv.com/article/judge-woman-set-fire-allowed-record-testimony-potential-murder-trial
https://www.egan-ryan.com/obituary/Judith-Malinowski
https://www.gofundme.com/f/hope-and-help-for-judy
https://www.wdtn.com/news/u-s-world/slager-sentenced-to-life-in-prison-after-pleading-guilty-in-judy-malinowski-murder-case/
https://www.dispatch.com/story/news/crime/2018/07/05/slager-pleads-avoids-death-penalty/987168007/
https://web.archive.org/web/20190705225458/http://www.10tv.com/article/judy-malinowskis-daughters-our-mommy-didnt-suffer-vain 
https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-murderer-michael-slager-pleads-sentenced/
https://people.com/judy-malinowski-fire-took-her-exclusive-dying-wish-daughters-7505022
Judy’s deposition https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBapvOaUjj4 
The Fire That Took Her (2022), https://www.imdb.com/title/tt21995004/ 

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lovelustfear
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Jake Deptula
www.instagram.com/jaked3000
Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/
Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher
https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch
www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 

National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

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topics | #TrueCrime #DomesticViolence #JudyMalinowski #Podcasting #Resilience #Abuse #RedFlags #LegalHistory #MentalHealth #Relationships #Shame #JudysLaw #LegalTestimony #SurvivorStories #Advocacy #SupportSystems #Empowerment #UncomfortableConversations #FamilyStories #HardStories #Justice #Awareness 

Jenna Brister is a comedian, actor, and screenwriter behind the feel-good Hallmark movies adored by millions. She bravely opened up about her harrowing experience of being trapped in an abusive marriage with a volatile chef in episode 6 of lovelustfear, titled “No One Gets Out This Early,” Now, she joins Jake Deptula to reflect on the red flags she faced, the healing power of comedy, and how her real-life romance with her new partner—who she’s traveled the world with—mirrors the kind of love she now brings to life in her scripts. Jenna shares her journey of surviving trauma, finding her own leading man, and how food, humor, and holiday movies helped her write her way to a true happy ending.
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Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
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Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher
https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch
www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 
National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/
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topics | #LovelustFridays #JennaBrister #Comedy #HallmarkMovies #AbuseRecovery #relationships #lifetimovies#ImprovComedy #DatingLife #Storytelling #RomComs #FilmProduction #CulinaryArts #ChristmasMovies #WritingCommunity #Escapism #LoveAndHealing #EmotionalSafety #HealthyBoundaries #SelfRespect #Resilience #HealingJourney #Romance

Host Jake Deptula and former associate family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Lorraine, a narcissistic abuse survivor from episode fifteen of lovelustfear, "You Have To Be Very Careful With Him.”

They delve into Lorraine's experience of escaping an abusive relationship with a partner diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder and her legal challenges co-parenting with him. They also examine the significant struggles she faced within the police and court systems, which may have displayed bias and racism, particularly in Family Court. Also, they discuss how the judicial system focuses on child protection and how it sometimes fails to consider the best interests of the abuse victim, emphasizing the urgent need for reform in family courts to provide better support for victims.

topics | toxic relationship, unfair treatment, police, court system, bias, racism, co-parenting, narcissistic ex-partner, self-care, narcissism, white privilege, family court, psychological evaluation, coercive control, court reform, self-discovery, support networks, humor

Lorraine - Episode Link
"You Have To Be Very Careful With Him.”
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-lorraine-you-have-to-be-very-careful-with-him/id1735876283?i=1000664798749&itscg=30200&itsct=podcast_box&ls=1&mttnsubad=1000664798749
https://open.spotify.com/episode/54b3WJWHzDo324QLD2VU1o?si=P9hTAjHKTjW4HV73DUFYsw

links

Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/

Lorraine
Go Fund Me Page: https://gofund.me/5bd8a430
Narcissism The Comedy Night: 
https://www.montrealimprov.com/shows/narcissism-a-comedy-night
Narcissism The Improvised Musical: https://www.montrealimprov.com/shows/narcissism-the-musical-a-fundraising-event
Instagram:
www.instagram.com/thestarparentpodcast
Woman Aware: 
https://www.womenaware.ca/
Natalie Bedard better known as NatNat
Energy Healing Specialist: Regulating the Nervous System and Relieving Emotional and Mental Pain Through Breathwork
Website: www.LiftOneSelf.com
IG: Https://instagram.com/liftoneself
FB: Https://facebook.com/liftoneself
Podcast:
https://liftoneself.buzzsprout.com
Youtube:
https://m.youtube.com/@LiftOneSelfPodcast

National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

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In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michele Locke, alongside producer Haley Gray, are joined by Heather Ashley of Big Mad True Crime and Kyle Ashley from Critical Incidents to discuss the tragic story of Emma Compton. They explore the harsh realities of domestic violence, delving into the emotional and legal hurdles survivors face as well as the systemic obstacles that often block justice. The discussion highlights investigative issues in Emma’s case and emphasizes the need for improved communication between law enforcement and victims’ families. Heather shares her expertise in criminal intelligence and violent crime reduction, while Kyle brings insights from his military and law enforcement background. Together, they reflect on the importance of advocacy, mental health awareness, and sharing survivor stories. The conversation also touches on the personal challenges of working in true crime media, including managing criticism and maintaining balance.

