Pamela Mohr has had a 27-year career in fundraising and development at several large organizations, including the American Cancer Society and NYU Langone and Northwell Health, where she’s the Senior Director of Development. Author of the 12 Things I Wish I Knew Before Getting a Divorce blog, she’s been divorced for almost 5 years and is the mom of a nine-year-old son. We talk about what it was like being the breadwinner, especially when her ex tried to use it against her. Wendy and Pam share their connection, and we learn the surprising minute Pam realized her marriage was over. We talk breaking points, setting boundaries, and having tough conversations with young kids.