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This week, Billy’s in Los Angeles and he’s linking up with Jacob Willis from the Just Us Podcast to break down the #1 first date mistake that’s probably keeping you single — yes, YOU. 👀

From awkward vibes to oversharing trauma to showing up like you already planning the wedding... we’re unpacking why your first dates might not be hitting like you think. Jacob brings the realness, the laughs, and the perspective you didn’t know you needed.

Whether you're boo’d up, tired of ghosting, or tryna figure out why you never get that second date — this episode is for you.

🎙️ Special Guest: Jacob Willis (@jacobwillsofficial)
📍 Live from: Los Angeles, CA
📚 Hosted by: Billy The Bad Guy (@billy.thebadguy)

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In this episode, Billy catches up with the lovely Renay and things get real. From AI giving better relationship advice than your bestie, to how technology might actually be the thing saving our situationships—nothing is off-limits. We also get into friendship dynamics, Renay’s upcoming birthday (turn up loading 🎉), and Billy finally moving… but did he make a purchase he already regrets? (Of course he did.)

It’s laughs, life, and a little lowkey therapy—just the way we like it. Tap in!

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In this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy the Bad Guy teams up with the hilarious and unfiltered Renay (@renayproppa on IG) to break down one of the messiest topics in the workplace—how to flirt with a coworker without ending up in HR. We’re giving you signs to look for if they actually like you back, and what you should NEVER do when shooting your shot in the breakroom.

Then we slide right into our next lesson: The Common Mistakes Friends With Benefits Make. Spoiler alert—it’s not just catching feelings. We’re studying the missteps, the red flags, and the unspoken rules that get ignored way too often.

Grab your notebook, this episode is full of tea, chaos, and “oh damn, that’s me” moments. Let’s get into it.

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Renay is back, and class is officially in session! After stepping away to grieve the loss of her father, she returns to share her healing journey and opens up about navigating grief while trying to keep it all together.

This week’s syllabus is loaded:
💸 How to ask a man for money without feeling broke or embarrassed
👄 Why some say oral cheating hits harder than sex
💔 Grief, healing, and showing up when your world falls apart

It’s real, it’s raw, and it’s still messy in all the best ways. Tap in and take notes — you don’t wanna miss this lesson.

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Welcome back to Needs to be Studied! In today’s lesson, I’m joined by the hilarious and insightful host of the Safe and Secure Podcast for a no-holds-barred convo that might just get us both detention. We’re talking Marriage vs. Dating—the pros, the cons, and the straight-up confusion.

From messy hall passes to getting expelled from situationships, we’re pulling out our old report cards and sharing wild dating stories from our younger, toxic years (yes, class, we had extra credit in chaos). Whether you’re applying for your marriage license or still getting played on the playground, this episode is full of laughs, lessons, and late-night confessions.

Grab your notebooks, take attendance, and get ready to study these relationship dynamics—because baby, this one needs to be studied! 🎒📚💋

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Ever wondered what really turns you on? Spoiler alert: You might be kinkier than you think! 👀🔥

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the world of kinks, desires, and sexual exploration with Sir Leezus, a kink advisor who helps people unlock their hidden pleasures. We’re breaking down how to discover your true kinks, the biggest misconceptions about exploring BDSM and polyamory, and why so many people are afraid to embrace their freaky side.

We also get hands-on with sensory play, take a deep dive into breath play, and discuss the importance of aftercare in kink dynamics. Whether you’re a total newbie or already deep in the lifestyle, this episode is packed with juicy insights that will expand your pleasure and boost your confidence in the bedroom.

Press play and find out:
 🔥 How to figure out what kinks you secretly enjoy
 🔥 The #1 myth about polyamory & BDSM
 🔥 What sensory play is and how to try it
 🔥 Breath play—why some love it & the risks involved
 🔥 The importance of aftercare & how to do it right

This is a judgment-free zone, so get comfy and let’s unlock some desires together. You just might surprise yourself!

📲 Follow & Connect:
 Follow Sir Leezus: @sirr.leezus
Follow Needs to be Studied: @billy.thebadguy | @needstobestudiedpod
🎧 Listen now & subscribe for more spicy conversations! 🚀

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Billy is joined by Mistress Nita for a spicy crash course in sex party survival! 🌶️ In this sizzling episode, we reveal the steamy secrets of what goes down at a sex party, expose the hidden vetting process, and teach couples how to avoid rookie mistakes and master boundaries before getting hot and heavy. Plus, in our "Needs to Be Studied" segment, we show you how to find the perfect party that matches your vibe—how to spot red flags, ensure inclusivity, and keep it safe. Get ready to turn up the heat!

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In this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy is joined by Esh from the Esh Your Heart Out podcast for a deep dive into the complex dynamics between love, friendships, and personal growth. We explore why people often lose friends when entering a new relationship, backed by studied research and real-life experiences.

But that’s not all – we also dig into sex phobias, breaking down what they are, why they happen, and how they can be addressed. Plus, Esh and Billy discuss the benefits of embracing singlehood and how taking time for yourself can lead to personal empowerment and growth.

It’s all about finding balance between love, friendships, and self-love, so grab your notebooks and join us in class for this insightful, fun, and risqué conversation!

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In this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy’s kicking it with Esh from the Esh Your Heart Out podcast to talk about something we’ve all felt at some point – losing friends when you get into a new relationship. We’re breaking it down with the real research that shows why this happens and what’s really going on when your friendship circle starts shrinking.

But wait, we’re not stopping there. We also get into sex phobias – yup, they’re real, and we’re unpacking what they are, why they happen, and how you can work through ‘em. Plus, we’re diving into why being single isn’t a bad thing, and how owning your singlehood can level you up in ways you didn’t even know.

So grab your pens, class is in session – let’s talk about love, friendships, sex, and the power of doing your own damn thing.

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Is it chemistry or compatibility that really matters in love? 🤔 In this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy and Wolf break down why we keep falling for the wrong ones and whether that instant spark is actually a red flag. 👀💔

We also get into:
🔥 Billy’s latest ghosting situation—was he wrong or justified? 👻
🔥 Spicy Valentine’s Day tips to make this year one for the books 😈💘
🔥 The difference between a "roster" according to Billy vs. Wolf—who’s got it right? 👀

This one is messy, unfiltered, and guaranteed to make you rethink your dating strategy. Tap in! 🎧

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