Parenting with Impact

By Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane DempsterEducation Self-Improvement Parenting Kids & Family

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January 29, 2025EP199: Relatable Social Skills for Kids with ADHD with Ryan Wexelblatt
Raising kids with ADHD can be a journey filled with unique challenges and incredible growth opportunities. In this episode, we dive into a dynamic and insightful conversation with Ryan Wexelblatt, widely known as the ADHD Dude. We’ll uncover powerful strategies to help parents guide their children with ADHD toward greater independence and resilience. From cultivating a growth mindset to tackling social and executive function hurdles, this episode equips parents with practical tools to empower their kids to flourish.

Don’t miss this episode with Ryan Wexelblatt and discover effective ways to support your child’s development and unlock their full potential.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
How parents can foster resilience by avoiding over-accommodation
Insights into the concept of “anti-fragility” and why kids are more resilient than we think
Practical strategies to transition kids from prompt dependence to independence
The importance of fostering social executive function skills and the role of unstructured play
Why skill development is inconsistent and how parents can support progress over time

About Ryan Wexelblatt
Ryan Wexelblatt, known as the ADHD Dude, is a licensed clinical social worker, ADHD-certified provider, and founder of ADHD Dude. With 20+ years in special education, he specializes in practical, evidence-based strategies for children and teens managing ADHD. A father to a child with ADHD, he offers both professional expertise and personal insight. Based in Philadelphia, Ryan contributes to ADDitude Magazine and CHADD, speaks at the International Conference on ADHD, co-hosts the ADHD Guys Podcast, and reaches families worldwide through his ADHD Dude YouTube channel.

Connect with Ryan:
Website: https://www.adhddude.com/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ADHDDude

Related Links:
Welcome to Parenting With Impact:
https://tinyurl.com/3dsedjd6
Behavior Therapy:
https://tinyurl.com/5n85at37
Parenting Young Boys with Difficult Behaviors:
https://tinyurl.com/2jtaw2ss
Re-Imagining Parenting: 7 Resilience Strategies for Today’s World:
https://tinyurl.com/3ybf8jtp
Changing What Kids Believe About Themselves:
https://tinyurl.com/7nbjn8w3
Pediatric Neurologist on Parenting ADHD: Focus on What Matters:
https://tinyurl.com/sbpshh5u
Effective Child Therapy.org
https://tinyurl.com/4xay937d
https://tinyurl.com/2s4c6ndd

Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.

Connect with Impact Parents:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents
X: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents
27 min
January 22, 2025EP198: ADHD & Sleep pt 2: Getting Kids In & Out of Bed
Bedtime battles for younger kids, sleep schedules for older kids, and morning chaos for everyone are some challenging transitions for parents and kids alike! In this episode of Parenting with Impact, Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster return to tackle sleep challenges in part two of their discussion. They explore how parents can apply the coach approach to foster collaboration, problem-solving, and resilience during these tricky times. From addressing executive function challenges to experimenting with creative wake-up solutions, this episode is packed with practical insights to help families transition smoothly in (and out) of sleep routines.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
Why transitions like going to bed and waking up are especially hard for kids
How to identify the real problem behind sleep struggles and where to begin
The importance of collaboration: involving your kids in finding solutions
Mindset shifts: moving from “won’t” to “can’t” and assuming best intentions
Creative and effective experiments to address sleep and wake-up challenges

Related Links:
Articles by Ari Tuckman, Roberto Olivardía, Dr. David Pomeroy, and Dr. Lisa Shives on the ImpactParents.com website
https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/it-all-starts-with-sleep/
https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/kid-with-adhd-cant-sleep/
https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/child-need-sleep-doctor/
https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/adhd-sleep-trouble/

An article written by Elaine, "Why can't I put myself to sleep?" http://touchstonecoaching.com/blog/2010/3/15/why-cant-i-put-myself-to-bed.html

EP196: Why Sleep Is SO Hard for Neurospicy People (& what to DO about it)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep196-why-sleep-is-so-hard-for-neurospicy-people-what/id1565976964?i=1000683159184

Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.

Connect with Impact Parents:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents
X: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents
27 min
January 15, 2025EP197: School Advocacy: What Parents Need to Know with Alyson Young
Navigating the school system can be overwhelming for parents of children with learning differences. In this episode, Elaine Taylor-Klaus sits down with Alyson Young who shares key information about what parents need to understand to advocate for kids with learning challenges. Tune in to learn how to unlock your child's potential and navigate school support systems and IEPs like a pro!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
A clear breakdown of remediation, accommodation, and modification
Why children with learning differences often slip through the cracks
How to see a diagnosis as empowering information
Practical advice on how to navigate the educational system
Actionable steps for advocating effectively for children with learning differences

About Alyson Young
Alyson Young, Owner of The Learning Lab, is a dedicated advocate for struggling learners. Having taught in diverse educational settings, she witnessed the challenges faced by students with learning differences, such as ADHD and Dyslexia. Recognizing that traditional approaches often fall short, Aly decided to take action. With a background in psychology and sociology, she founded The Learning Lab to provide a tailored learning environment that fosters success and confidence in these children.

