Real Love Scenario

New Year, Same Patterns? Let’s Set Real Love Intentions


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New year… same patterns?In this Real Love Scenario episode, Dre and Rhonda unpack what it really means to set intentions for love in the new year — for both singles and couples.
We talk about how to stop repeating old patterns, let go of pressure, and build a deeper relationship with how you love — not just whoyou love.
💭 Topics We Explore:
  • Intentions vs. resolutions (clarity, not pressure)
  • Pattern-based dating vs. purpose-driven dating
  • How to set love goals that are actually healthy
  • What intentional partnership looks like (beyond vision boards)
  • Rhonda’s tips for singles & Dre’s advice for couples

🔁 Pattern or Intention?“I just want to see what happens” = Pattern“I want consistency, not just chemistry” = Intention“I’m choosing peace this year” = Let’s break that one down…
💚 For Singles:
  • Date with clarity, not urgency
  • Vet for alignment, not just attraction
  • Take breaks without giving up

💞 For Couples:
  • Improve communication, not just commitment
  • Repair, don’t avoid conflict
  • Be intentional with time, affection, and appreciation

✍🏽 Try This:Choose one word for your love life this year.Write 3 intentions, not outcomes.Ask yourself: What can I give, not just what do I want?
🧠 Wrap line: “You don’t need a new relationship — you need a new relationship with how you love.”
💬 Drop your word for the year in the comments!
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