Becoming: HER with Nikki Spoelstra

Oh, So You’re Dating?! with Evan Marc Katz. Ep. 138


Listen Later

What is up fam and welcome back to The Know! I am SO excited for today’s episode as I am joined by THE OG dating coach Evan Marc Katz. He specializes in helping smart 👏🏼 successful 👏🏼 women create LONG LASTING LOVE.


Raise the bar, girly. Never again settle for a dissatisfying relationship. Literally, my favorite episode I’ve ever recorded. Don’t miss it. 


In this episode… 

  • Percentages & The Dating Pool
  • But what do you REALLY want?
  • What does your perfect Saturday look like with your partner?
  • HAVING A ROSTER
  • What’s on your relationship checklist and WHY
  • NOT ignoring the red flags 🚩 
  • Relationship CEO energy 
  • Compatibility vs. similarities 
  • Assume the answer is YES
  • Compromising vs. Settling
  • Sex exclusivity and having THAT convo



Quotes: 


“My belief is that good relationships are easy.” - Evan Marc Katz 


“One of the things that I find really surprising is that women are supposed to be the more sensitive and intuitive sex, and yet they're more likely to ignore their feelings than men.” - Evan Marc Katz 


“My central metaphor for my ‘Love You’ course is that women are the CEOs and men are the interns.” - Evan Marc Katz 


“You settle your way into misery. You compromise your way into happiness.” - Evan Marc Katz 



Timestamps: 

0:00 - 3:20 | Introduction 

3:20 - 4:40 | Talking about what you WANT to talk about 

4:40 - 7:45 | Differences between being a coach vs. therapist 

7:45 - 13:15 | Finding the right one 

13:15 - 15:20 | Relationship stigmas against women 

15:20 - 18:45 | Getting rid of the relationship checklist 

18:45 - 23:30 | Listening to your emotions 

23:30 - 25:12 | Opposite of CEO energy in relationships 

26:18 - 28:50 | Compatibility 

28:50 - 34:35 | Why we always assume the answer is yes with men 

34:35 - 36:05 | Compromising 

36:05 - 41:40 | Sex for single women 

41:40 - 45:10 | Exclusivity 

45:10 - 47:58 | Outro 


--

SANA SKIN STUDIO is my #1 go-to spot for self-care. My favorite facial is the Super Glow, and you can get $25 off of your first facial when you book at www.sanaskinstudio.com with my code THEKNOWGLOW.


Connect with Evan Marc Katz 

https://www.evanmarckatz.com/ 

@realevanmarckatz 


Connect with Nikki 

www.nikkispo.com  

@nikkisappspo@theknowwithnikkispo 




Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-know-with-nikki-spo/donations

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Becoming: HER with Nikki SpoelstraBy Nikki Spo

  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7

4.7

103 ratings


More shows like Becoming: HER with Nikki Spoelstra

View all
The School of Greatness by Lewis Howes

The School of Greatness

21,305 Listeners

Love Life With Matthew Hussey by Matthew Hussey

Love Life With Matthew Hussey

2,697 Listeners

Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald by Heather McDonald & Studio71

Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald

25,602 Listeners

Call Her Daddy by Alex Cooper

Call Her Daddy

165,736 Listeners

EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™ by To Be Magnetic™

EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™

3,281 Listeners

Not Skinny But Not Fat by Dear Media, Amanda Hirsch

Not Skinny But Not Fat

6,112 Listeners

The Viall Files by Nick Viall

The Viall Files

25,602 Listeners

On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

27,238 Listeners

Conversations with Cam by Dear Media

Conversations with Cam

1,575 Listeners

Jillian on Love by Jillian Turecki | QCODE

Jillian on Love

1,366 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,604 Listeners

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari by Dear Media

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari

3,609 Listeners

The David Ghiyam Podcast by David Ghiyam

The David Ghiyam Podcast

596 Listeners

Confessions of a Female Founder with Meghan by Lemonada Media

Confessions of a Female Founder with Meghan

3,014 Listeners

Scrubs to Stilettos by Dr. Tiffany Moon & Dr. Nicole Martin

Scrubs to Stilettos

117 Listeners