Connect with Alyson Young:
Website: https://learninglabfl.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/learninglabfl/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alyson-young-sld/

Related Links:
School Refusal:
https://tinyurl.com/yh37h7xw
When the School Says No…How to Get the Yes!: https://tinyurl.com/mrxwnrh5
Helping 2E Kids Reach Their Academic Potential:
https://tinyurl.com/yckatayb
Redefining Success For Parents, Students, and Teachers: https://tinyurl.com/m7h5mxpx
What To Expect For This School Year:
https://tinyurl.com/2wm79835

Video and Article from Elaine's daughter, Sydney:
https://tinyurl.com/bdjtapkb
https://tinyurl.com/mryxpc6u

Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.

Connect with Impact Parents:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents
X: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents
29 min
January 08, 2025EP196: Why Sleep Is SO Hard for Neurospicy People (& what to DO about it)
Are you someone with neurodiversity who’s struggling with sleep? Join us as we dive into the unique challenges of sleep for neurodiverse individuals and explore why it’s often a struggle for families. From uncovering the deeper reasons behind sleep difficulties to sharing actionable tips for building healthier habits, this episode is packed with insights. Tune in to discover how to transform your nights and wake up ready to take on the day!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
Why sleep is often a challenge for families with neurodiverse children and adults
Understanding the connection between ADHD, executive function challenges, and disrupted sleep cycles
The importance of identifying circadian rhythms and tailoring solutions to individual sleep patterns
How transitions like falling asleep, waking up, and staying asleep impact neurodiverse families
Tips for parents to move from "fix-it mode" to collaboration when addressing sleep struggles

Related Links:
Articles by Ari Tuckman, Roberto Olivardía, Dr. David Pomeroy, and Dr. Lisa Shives on the ImpactParents.com website
https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/it-all-starts-with-sleep/
https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/kid-with-adhd-cant-sleep/
https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/child-need-sleep-doctor/
https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/adhd-sleep-trouble/

An article written by Elaine, "Why can't I put myself to sleep?"
http://touchstonecoaching.com/blog/2010/3/15/why-cant-i-put-myself-to-bed.html

Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.