Heather Ashley / “Big Mad True Crime” – Links
https://www.instagram.com/theheatherashley/
https://www.threads.com/@theheatherashley
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-mad-true-crime/id1477773466
https://open.spotify.com/show/1EKq0vbB08ke1QdCsWwIwh
https://www.instagram.com/bigmadtruecrime/
https://www.facebook.com/BigMadTrueCrime/

Kyle Ashley / “Critical Incidents” – Links
https://www.instagram.com/criticalincidentspod/
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/critical-incidents/id1793167009
https://open.spotify.com/show/1XheQUBCO4U9gAekwkgdYQ

Discussion Links 

https://www.thehotline.org/stakeholders/domestic-violence-statistics/ 

https://www.strangulationtraininginstitute.com/impact-of-strangulation-crimes/important-facts/ 

https://www.wdbj7.com/2023/11/24/family-emma-compton-layne-still-seeking-justice-six-years-after-her-murder/ 

https://www.yourgv.com/news/local_news/reward-offered-in-search-of-missing--year-old-cody/article_31787f4a-59e0-11e7-a45e-7f5dc8ffffb9.html 

https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Halifax-County-missing-woman-search-continues-two-weeks-later-431832353.html 

https://www.wsls.com/news/2017/08/03/vigil-being-held-for-missing-halifax-county-woman/ 

https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Human-remains-found-in-Halifax-Co-foul-play-expected-459605953.html 

https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Family-believes-human-remains-found-in-Halifax-County-belong-to-Emma-Layne-460626173.html 

https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/SHARE-Police-search-for-missing-woman-from-Halifax-county-429921923.html 

https://www.evaporatethemissing.com/post/with-butterfly-kisses 

https://www.facebook.com/HelpFindEmmaComptonLayne 

https://www.yourgv.com/news/lightmare-says-sister-of-missing-cody/article_d96de88e-6d86-11e7-a1cd-d3a4270a79ed.html 

https://www.yourgv.com/obituaries/sylvia-whitlow-mccurry/article_5d5effb4-b1e5-11e7-95a9-8bf90331c580.html 

Series Links
lovelustfear
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lovelustfridays
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Jake Deptula
www.instagram.com/jaked3000
Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/
Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher
https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch
www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 
National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

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topics | #EmmaCompton #HeatherAshley #KyleAshley #BigMadTrueCrime #CriticalIncidents #LovelessFridays #DomesticViolence #Podcasting #Crime #LawEnforcement #Military #LegalSystem #EmotionalAbuse #VictimSupport #SafetyPlans #Investigation #WomensRights #MentalHealth #Empowerment #CommunitySupport #ForensicEvidence #ProsecutionStrategies #JuryDynamics #VictimAdvocacy #TrueCrimePodcasting #StrangulationStatistics #CriminalJusticeSystem #PodcastCollaboration #SurvivorStories #Advocacy #TrueCrime #Storytelling #PersonalGrowth #CommunityEngagement 

Host Jake Deptula and family law attorney Michelle Locke are joined by Lauryn from Episode 17 of lovelustfear, titled “You Have to Learn to Trust Me.” 

Lauryn reflects on her first toxic relationship, sharing the emotional toll of repeated breakups and reconciliations that led her to question her self-worth. She describes how these painful cycles pushed her to emotional extremes and behaviors she didn’t recognize in herself. Lauryn also opens up about her struggles with body image, self-confidence, and how societal pressures influenced her perception of beauty. The conversation delves into the challenges women face today, the journey to self-acceptance, and the critical role of family and friends in overcoming adversity. Michelle offers valuable advice for parents on how to help their children navigate emotionally challenging breakups.

links

Lauryn Lugo
Here’s a link to my show Border’d on YouTube: 
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3XBICHsy7GjVKinY7RhZXh8gy67zOSNZ&si=sYPzspemX3P1e1EG
Here’s a link to my show Little Things on YouTube: 
https://youtu.be/BowNWLggBzQ?si=mGcgCnGkVUrcNdmb

Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/

Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher
https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch
www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 

Additional Links 
NAMI
https://www.nami.org/
NAMI is the National Alliance on Mental Illness, the nation’s largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness.

