Plan to be tortured for eternity if you stick around. It will never be a win for you, until you take your power back. Set boundaries and stick to them. A narcissist doesn't want you if you're weak and don't want to keep you if you're strong, even though they chased you to lock you down. It doesn't matter. They only wanted you to start the abuse process. That is why you're experiencing the hurt now. Please start matching the energy they're giving you and move accordingly. Don't let them take you out of character. Move with class. Do it safely and tastefully.