Connect with Impact Parents:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents
X: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents
23 min
January 01, 2025 Episode 195: Highlight Reel: Impactful Moments & Guidance from 2024
Have you ever thought about that word: Parenting?Parenting is actually about us, not about our kids. Sure, part of the job of parenting is 'child-rearing,' or 'raising kids,' or whatever you want to call it. With one of my kids, I used to say that it is "my privilege to supervise her while she raises herself." But really -- parenting is not about them. It's about WHO we're BEING while we are doing the work of loving them and guiding them. Our journey is to be with them on their journey -- and that can get complicated sometimes. Messy. Confusing! If you are a parent who knows that this journey of parenting is definitely calling on you to learn some stuff -- if you know that your spiritual or emotional journey in life is being challenged -- then tune in to some highlights from this year's podcasts about the Inside Adventure of Parenting And remember -- however or wherever you are on this fascinating journey of yours -- we're glad that you're on it with us! Related Links:Why Focus on Parents? Complex Kids Need Our Guidance: https://youtu.be/me7EkzVWUnAParents: Are You Making Your Kids Your Job?: https://youtu.be/nkzQZ0h_5v4The Parent Paradox: Avoid 'Fix-It Mode' for Better Problem-Solving: https://youtu.be/726RKC7-8-kWhen it Feels Like It's All Just Too Much: https://youtu.be/bGCCSYUdIaMRecognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
37 min
December 25, 2024 Episode 194: Inspiring Stories: Celebrating Parent Successes
Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they highlight their Impact Parent success stories. In this special episode of Parenting with Impact, you will hear clips from inspiring success stories from our very own Impact Parents. These clips and stories are the best from this year. You can find link to the full episodes below. Related Links:Success! Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Home: https://youtu.be/CcHgigVXwFkSuccess! A Mother’s Journey From Shame to Acceptance: https://youtu.be/nXuBh5n8DEg?si=V9xAbko0eE8G-UTESuccess! “Dad’s Fun, But I Can Talk to Mom About Anything”: https://youtu.be/xcrGRr8TvSMParent Success! What We Wish We'd Known 10 Years Ago: https://youtu.be/xGyCYpwvhE8Success! Embracing Neurodiversity: A Journey in Parenting and Coaching: https://youtu.be/SbN75MWckn4 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
47 min
December 18, 2024 Episode 193: A Psychiatrist's Perspective on ADHD & Autism
Dr. Brandi Bolling is a triple-board-certified psychiatrist and pediatrician specializing in ADHD and autism spectrum disorders. With nearly a decade of experience and approximately 20,000 patients seen, she empowers mothers and educators to support children with ADHD through her concierge practice, speaking engagements, and annual ADHD summit. Dr. Brandi earned a neuroscience degree from Vanderbilt University, an MD from Meharry Medical College, and completed her triple board residency at Indiana University School of Medicine. Passionate about mental health awareness, she engages audiences via media, panels, keynotes, and her weekly Facebook livestream, *Focus on It Friday*. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Brandi Bolling about ADHD and autism.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Dr. Brandi points out subtle signs such as dark eyes and unique staring behaviors in children with autism that may go unnoticedDr Brandi explains embracing a spectrum-based understanding is essential, particularly when dealing with cases where ADHD coexists with autism.Dr. Brandi discusses the importance of celebrating children's uniqueness regardless of their diagnoses. Connect with Dr. Brandi:Website: http://www.rbpsychiatry.com/meet-the-teamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrBrandiBFocus On It Fridays: https://www.facebook.com/DrBrandiB/videos Links Mentioned:Website: http://www.rbpsychiatry.com/meet-the-teamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrBrandiBFocus On It Fridays: https://www.facebook.com/DrBrandiB/videos“Autism Spectrum Disorder: Putting the Pieces of the Puzzle Together”: https://www.facebook.com/profile/100063686375210/search/?q=autismShine: Understanding ADHD So Your Child Can Be a Star!: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/164484379X/?tag=im0ea3-20Recommended treatment for ADHD: https://impactparents.com/help-for-parents/recommended-treatment/Parenting Through Denial: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/parenting-denial/Keys to Parenting Autism: Education, Coaching & You!: https://youtu.be/HUtbvMo4kbkMissed Diagnosis: Autism In Girls: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mz-CRQTOnHkImproving Practices, Diagnosis, and Treatment of ADHD: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlARVMSmk6UWhat Your Kids Want You To Know About ADHD: https://youtu.be/eZ1DbKYSQxMRaising a Child with ADHD: Keeping Focus on What Matters: https://youtu.be/Bsjr6BErTAc Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
29 min
December 11, 2024 Episode 192: Navigating Big Emotions with ADHD (Ours & Theirs!)
One of the trickiest aspects of parenting with ADHD is that, very often, the best parenting strategies -- the ones that help our kids the most -- require calm, well-regulated parents. And that’s not always easy to accomplish when parents have their own big emotions. In this conversation, we’ll identify at least 2 of the 10 main differences in an ADHD brain that create more intense negative emotions (in kids and adults), and get guidance on 2 essential components to manage those challenges. We’ll talk about why ADHD brains feel their feelings so intensely, and how we can manage our own emotions even when our kids are pushing every last button. Marcy Caldwell, Psy.D. is a clinical psychologist, writer, and proud mom of 2 in a family full of ADHD who has been helping adults with ADHD thrive for over twenty years. She is a passionate advocate for adults with neurodiverse brains and is dedicated to helping them create environments that unlock their unique genius. Marcy is the founder of ADDept.org, a blog and digital resource for adults with ADHD, the owner and director of The Center for ADHD, and the creator of Meltdown to Mastery, an innovative digital program that helps adults with ADHD learn to better regulate their emotions. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Marcy Caldwell, Psy.D. about navigating emotions.