If you know something is wrong, wouldn’t you want your doctor to listen? How does it feel to advocate for yourself with no success? My guest shares her story of dealing with postpartum depression for years while she tried to advocate for herself. Listen in to see how she finally found healing, and why she shares her story with honesty and openness.
Jessica Mirisis lives in Massachusetts and is the mother of three girls, ages 2, 6, and her stepdaughter, age 12. Jessica works as an RN and helps her husband run their two businesses.
Jessica battled several issues with maternal mental health for years, not getting the help she needed.
Show Highlights:
In May 2012, her first daughter was born, about the time she graduated from nursing school, got married, and bought a houseWith her pregnancy, she was sick all the timeHer labor was slow and long, the baby came four days early, and she had low iron after the birthHer breastfeeding struggles for 6 weeks and then switching to formulaHow her baby didn’t sleep well and woke up every 3 hours to eatHer husband tried to tell her doctor that something was “off”How Jessica continued to struggle with motherhood and going back to workHer frustration and anger that continued for almost 2 yearsAgain, she tried to tell her doctor that something was wrong, that she wasn’t sleeping, and that she was angry and frustrated----but the doctor discounted her feelingsWhy Jessica saw a psychiatrist and therapist on her ownWith her 2nd pregnancy, the anxiety increased and the constant sickness returnedWhy she had a scheduled C-section to avoid another long, hard deliveryWhen her daughter was born, her in-laws came for an extended visit and Jessica still felt the anger and frustrationShe started Zoloft, but wasn’t getting any better an continued to go downhillThe wine rack incident that was the last strawWhy she switched to another psychiatristAnother episode that scared herJessica’s hard time functioning as a mom, with suicidal thoughts and desires to run awayHow the psychiatrist suggested a partial hospitalization that helped immenselyThe group sessions, where people actually listened and helped herJessica’s youngest daughter was almost 2 years old before she started to feel betterThe diagnoses: generalized anxiety, major depressive disorder, PTSD, and panicJessica’s new “8 pm rule” and how it helps her every dayHow journaling has helped herWhy she finally feels ready to return to work as a nurse and begin helping others againWhat Jessica wants others to know about postpartum depression: “Motherhood is not all rainbows and butterflies. Take the advice of others, but make your own decisions.”Her advice to others who may be going through postpartum depression: “You may not even realize what’s going on. Talk to someone who can help and keep going.”Jessica’s rules she lives by now in her recoveryHow postpartum depression can affect the entire family---not just the mom
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