In this episode, Libby talks about repair, how essential it is to having secure relationships, and outlines the steps for how to make a good repair.

*From Libby: to my listeners who have been following this podcast for awhile, this is to replace the episode "If You Break if, Fix It" - which was pulled, because it didn't say what I wanted it to say. I'm much much happier with this version, which is VERY different. 

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SHOW LINKS

Ed Tronick's Work on Repair

Study of Parents and Preschoolers and Repair

Gottman Insitute: Repair is the Secret Weapon of Emotionally Connected Couples

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Libby shares her most important advice for people who are breaking up or on the brink (and even if you're not) -- slow down.

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SHOW LINKS

Breaking up on Valentine's Day

Normalizing Non-monogamy interview on Relationship Transitions

Download the Peaceful Relationship Transitions Playbook

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Libby gives some sex advice for your long-term relationships. It's good. Just listen.

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SHOW LINKS

Watch the Movie: Friend with Benefits

7 Ways To Make Practicing Affirmative Consent Sexy

27 Alternatives to Asking "Is This Okay?"

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In this episode, Libby talks about disruption and offers a 5 step process to move through it more easily.

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MORE READING

3 Vital Skills for the Age of Disruption

How to Find Meaning in Suffering

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Libby talks about the importance of repair in relationships.

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In this episode, Libby gets real about what COVID-19 means for polyamorous people, but how it's also teaching all of us an essential lesson about our relationships - which is that autonomy is an illusion. We need that lesson right now. But we also always did.

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Things look pretty different in the world today than they did two weeks ago. Libby has a message for everyone as we face down new and challenging circumstances.

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In this episode, Libby talks about keeping your attention and energy toward what's really important.

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SHOW LINKS

Kimchi Cuddles

The comic I referenced

Download the Relationship Vision Worksheet

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EVENTS WHERE LIBBY IS PRESENTING

Atlanta Poly in Atlanta, February 29, 2020

Southwest Love Fest in Tucson, April 3-5, 2020

RelateCon in Boise, April 24-26, 2020

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In this episode Libby talks about how to navigate things when metamours don't want to be friends.

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EVENTS WHERE LIBBY IS PRESENTING

Atlanta Poly in Atlanta, February 29, 2020

Southwest Love Fest in Tucson, April 3-5, 2020

RelateCon in Boise, April 24-26, 2020

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Sign up for coaching at http://talktolibby.com