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Now for today's episode of The Know, we have Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri and I diving deep into narcissism and its effects within a family dynamic. Tune in to find out more!

In this episode…  

• Family roles 
• The Golden Child 
• Narcissism legacies 
• The Scapegoat Child 
• IFS & EMDR 
• The Peacekeeper Child 
• The Personal Assistant Child 
•  The Invisible Child 
• The Truth Seer & Truth Teller Children 
• The Adherent Child 

Quotes

“You can not have an identity for yourself if you want to be a part of a family that is narcissistic.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri 

“I feel that narcissists would like to believe they are immortal. Cognitively they know they are going to die so they need somebody who can continue their legacy which falls onto a child.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri

 

“The scapegoat children are most likely to wind up as victims in relationships and are prime to be a partner of a narcissist because of their upbringing.” - Nikki Spo 

“Let’s not keep revisiting the trauma. Let's really heal from the emotions that the trauma left behind.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri

“The peacekeeper child becomes a people pleaser and learns to put themselves last and never take care of themselves.” - Nikki Spo

“We should not be placing adult responsibilities, emotional or physical, on children.” - Nikki Spo 

Timestamps:

0:00 - 2:45 | Mastermind

2:45 - 4:35 | Intro

4:35 - 9:00 | Family roles

9:00 - 13:25 | The Golden Child

13:25 - 20:15 | The Scapegoat Child

20:15 - 25:30 | Trauma from family origin & IFS

25:30 - 29:15 | The Peacekeeper Child

29:15 - 32:10 | The Personal Assistant Child

32:10 - 35:05 | The Invisible Child

35:05 - 41:25 | The Truth Seer & Truth Teller Children

41:25 - 43:00 | The Adherent Child

43:00 - 46:35 | Moving away from making choices out of habit

46:35 - 49:07 | Outro

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