Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast

In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve breaks the silence around erectile dysfunction (ED), a condition that is far more common than most people realize but rarely discussed openly regarding sexuality.

Eve explains what ED actually is and explores both the physical and emotional factors that can contribute to it, including stress, circulation issues, hormonal imbalance, and performance anxiety. She also discusses how ED can sometimes overlap with premature ejaculation and what that may signal about overall sexual health.

The conversation highlights the powerful role of nutrition in supporting erectile function, including how certain foods can improve blood flow and vascular health. Eve also shares simple, practical steps listeners can take at home to begin improving sexual performance and vitality naturally.

In addition, she breaks down different treatment options—from lifestyle changes and natural approaches to medical interventions—while explaining why therapies like Acoustic Wave Therapy are gaining attention as a non-invasive option for improving blood flow and erectile function.

This episode is a clear, supportive guide for anyone wanting to better understand ED, improve sexual health, or explore natural ways to support stronger, more confident intimacy.

What You’ll Learn

• What erectile dysfunction is and why it happens

• The link between ED and premature ejaculation

• Physical and emotional causes of ED

• How nutrition impacts sexual performance

• Foods that support blood flow and erectile health

• Natural approaches vs. medical treatments

• How Acoustic Wave Therapy works for ED

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this empowering episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Katherine McCord, international speaker, entrepreneur, and founder of The Neuroverse, to explore neurodiversity, invisible disabilities, and how they intersect with intimacy, sexuality, and self-understanding.

Katherine shares her lived experience navigating eight invisible disabilities and how neurodiversity has shaped her relationships, identity, and sexual wellbeing. Together, she and Eve break down the stigma and misunderstanding often surrounding disability and intimacy, offering a compassionate and honest perspective on what it means to connect with yourself and others in a neurodivergent body and mind.

The conversation highlights the importance of communication, consent, and adaptability in relationships, especially when navigating trauma, sensory differences, or accessibility needs. Katherine also shares practical insights on self-acceptance, advocating for your needs, and exploring intimacy in ways that feel safe, authentic, and empowering.

This episode is a reminder that there is no “one way” to experience sexuality or connection—and that honoring your individual nervous system, needs, and boundaries is key to building fulfilling relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• How neurodiversity and sexual health intersect

• Ways invisible disabilities can impact intimacy and relationships

• Why communication is essential for accessible intimacy

• How to break stigma around disability and sexuality

• The importance of self-acceptance and self-advocacy

• How to explore intimacy in neurodivergent-affirming ways

Connect With the Guest

Katherine McCord

Founder of The Neuroverse

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Anneke Elmhirst, relationship & sexuality coach specializing in polyamory, kink, and neurodivergent relationship dynamics, to explore the foundations and realities of ethical non-monogamy.

Together, they unpack what polyamory actually looks like beyond the stereotypes, breaking down different relationship structures such as kitchen table polyamory, parallel polyamory, and hierarchical arrangements. Anneke shares how these models can help people design relationships that align with their values, needs, and emotional capacity, rather than defaulting to traditional monogamous norms.

The conversation also explores the concept of “infinite love” and how expanding our understanding of connection can reshape jealousy, attachment, and intimacy. Eve and Anneke discuss how communication, honesty, and emotional awareness are essential in building sustainable ethical non-monogamous relationships.

Anneke also explains how coaching differs from therapy, especially when working with clients navigating shame, desire, and alternative relationship styles. She offers insight into how individuals and couples can move through fear and stigma to create more authentic, fulfilling connections.

This episode is a grounded and accessible guide for anyone curious about polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, or expanding their understanding of love and relationship structure.

What You’ll Learn

• What ethical non-monogamy and polyamory really mean

• Different types of polyamorous relationship structures

• How “infinite love” shifts relationship dynamics

• The role of communication in non-monogamous relationships

• How coaching supports relationship growth and shame work

• Tips for exploring kink and polyamory communities safely

Connect With the Guest

Anneke Elmhirst

Relationship Coach (Polyamory, Kink & Neurodivergence)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Davida Elizabeth Arnold, founder of We The Aunties, for a powerful and uplifting conversation about menopause, community, and reclaiming joy & your sexuality through every stage of hormonal change.

