How do we talk to them so that they comprehend what we're saying and so that we can maneuver them out of our lives.

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S3 E7 Thursday, Feb 16, 2023:

Your Well-Being Is What Matters Most

Make every decision you make, every action you take rooted in your well-being.

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S3 E7

Audiobook Narration from Breaking Up With Evil Book 1. Caryn, Entry 07, Flat Out Wrong

You know the moment when it slams in place that this is flat out wrong? You might not understand what it is, you might not leave yet, but you know: This will never be okay.

Breaking Up With Evil Book 1 is five women's stories of meeting Mr. Perfect, discovering none of it is perfect and making their escape into recovery and restoring their lives.

Breaking Up With Evil, Book 1, available on Amazon

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Bonus episode: This trauma is singular and begins the moment we meet them. Embrace your life with compassion. 

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NAU listeners leave voice messages for me on the podcast platform. Here are answers to three of those questions.

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Lying 24 hours a day seems exhausting. Not to the pathological parasitic predator.  The way their minds work makes lying normal. Reality is lies, lies make reality. Find your freedom in how they think.

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Did you feel that “pull”…? That grab in your gut? The electric charge that took over and altered your path in life?

Have you heard the children’s verse about the spider and the fly?

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The Spider and the Fly, by Mary Howitt

“Will you walk into my parlour?” said the Spider to the Fly,

“‘Tis the prettiest little parlour that ever you did spy;

The way into my parlour is up a winding stair,

And I have many curious things to shew when you are there.”

“Oh no, no,” said the little Fly, “to ask me is in vain,

For who goes up your winding stair can ne’er come down again.”

“I’m sure you must be weary, dear, with soaring up so high;

Will you rest upon my little bed?” said the Spider to the Fly.

“There are pretty curtains drawn around; the sheets are fine and thin,

And if you like to rest awhile, I’ll snugly tuck you in!”

“Oh no, no,” said the little Fly, “for I’ve often heard it said,

They never, never wake again, who sleep upon your bed!”

Said the cunning Spider to the Fly, “Dear friend what can I do,

To prove the warm affection I’ve always felt for you?

I have within my pantry, good store of all that’s nice;

I’m sure you’re very welcome–will you please to take a slice?”

“Oh no, no,” said the little Fly, “kind sir, that cannot be,

I’ve heard what’s in your pantry, and I do not wish to see!”

“Sweet creature!” said the Spider, “you’re witty and you’re wise,

How handsome are your gauzy wings, how brilliant are your eyes!

I’ve a little looking-glass upon my parlour shelf,

If you’ll step in one moment, dear, you shall behold yourself.”

“I thank you, gentle sir,” she said, “for what you’re pleased to say,

And bidding you good morning now, I’ll call another day.”

The Spider turned him round about, and went into his den,

For well he knew the silly Fly would soon come back again:

So he wove a subtle web, in a little corner sly,

And set his table ready, to dine upon the Fly.

Then he came out to his door again, and merrily did sing,

“Come hither, hither, pretty Fly, with the pearl and silver wing;

Your robes are green and purple–there’s a crest upon your head;

Your eyes are like the diamond bright, but mine are dull as lead!”

Alas, alas! how very soon this silly little Fly,

Hearing his wily, flattering words, came slowly flitting by;

With buzzing wings she hung aloft, then near and nearer drew,

Thinking only of her brilliant eyes, and green and purple hue–

Thinking only of her crested head–poor foolish thing! At last,

Up jumped the cunning Spider, and fiercely held her fast.

He dragged her up his winding stair, into his dismal den,

Within his little parlour–but she ne’er came out again!

And now dear little children, who may this story read,

To idle, silly flattering words, I pray you ne’er give heed:

Unto an evil counsellor, close heart and ear and eye,

And take a lesson from this tale, of the Spider and the Fly.

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 Under their influence, our lives are topsey-turvey. As we try to unwind it all...It's hard to see what they are. We gotta. Let's make the fact act this hijackings happen an accepted part of life... So they don't happen.

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Topsy-Turvey: Yeah, This Happens, Season 03 Episode 02

The word "narcissist" is used a lot these days. It's mostly an unfortunate mix up and muddle of two things that we already have words for.  There's kind of no such thing as a "narcissist", but there are sociopaths and there are dysfunctional people. It doesn't matter what you call them, as long as you know there's only one monster.

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