The Gift of Fear Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin De Becker (Book)
https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Fear-Gavin-Becker/dp/0316235776/

One Tree Hill
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One_Tree_Hill_(TV_series)

Sources
https://people.ucsc.edu/~sgrabe/Shellys_Home_page/Publications_files/Grabe%20&%20Ward,%20Hyde,%20Media%20Meta%20(PB,%202008).pdf 

https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2020/05/08/dating-and-relationships-in-the-digital-age/ 

National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

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topics | #bodyimage #selfconfidence #toxicrelationships #mediainfluence #personalgrowth #selfworth #societalpressures #healing #friendship #parentingadvice #heartbreak #parenting #emotionalsupport #relationships #love #mentalhealth #copingstrategies #familydynamics #stalking #selfdiscovery #intuition #theater #empowerment

Brittani Ard, host of You Probably Think This Story's About You, joins Jake and Michele on lovelustfridays for a raw and thoughtful conversation about trauma, relationships, and the emotional weight of storytelling. She opens up about her transition from a career in architecture to podcasting, and the lessons she's learned along the way. The discussion dives into the complexities of dating in midlife—particularly for strong, independent women—touching on breakups, emotional boundaries, and the process of unintentionally emasculating men. Brit also reflects on how independence can sometimes hinder connection, and why taking small, intentional steps back into the dating world can be so valuable.

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Podcast: “You Probably Think This Story’s About You”
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Instagram https://www.instagram.com/brittani.ard/

Discussion Links 
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Series Links
lovelustfear
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lovelustfridays
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Jake Deptula
www.instagram.com/jaked3000
Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/
Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher
https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch
www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 
National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

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topics | #LovelustFridays #Pleasure #Relationships #DatingInMidlife #EmotionalAvailability #Independence #Partnership #SelfDiscovery #Attraction #PersonalNeeds #HighDrama #StabilityInRelationships #Parenting #EmotionalAbuse #SurvivorStories #Podcasting #Kindness #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealthAwareness #Healing #SelfLove #EmotionalHealing #MidlifeJourney #RelationshipGrowth #SurvivorStrength #MentalHealthMatters #YouProbablyThinkThisStorysAboutYou #BrittaniArd

In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michelle Locke sit down with retired FBI agent and profiler Julia Cowley, who reflects on her 22-year career investigating serial killings, sex offenses, and other violent crimes. Julia discusses the realities of working as an FBI profiler, sharing her insights into high-profile cases, including those involving intimate partner violence. They cover the heartbreaking case of Vashti Forrest, a mother of two killed in 2011 after filing for divorce from her abusive husband, Brett Seacat, a police officer. Julia sheds light on the warning signs of domestic violence, the psychology of offenders, and the emotional toll of such investigations. As the host of highly rated The Consult: Real FBI Profilers podcast, Julia offers an honest, in-depth look at the complexities of FBI profiling, debunking myths often portrayed in TV and film, and providing a deeper understanding of criminal investigations.

guest links | Julia Cowley
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-consult-real-fbi-profilers/id1586909557
https://open.spotify.com/show/4BRyHb1KZjdGYrMfu2zMeM
https://www.truecrimeconsult.com/ 
https://facebook.com/theconsultpod
https://www.instagram.com/theconsultpod/
https://www.twitter.com/theconsultpod 

links
lovelustfear
https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/
lovelustfridays
https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridays
Jake Deptula
www.instagram.com/jaked3000
Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/
Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher
https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch
www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 

Additional Links
Strictly Stalking Podcast - Featuring Julia Cowley “Real FBI Profiler”
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/207-real-fbi-profiler-julia-cowley/id1494237083?i=1000640310287
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2rHGTzMSo5J6FjEx0jvqvP
FBI Retired Case File Review Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fbi-retired-case-file-review/id1082012464
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Case Source Links

State of Kansas v. Brett T. Seacat, Supreme Court of Kansas, 15 January 2016

Brett T. Seacat v. State of Kansas, Court of Appeals of Kansas, 11 February 2022

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Introducing: Ice Cold Case — In 2002, Madison McGhee’s father, John McGhee, was shot and killed in his own home in Belmont County, Ohio. Driven by her desire to find justice she began conducting her own investigation into his murder that remains unsolved to this day. The police investigation did not yield any significant leads, leaving Madison and her family with more questions than answers - until now. Join her not only on a quest for justice, for closure, for answers and she stops at nothing to answer this question: Who Killed J.C. McGhee? It doesn’t get more personal than this.

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EPISODE TITLE: A Case as Cold as Ice

This is the story of what happened to J.C. McGhee on July 11, 2002 according to police records — some of which may not be entirely accurate nor adequate. Twenty years later, the search for answers begins.

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Ice Cold Case is brought to you by Yes!

It is written and produced by Madison McGhee

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In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michele Locke are joined by Heather, who previously shared her emotional journey in episode 18 of lovelustfear, titled "I Did Not Want to Lose This Man." Heather opens up about her battles with self-worth, controlling relationships, and emotional and psychological abuse, revealing how she found the courage to break free and rebuild her life. Heather and Michele also discuss their unique rivalry-turned-friendship, shedding light on the complexities of love, vulnerability, and personal growth. The conversation delves into Heather's experiences navigating the worlds of fitness competitions and the legal community, highlighting how predatory attitudes, misogyny, and gossip have impacted her life.

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Ashley and Ricky, the dynamic duo behind Crime Salad, bring their unique perspectives and captivating storytelling to unravel some of the most intriguing criminal cases. With each episode, they dive deep into the details, providing listeners with a thought-provoking exploration of the darker side of humanity. Join them every week as they serve up a chilling dish of true crime that will leave you craving for more.

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