Parenting with Impact

Why is it so hard for your child to ask for help? Making the transition into independence can often backfire when your kiddo will not ask for help when they need it. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the reasons kids have a hard time asking for and accepting help, and how we can prepare them to seek assistance when they need it.Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:What are the common reasons people don’t ask for and accept help?Is it helping or is it controlling? Learning the difference and helping your kid to trust you will assist and not take over.Needing help does not mean you are inadequate. How can you model seeking help for your child?Guiding your child into directing YOU in how you can help them. Related Links:Watch Episode 68: The Independence Pyramid  Watch Episode 92 Pushing the Reset Button to Solve Problems CollaborativelyRelationship By DesignHelp Your Complex Kids Be Independent (especially in the mornings) How to Help Your Kids Ask for the Help They Need Teach Your Kids to Ask for Help – A Mother’s Success Story  Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/@impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There are many highly successful adults living with ADHD. No matter what time in their lives they were diagnosed, they often have common struggles. The paradox of knowing they are smart yet feeling stupid. Feeling like an impostor. Questioning whether a treatment is right or not.Casey Dixon is a respected Life Coach with a unique focus on science-based, innovative, collaborative coaching for attorneys, professors, and high-achieving professionals with ADHD. She founded Dixon Life Coaching in 2005 as a new beginning to her 15-year career of working with both kids and adults with ADHD in schools and universities. Since then, Casey has become recognized for helping clients excel in authentic and creative ways using ADHD-informed approaches. Casey is known for reliably facilitating direct results without judgment.  Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Casey Dixon about high achieving professionals with ADHD and how to work through the struggles they often face.Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Under the surface of a highly successful adult with ADHD is often a sea of struggles.Managing ADHD while achieving success and finding a balance that doesn’t leave you exhausted and overextended.Taking the complexity out of living well with adult ADHD with treatment and support. Related Links:Mindfully ADD Success! Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Home with Melanie Sobocinski ADHD Online Video: Where’s Your Curiosity?The Mindfulness Prescription for Adult ADHDIf I Had Known — Lessons from a Mom of an ADHD AdultHow to Manage ADHD Effectively: 6 Fundamental StepsPut Yourself First, MomUsing Stress to Help Performance, Anxiety and Self-EsteemConnect with Casey:www.dixonlifecoaching.comFacebookX (FKA Twitter)LinkedIn Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Will your neurodiverse child get into college? According to college admissions consultant Michelle McAnaney, the answer is a resounding YES! But just when you think it's all figured out, a sudden twist leaves parents wondering if they're truly prepared for the transition to college life...Michelle McAnaney founded The College Spy® with this mission: Help students identify colleges that are a good fit for them and get accepted. Michelle is an expert in college admissions and a leader in her field. She has over 20 years of experience as an educator, counselor and consultant, assisting students in making smart choices to reach their full potential. She is current on the latest trends in college admissions. Her extensive admissions knowledge is coupled with firsthand experience with the colleges and universities your student will be considering. She visits approximately 40 colleges each year, attending information sessions and open houses, taking tours and meeting with admissions officers.  Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Michelle McAnaney about navigating the college admissions process with your complex teen.12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too! Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Keys to a smooth transition from high school to college for complex kids.Grasp a better understanding of college disability services and accommodations available.Fostering independence and managing anxiety to ensure college success.Remember that your child will change and grow over time, so keep researching and understanding all the options available.Encourage your child to take ownership of the process as much as possible, but be there to support and guide them as needed. Connect with Michelle:Website X (formerly Twitter)  Facebook  Related Links:Parents of College Bound Students with LDs, ADHD and ASD Facebook Group  College Admissions 101 (parents of 9-11) for Parents of Neurodivergent Students Course  Ep 79 Leveling The Playing Field: Accommodations in HS and College   Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Elaine & Diane:Instagram @impactparentsFacebook @impactparentLinkedIn @impactparentsTwitter @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you struggle with getting your child to do things? Does it feel like no matter what you do, it is a struggle to motivation your child to ____. We can fill that blank with countless things: homework, clean their room, exercise, chores, be on time… Well, you may be surprised to learn that traditional motivation tactics often backfire. Elaine and Diane have a dynamic way to help your child with the P.I.N.C.H. method. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the truths and myths around motivation and what it really takes to get your child invested in doing something.Motivation GuideIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:What is the role of motivation in getting things done?When it looks like your kid lacks motivation, what is really happening?If your child does not have internal motivation, it does not mean a lack of moral values.What are the 5 motivators in P.I.N.C.H., and how can they be applied? Related LinksAre You Getting Stuck in Information Land?Effective Agreements  Interview with Radio Host, Jeff Copper, on Parenting & ADHDWhat Kids Think Parents Should Know About ADHD & MotivationLessons for Kids from the Olympics: Hyper-Focus, Motivation & PassionADHD Behavior Management – Is It All About Teaching Motivation?There are Only 5 Motivators for People with ADHDHow do I Motivate my Child to Turn in Homework?How do I Motivate My Child to do…Anything!?Getting Unstuck: It Depends on your Point of View  Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just when Jennifer Gay Summers thought she had it all figured out, her world was turned upside down. Her child, Lee, was diagnosed with ADHD and other learning disabilities, shattering her expectations of traditional parenting. But instead of giving up, Jennifer dove headfirst into researching and advocating for her child's needs. She discovered the importance of meeting her child where they are, rather than forcing them to conform to societal norms. What resulted was a journey of growth and resilience.Jennifer Gay Summers is a dedicated mother and former teacher who journeyed through her child's unique learning needs from a young age. As her child struggled with ADHD, sensory processing disorder, and anxiety, Jennifer decided it was time to let go of traditional expectations and meet her child where they were. Her perseverance in finding the right support for her child, coupled with her advocacy skills, has helped countless parents like her embrace and navigate the complexities of raising children with diverse needs.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Jennifer Gay Summers about making the shift form traditional parenting to the journey of parenting the child she has and meeting them where they are.Ten Self Care Tips for ParentsDo you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Discover the intricacies of raising a child with ADHD and other disabilities.Learn the value of self-education and advocacy when supporting a child with unique needs.Explore the art of releasing traditional expectations and embracing a more personalized approach.Delve into coping with grief and celebrating the unique attributes of one's child.Uncover the power of memoir writing in sharing experiences and raising awareness. Connect with Jennifer:Website Facebook Instagram  Article Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Andrea Pollack's life took an unexpected turn when her two-year-old son was diagnosed with autism. It was a heartbreaking moment that forced her to leave her promising legal career behind. But little did she know that this decision would eventually lead her to become a renowned parenting coach, helping other parents navigate the challenges of raising neurodivergent children. Her approach is unique, focusing on personal growth and self-reflection for parents, which ultimately benefits the entire family. Join us as we explore Andrea's fascinating journey and learn how she's helping parents create more fulfilling parenting experiences for themselves and their neurodivergent children.Andrea Pollack is a dedicated and compassionate advocate for parents navigating the complex world of raising neurodivergent children. With over two decades of personal experience as a mother to an autistic son, she understands the unique challenges and triumphs of parenting children with different needs. Having left her career as a practicing attorney to homeschool her son, Andrea realized her true calling was to empower and support other parents. Committed to a holistic approach, she combines her educational background with valuable coaching techniques to help families thrive through personalized, problem-solving strategies. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Andrea Pollack about discovering the key to helping your complex kid- YOU!Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Shift your perspective by understanding the value of focusing on your child's capabilities.Decipher the hidden motives behind challenging behaviors exhibited by children with autism.Embrace essential self-care practices for parents to ensure balance and optimal support. Related Links:A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?  The Coach-Approach to Parenting Recommended TreatmentConnect with Andrea:autismparentsolutions.comFacebook  Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Elaine & Diane:Instagram @impactparentsFacebook @impactparentLinkedIn @impactparentsTwitter @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the vast sea of information, it is easy to get stuck in the land of information. Oftentimes, we begin to apply this new knowledge, but get held up in the details and end up getting stuck with information that we cannot implement, leaving us where we started. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss how to go beyond learning strategies and tools, and get into implementation and customization for your kid and your needs.Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Transformation requires information, integration, implementation; you cannot simply stop at information.It is important to understand repetition and improvisation when implementing ideas for change.Strategies alone are not always enough, especially if they are not used in an effective context.What are the “magic 3 questions” to ask yourself if you don’t think a strategy is working? Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Related Links:Is Coaching For You?The Coach Approach to ParentingWhat To Look for in a Behavior Therapy Program for ADHDRecommended TreatmentWhat is Behavior Therapy for ADHD? (Part 1)What To Look for in a Behavior Therapy Program for ADHD Connect with Elaine & Diane:Instagram @impactparentsFacebook @impactparentLinkedIn @impactparentsTwitter  @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you're feeling frustrated and helpless as you watch your child (or yourself) struggle with ADHD symptoms, despite trying various interventions and treatments, then you are not alone! Many parents and healthcare professionals have faced the challenge of medical bias, which has hindered accurate diagnosis and effective treatment of ADHD for far too long.In 2020, Kelly accidentally discovered she had ADHD at the age of 48. This revelation was absolutely life-changing. Since then, Kelly has dedicated her life to learning about ADHD. She is extremely passionate about spreading awareness and empathy for ADHD in general, but in women and girls in particular. She understands how much harder it is for females to find a knowledgeable and compassionate provider.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Kelly Pickens about the history of a smear campaign against ADHD, how much progress the ADHD has made, and how much farther there is to go. AND, how you can better attain effective treatment!Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Examine the history of bias against the diagnosis and treatment of ADHD within the healthcare system. Investigate the fascinating roots of ADHD and its (lack of) acceptance as a mental health disorder. Gain insights into how ADHD interacts with other health challenges and its effect on longevity.  Related Links:Adverse Health Outcomes  article by Dr. Russell Barkley Article on ADHD Lawsuits Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder: A Handbook for Diagnosis and Treatment By Dr. Russell Barkley  Connect with Kelly:www.uaadhd.com Facebook  Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Elaine & Diane:Instagram @impactparentsFacebook @impactparentLinkedIn @impactparentsTwitter @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you are feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and exhausted because your current parenting strategies are not improving your relationship with your complex child, then you are not alone! This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Ellen joins us on today's podcast to share her story of navigating the challenges of raising a complex child. Having weathered the storms of parenting and feeling unprepared for the challenges that come with a complex kid, she eventually found her guide in the community-driven support system of ImpactParents. Ellen and her husband are parents of a creative and curious 16-year-old son who was assessed and diagnosed with ADHD when he was in Middle School. Ellen began to realize that as academic demands increased, so did her son's reaction to them. She became really curious about what was behind his behavior.  Through her involvement in several Impact Parents programs with Elaine and Diane, Ellen now clearly understands the value of engaging in parent coaching. She arrived feeling exhausted, confused, and frustrated. She has grown over the past few years after a lot of hard work and truly appreciates all that Impact Parents provide: compassion, support and community, and the continued sharing of knowledge and scientific findings.  Listen to this inspiring Success Stories Edition of Parenting With Impact episode with Ellen about turning to community for support in parenting a complex child. Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens:Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Unlock wisdom to navigate the high seas of parenting complex children towards victorious outcomes.Learn how reshaping expectations can positively influence your parenting style for complex children.Uncover the potent impact of community support to uplift parents of complex children.Unbox the potentials of the coach approach for an enriching parenting experience with complex children.Grasp the significance of self-care, adaptability, and introspection in molding the life of your complex child. Related Links:Talking to Kids About Their Neurodiverse Brains  with Dr. Liz AngoffDon’t Panic! Your Kid’s Not Broken  with Debbie ReberDifferently Wired  by Debbie ReberExecutive Function Skills: What Every Parent Needs to Know  with Seth Perler Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Elaine & Diane:Instagram @impactparentsFacebook @impactparentLinkedIn @impactparentsTwitter @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you want to create a more harmonious and peaceful atmosphere within your family? Are you looking for a solution to improve conflict resolution and achieve better relationships with your loved ones?Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they share the key to fostering improved dynamics and creating a more united and supportive family unitRecommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens: Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Navigate your way through family conflict resolution techniques.Unpack methods for helping children preserve ties with both parents.Absorb strategies for staying impartial and empathetic during family disputes.Unravel the process to bypass the savior or defender role in family fights.Unearth pivotal ways to boost considerate communication and mutual understanding among family members. Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools   Related Links:Register for the 2023 ADHD Parents’ Palooza!  The 4 Sources of Conflict in Your Family Part 1 The 4 Sources of Conflict in your Family Pt 2  Effective Agreements  Relationships by Design   Connect with Elaine & Diane:Instagram @impactparentsFacebook @impactparentLinkedIn @impactparentsTwitter @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices