In this episode, Elizabeth and Elisha unpack what they're calling "girl rage" — the wave of awakening happening for so many women right now as they begin to recognize the deeper realities of power, patriarchy, and systemic harm. But this isn't just about rage. It's about what comes after. Because waking up doesn't automatically make you effective. And how you arrive in these conversations matters more than most people realize. Experience the conversation face-to-face—head over to YouTube to watch the episode HERE In this episode
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What "girl rage" actually is — and why it's surfacing now
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The emotional whiplash of awakening to systemic truth
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Why new awareness can come with ego, shame, or overwhelm
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The difference between participation vs performative leadership
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Why we don't need more "experts" — we need self-leadership
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How shame slows movements and keeps people stuck
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The trap of centering your feelings instead of the work
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Systemic vs personal thinking (and why it changes everything)
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The concept of triage — where your energy actually matters most
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Why focusing on the right problems is more important than being right
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How to engage without collapsing, overperforming, or derailing progress
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Letting go of needing everyone to wake up
At the core of this conversation is a shift in perspective:
This isn't personal. It's systemic.
And once you see that, the question becomes:
Where is your energy actually useful?
Because movements don't stall from lack of awareness.
They stall from lack of focus, containment, and effective action.
This episode is a call to:.
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stop centering your own emotional process in collective spaces
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stop waiting for everyone else to catch up
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and start participating in ways that actually move things forward
It's also an invitation to bring more:
humility, curiosity, and discernment
into conversations that are often fueled by urgency, anger, and overwhelm.
Because real change doesn't come from who's the loudest.
It comes from who's willing to show up, focus, and do the work.
Work with us:
Elizabeth DiAlto
- Connect with Elizabeth
- @elizabethdialto
Elisha Tichelle
- Connect with Elisha
- @elishatichelle_co