Magnetic With Madelyn

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In this episode, I sit down with Kayne Buik, the man behind the viral Hey Honey accounts on TikTok and Instagram, for an honest conversation about inner child healing, owning your toxic patterns and what it takes for a man to feel safe being vulnerable.

Kayne opens up about being the poster child for toxicity in a past relationship, the moment he sat on the edge of his bed crying and knew he needed something different, and the $70K he has invested in self-development since. We talk about why your future is a well-rehearsed past until you change the script, the 777 and 888 signs that led me to the Gold Coast, and why you're never too late and never too early.

If you want your partner to be more vulnerable, Kayne shares what you need to be ready for first. And if you've been hiding parts of yourself to keep the peace in a relationship, his advice on laying it all on the line from the very first date is one to hear.

In this episode, we cover:

• How Kayne went from being the toxic one in his relationship to healing his inner child

• How do you heal your inner child, and why your future is a well-rehearsed past

• Why one-on-one talk therapy was the least effective form of healing for Kayne

• Letting go of mum guilt when your kids will still have their own experience of you

• Angel numbers, signs from the universe and what 777 and 888 mean to us

• How to trust the universe and trust the process when nothing seems to be moving

• Why people pleasing and toxicity are both strategies, and how to take the armour off

• If you want your partner to be more vulnerable, why you have to accept all of it

• Why most people don't truly know their partner, and dating advice for women on showing up as yourself from the first date

• How to stop people pleasing and give from a fuller cup

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Why change feels hard, and what to do when you're doing the inner work but your outer world hasn't caught up yet → https://open.spotify.com/episode/7mSyD4yVipgNt7Eu6Qc90M

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Magnetic with Madelyn is a podcast about identity, self-leadership, spirituality and mindset. New episodes every Monday.

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In this episode, Madelyn shares her biggest takeaway from a recent Joe Dispenza audio, and why changing your life feels so hard when everything around you still looks the same.

She walks you through what it means to think, act and be different in the same environment. The inner shift comes first, and your outer world can take three to six months or longer to catch up. If you've been doing the inner work and it feels like nothing is changing, this is your reminder that you're not failing.

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In this episode, we cover:

• Why changing your life feels so hard, through the lens of Joe Dispenza's work

• How to change yourself when your environment stays the same

• What it means to think, act and be as your higher self before anything outside you shifts

• Why the inner shift comes first and your outer world takes time

• Why it can take three to six months or longer to see your life change

• Why it can feel like your manifestation isn't working when you're doing the inner work

• How to spot the small signs your external world is starting to shift

• Being greater than your body, your environment and time

• Why your mind and body resist the unknown, and why that's where the most growth happens

• Choosing a new thought on purpose to reprogram your mind

• Why ambitious, self-led women keep moving the goalposts, and how to see how far you've come

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In this episode, Madelyn shares why you feel stuck and how to make an identity shift, even when the fear is still there.

She explains why your identity is a perception of self you can change and self-worth shapes the way you view things.

This episode explores self-concept, personal development and what it takes to choose your higher self every single day.

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In this episode, we cover:

• Why six months is happening either way, and the quote from Erin Camilleri that sets the tone

• How to move from consumption to implementation once you understand your fear

• Bringing awareness to where fear is holding you back and the negative stories on loop

• Why your identity is a perception of self you can change

• How a story of not feeling enough shaped Madelyn’s early success, and why she wishes she could go back and hug that version of herself

• “No one’s gonna hand me that if I don’t hand it to myself”: choosing to believe in yourself

• Mental rehearsal and the nightly habit Madelyn uses for her future self

• Why feeling stuck in the in-between is one of the most expansive places to be

• Timeline shifting made simple: making decisions from your higher self

• Letting go of control and choosing trust, faith and surrender

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Carry your main character energy into every day. Build your future self profile and identity roadmap with me, live, inside my Magnetic Woman Mentorship ✨ → https://v2.stan.store/MadelynCarafa/p/magnetic-woman-mentorship

In this bonus episode, Madelyn guides you through a main character energy meditation to help you feel confident, capable and worthy.

This guided meditation for confidence grounds you, calls in a golden light of confidence, trust and authority, and helps you see yourself handling real moments in your life with grace and unwavering self-belief.

Madelyn shows you how to meet any doubts or fears with compassion, remembering they are part of you but not your identity.

Through a visualisation meditation, you’ll see your future self fully embodying your main character energy, then anchor it with affirmations for confidence and self-worth.

This meditation is a moment of personal growth to come back to whenever you need to remember that you’re the author of your story.

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In this episode, we cover:

• Grounding your body with breath and roots connecting you to the earth

• Calling in a golden light of confidence, determination, trust and authority

• Seeing yourself handle a real moment at work, in a relationship or in a decision with grace and self-belief

• Feeling your energy expand so you become magnetic to opportunities and the support you need

• How to meet doubts and fears with compassion, without letting them become your identity

• A future self meditation to see yourself achieving your goals and thriving in your relationships

• Affirmations for confidence and self-worth: “I am my main character. I am confident, capable and worthy.”

• Carrying self-trust and confidence with you into the rest of your day

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In this episode, Madelyn guides you through a future self meditation to meet the version of you living one year from today. This guided meditation invites you to step outside the noise, the expectations and the shoulds, and reconnect with the woman who trusts herself and makes decisions from her higher self rather than fear.

Through a gentle visualisation meditation, Madelyn takes you above your life and into space, where you watch a year unfold beneath you. You’ll land beside your future self and notice how she carries herself and what she no longer tolerates. Then you’ll step into her and bring her home with you.

This higher self meditation shows you how to embody your future self, and reminds you that the woman you’re strengthening is already within you.

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In this episode, we cover:

• A guided meditation to step outside the noise, the expectations and the shoulds

• Slow, intentional breaths to soften your body and release what you’ve been carrying

• A visualisation meditation that lifts you above your life and into space

• Watching a year of choosing yourself and listening to your intuition unfold

• Meeting your future self one year from today

• Noticing what she’s normalised, what she no longer tolerates and what she trusts now

• Why she’s magnetic: because you stopped abandoning her

• Stepping into your future self for an identity shift you can feel in your body

• How to keep living as her after the meditation, one decision at a time

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In this episode, Madelyn shares how to stop letting fear rule your life, and why overcoming fear starts with accepting that it will always be there. Fresh from her first Melbourne Magnetic Woman Dinner Party, where 38 women filled the room and most of them came alone, she shows you what happens when you feel the fear and do it anyway.

Madelyn opens up about her own fear of judgement and of being misunderstood on Instagram since becoming a single mum, and the moment in a cafe when she chose to share anyway. She walks you through how zooming out shrinks fear, and why judgement is a mirror. She also covers the Big Magic idea from Elizabeth Gilbert that changed how she sees her desires, and how strengthening new parts of yourself creates a real identity shift.

This episode explores how to move forward when fear is holding you back and become the woman who goes after her dreams.

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In this episode, we cover:

• Why fear will always exist, even after eight years of podcasting

• How fear can become the CEO of your life and decide which opportunities you say yes or no to

• What 38 women walking into a dinner party alone taught Madelyn about feeling the fear and doing it anyway

• Giving your authority, trust and energy to your desires instead of your fear

• The Big Magic philosophy by Elizabeth Gilbert, and why someone else will launch your idea if you don't

• How to zoom out when fear of judgement shows up

• Why judgement from others reflects their inner world, and how to check where you're judging yourself

• How fear disguises itself in stories like "I have nothing to wear" or "I have no one to go with"

• Strengthening new parts of yourself so you can make decisions from your higher timeline

• How small, brave moments build self-trust and confidence

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Magnetic Woman Mentorship

A high touch, close proximity space for the purpose led woman who are ready to step into her next evolution with confidence, trust, alignment and presence. 

Live with Madelyn, this is where you shift your identity to achieve the goals and desires you set. 

