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Accountability looks different for all of us, but ultimately, it’s making sure that everyone involved in your D/s relationship does what they say they will — and if they (or you) don’t, you deal...

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Let’s be very clear and set expectations up front — we’re not giving a lesson on how to add micromanagement to your power exchange. We’re not qualified to do that, although we know it’s...

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This week’s episode is a response to things we’ve seen online and things said to us — and it’s our line in the sand and our flag in the ground. The Loving BDSM community...

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Everyone goes through times when things don’t go according to plan, from vanilla life to your kinky fuckery. Disappointment is universal, but it’s what we do next and how we think about it that...

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It’s episode 201, the last one before the holidays, and the last one before we take a couple of weeks off. So we took the easy way out and made this a giant bonus...

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O…M…GEEEEEEEE, we reached 200 episodes of the podcast! Also, it’s nearly the holidays, so we gave ourselves a break. We asked for your questions — on social media AND during the weekly live stream....

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Long time listeners will know this topic right away — we’ve done it every holiday season for the past four years! We’re breaking down our favorites from all the sex toys we’ve tried this...

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Happy holidays! We recorded the day before Thanksgiving, and the podcast goes live on Black Friday, so neither of us had the mental space to come up with a deep topic. So we answered...

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We geek out over setting goals, achieving them, and making progress on the things we want to do in life. And yes, that includes in our D/s relationship and our kinky fuckery. Even if...

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What it means to be independent is as unique to each of us as what it means to be submissive. But for anyone trying to win the affection, trust, and submission of a person...

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