In this episode of the Strong New York Podcast, host Kenny Santucci sits down with Rich Diviney—New York Times bestselling author and former Navy SEAL—for a powerful conversation on performance, mindset, and resilience under pressure.

Rich breaks down the difference between skills and attributes, why attributes matter most in moments of stress and uncertainty, and how mastering fear and adaptability can elevate performance in every area of life. The conversation also explores dopamine regulation, transitioning from elite environments like the SEAL teams or professional sports into civilian life, the grounding role of family, and how anyone—regardless of background—can uncover purpose and drive meaningful personal growth.

Packed with actionable insights and real-world stories, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to perform better when it matters most.

00:00 Introduction and Sponsor Shoutout

00:27 Guest Introduction: Rich Diviney

00:51 Understanding Attributes vs. Skills

02:17 Nature vs. Nurture: Developing Attributes

03:27 Attributes in Everyday Life

05:05 Attributes in High-Performance Teams

07:20 Navy SEAL Training Insights

19:02 Entrepreneurial Attributes

23:36 Managing Fear and Anxiety

28:31 Navigating Uncertainty and Anxiety

29:03 Creating Your Own Pathway and Outcome

30:11 The Power of Small Goals

31:53 Managing Dopamine for Motivation

33:57 Finding Purpose and Setting Objectives

37:28 Transitioning Identities and New Challenges

50:38 Gratitude and Movement for a Better Life

51:45 Final Thoughts and Advice