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Marcy highlights that individuals with ADHD tend to amplify negative stimuli while minimizing positive ones, leading to a cycle of negative emotional feedback and self-perception.Marcy emphasizes the importance of allowing oneself to experience a range of emotions, including big joy, anger, and sadness.Marcy shares the concept of decreased early sensory encoding in ADHD brains; this phenomenon causes individuals to process negative information more intensely than positive information, leading to heightened negative emotions. Links Mentioned:Website: www.thecenterforadhd.com ADDept Blog: https://www.addept.org/living-with-adult-add-adhdBut I Don't Want To! The Emotions Behind Procrastination: https://youtu.be/7X2hr-iC9hASimple, Safe & Connected -- Tips to Navigate Big Emotions: https://youtu.be/-Uy-sTH_JxgTakeaway from This Year's International Conference on ADHD: Part 1 Emotional Awareness and Insights about ADHD: https://youtu.be/zNr3C8K4f2k?si=s2twU_DVwovuT_9WThe Emotional Impact of ADHD: https://youtu.be/R6F6eueSdm8Emotional Labor: Not Just Women's Work: https://youtu.be/MNoS4lrWZecParenting Anxious Childhood Emotions: https://youtu.be/ff5hXtdem5YConnect with Marcy:Website: www.addept.orgWebsite: www.thecenterforadhd.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ADDept.orgYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.marcycaldwellInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.marcycaldwell/ Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
35 min
December 04, 2024 Episode 191: From Undiagnosed ADHD to Dope Black Dad
To say that this conversation is inspirational and heartfelt, thoughtful and emotional, and fundamentally captures all that this summit intends to convey to our listeners -- well, that’s an understatement. This conversation with Marvyn Harrison offers a fresh perspective on what it means to be an adult diagnosed with ADHD, what it means to be a black man diagnosed with and treated for ADHD, what it means to be a father with ADHD, a partner, an entrepreneur, a thought-leader. You get the picture. This conversation is a meta conversation about ADHD. And while it will appeal to everyone, it’s likely that it will resonate most with the adults with ADHD who are continuously trying to understand and manage themselves. Marvyn Harrison is a visionary business consultant driving cultural change through BELOVD, working with clients like WPP, Footlocker, and News UK. As the founder of Dope Black Dads and Dope Black Men, he inspires greater change, advocating for the Black community across the UK, US, and Africa. A media contributor on platforms like Good Morning Britain and BBC 5Live, Marvyn has also authored two children’s books, *I Love Me* and *The Best Me,* and is writing a guide on personal transformation for men. His late-life ADHD diagnosis fuels his impactful work. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Marvyn Harrison about fatherhood and undiagnosed ADHD.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Marvyn discusses his journey towards self-discovery and understanding his late-life ADHD diagnosis and the need for conscious in managing the condition.One crucial tip shared by Marvyn revolves around the importance of being present and tuned in to your children's needs.Marvyn points out, "There is no program to help men better at home. It's just kind of do it because it's the right thing to do." This calls for a more supportive and inclusive approach to fatherhood, acknowledging the diverse roles and responsibilities that dads undertake. Connect with Marvyn:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/discoverwithmarvyn/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marvinharrison/Website: https://dopeblack.orgRelated Links:Co-Parenting with Elaine & David: Real Strategies to Improve Family Dynamics: https://youtu.be/UKb1jMlQ71o Success! “Dad’s Fun, But I Can Talk to Mom About Anything”: https://youtu.be/xcrGRr8TvSM Paradox: High Achieving Adults with ADHD: https://youtu.be/VUbEgYQCVKM Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
43 min
November 27, 2024 Episode 190: Social Growth & Emotional Intelligence in Children (Part 2)
Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss emotional intelligence and social dynamics.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane explain understanding one's own emotions and being empathetic towards others are key components of emotional intelligence.Building a supportive environment within the family involves prioritizing relationships and self-care, Elaine and Diane note.Elaine and Diane acknowledge that social skills develop over time and require patience. By meeting children where they are and guiding them towards healthier interactions, parents can empower them to navigate social dynamics effectively. Related Links:What is Going to Happen to my ADHD Child in the Future?: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/adhd-child-in-future/Did Social Anxiety Make Me a Leader?: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/did-social-anxiety-make-me-a-leader/Deal Them In: Using Playing Cards for Social Skills: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/deal-them-in-using-playing-cards-for-social-skills/7 Ways to Socialize With Your Child With ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/7-ways-to-socialize-with-your-child-with-adhd/Raise Your Child's Social IQ: Stepping Stones to People Skills for Kids by Cathi Cohen, LCSW: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0966036689/?tag=im0ea3-20Why Will No One Play with Me?: The Play Better Plan to Help Children of All Ages Make Friends and Thrive by Caroline Maguire, PCC, M.Ed. with Teresa Barker: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1538714833/?tag=im0ea3-204 Clues that Family Members are Stressed (& 3 Tips to Help): https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/stressed-family/ Ways to Improve Emotional Intelligence: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/ways-to-improve-emotional-intelligence/ To Worried Parents of Complex Kids: You are Not Alone: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/to-worried-parents-of-complex-kids-you-are-not-alone/ Empathy: A Magic Wand to Connect with Complex Kids & Teens: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/empathy-a-magic-wand-to-connect-with-complex-kids-teens/ What To Do When Kids Push Back With Sass and Disrespect: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/what-to-do-when-kids-push-back-with-sass-and-disrespect/ How to Help (Without Enabling) Your Kid: The Four Roles of the Parent: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/how-to-help-without-enabling-your-kid/ Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
27 min

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The Parenting with Impact Podcast with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster, co-creators of ImpactParents.com, inspires parents and professionals guiding complex kids, teens and young adults all…