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In this episode, Madelyn shares her full live masterclass, How to Upgrade Your Identity in the Next 90 Days. She explains why she spent years circling the same goals, and why shifting your identity first is the fastest way to change your reality.

Madelyn walks you through her own identity shifts, from becoming a mum at the peak of her business to rebranding the podcast while going through a separation. She then teaches her framework step by step. First you create your future version profile. Then you build an identity roadmap that turns the woman you want to become into daily decisions, practices and evidence.

This masterclass explores how to become your future self by strengthening the version of you that already exists.

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In this episode, we cover:

• Why shifting your identity first is the fastest way to reach your goals

• How Madelyn realised she didn't have the identity to hold what she was learning from business coaching

• Why every version of you already exists, and you only need to strengthen it

• How fear disguises itself as excuses like "I don't have enough money" or "now isn't the right time"

• Why fear and excitement feel the same in your body

• Building self-trust by following your intuition, and the story behind rebranding the podcast

• How to create your future version profile using "I am the type of person who" statements

• Rewriting your inner dialogue and the stories on repeat

• The six parts of an identity roadmap: identity gap, pillars, anchors, embodiment practices, experiments and environment

• A month-by-month plan to upgrade your identity in 90 days

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In this episode, Madelyn and health and fitness coach Danni Duncan, have an honest conversation about health, cancer and miscarriage. 

Danni shares the mindset that has carried her through some of life’s hardest moments and opens up about how cancer changed the way she sees her health and her life.

This conversation explores what it means to do hard things and choose courage over fear. 

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In this episode, we cover:

• Danni’s experience with bowel cancer at 40

• How cancer and miscarriage shaped her outlook on health and fitness

• Building resilience through grief and difficult seasons

• Choosing courage over fear during life-changing decisions

• Why discipline matters more than motivation

• Developing mental strength through positive self-talk

• Authenticity and dealing with online judgement

• Finding purpose through painful experiences

• Why Danni refuses to wait for “one day” to start living

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In this solo episode, Madelyn explores the idea that misalignment is not always a sign that you have failed or taken the wrong path. Sometimes it can be the beginning of your awakening.

She shares what it feels like to get everything you thought you wanted and realise it no longer feels aligned. From relationships and business decisions to the version of success you thought would fulfil you, misalignment can offer the clarity you need to understand yourself and choose a more authentic path.

Alignment does not always feel easy. Sometimes, it means having hard conversations, setting boundaries and finding the courage to let go of what no longer feels right.

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In this episode, we cover:

• Why misalignment can become your awakening

• Getting everything you wanted and still feeling unfulfilled

• Manifesting from old wounds, scarcity or societal expectations

• Using misalignment as information rather than failure

• Why true alignment can feel uncomfortable

• Trusting your intuition and building self-trust

• Setting boundaries and letting go of what no longer fits

• Making hard decisions from your future self

• Navigating fear, uncertainty and discomfort

• Creating a life that feels as good as it looks 

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In this episode, Madelyn opens up about ending her 15 year relationship, navigating life as a single mum and rebuilding her identity while grieving the future she once imagined. 

She shares the spiritual belief that changed how she sees life’s hardest seasons: that we each came here to master something, and our challenges may be preparing us for what lies ahead. 

This episode explores how two truths can coexist: you can grieve your old life while loving the new one, and feel sadness and fear alongside freedom and hope. 

If you are moving through separation, an identity shift or a season that looks nothing like you expected, this episode is a reminder that your hardest chapter may be teaching you exactly what you came here to master.

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In this episode, we cover:

• Madelyn’s decision to leave her marriage after 15 years

• Navigating separation, co-parenting and single motherhood

• Grieving your old life while rebuilding your identity

• Why we may each be here to master something

• Finding meaning and growth within difficult experiences

• Moving through fear, change and uncertainty

• Choosing who you become when everything changes

• Allowing grief, joy, sadness and hope to coexist

• Strengthening patience, faith and trust

• Finding yourself again while starting over

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