Davida shares how a life-altering experience inspired her to create We The Aunties, a wellness collective dedicated to supporting underrepresented menopausal women through education, programming, and joy-led experiences. Her mission is to reframe menopause as a continuum of transformation rather than a decline.

Together, Eve and Davida break down perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause, exploring common symptoms like brain fog, bone loss, mood shifts, and changes in libido. They also discuss practical strategies for navigating these changes with more ease, awareness, and support.

The conversation explores hormone replacement therapy (HRT), including its benefits, common misconceptions, and the importance of advocacy when seeking care. Davida emphasizes how crucial it is for women to feel informed and empowered when making decisions about their health.

At the heart of this episode is the importance of community, joy, and sexual wellbeing—highlighted through initiatives like We The Aunties’ MooMoo parties, which create safe, celebratory spaces for women to reconnect with themselves and each other.

This episode is a reminder that menopause is not an ending, but an evolution—one that can be filled with confidence, pleasure, and connection.

What You’ll Learn

• Why menopause is a continuum, not a single stage

• Common symptoms and how to navigate them

• The role of HRT and common misconceptions

• How to advocate for yourself in healthcare

• Why community and joy matter during menopause

• How sexual wellness supports midlife wellbeing

Connect With the Guest

Davida Elizabeth Arnold

Founder of We The Aunties

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this thought-provoking episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Mia Sivan, author of steamy contemporary romance novels, to explore feminine power, identity, and the complex dynamics of relationships, sexuality, and self-discovery.

Mia shares her personal journey from a successful career in finance to becoming a fiction writer, explaining how stepping away from a structured, male-dominated industry allowed her to explore creativity, desire, and themes of empowerment through storytelling. Together, she and Eve discuss how her work challenges traditional expectations of women, particularly around power, ambition, sexuality, and independence.

The conversation dives into the parallels between power dynamics in finance and intimate relationships, especially within BDSM and ethical non-monogamy. Mia reflects on how communication, consent, and emotional intelligence are essential foundations in both romantic and sexual dynamics, and how these themes show up in her writing.

Eve and Mia also explore the importance of writing strong, unapologetic female characters who embrace both vulnerability and authority. They highlight how literature can be a powerful tool for reshaping cultural narratives around women, sexuality, and leadership.

The episode also touches on multicultural representation in romance fiction, drawing from Mia’s own experiences and the importance of reflecting diverse identities and relationship structures in storytelling. To close the conversation, they bring in a playful and creative exploration of fantasy, offering a glimpse into Mia’s storytelling style and imaginative approach to intimacy.

This episode is a celebration of breaking norms, embracing complexity, and owning one’s power—both in life and in love.

Topics Covered

• Mia Sivan’s transition from finance to fiction writing

• Power dynamics in sex, relationships, and financial systems

• Writing strong, unapologetic female protagonists

• Communication in BDSM and ethical non-monogamy

• Multicultural representation in romance literature

• Breaking societal norms around feminine identity and power

• Safe sex, consent, and creative expression in intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Mia Sivan

Steamy Contemporary Romance Novelist

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this empowering episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by Brittney Carmichael, intuitive coach, empowerment leader, and creator of luxury Goddess Retreats, for a bold and inspiring conversation about confidence, self-worth, and embodied feminine power & sexuality.

Brittney shares her perspective on what “Big Clit Energy” truly represents—not just as a playful concept, but as a deeper embodiment of confidence, self-trust, pleasure, and authenticity in every area of life. Together, she and Eve explore how sexual confidence is deeply connected to emotional wellbeing, creativity, relationships, and overall empowerment.

The conversation unpacks how shame, conditioning, and societal expectations often disconnect women from their bodies, desires, and self-expression. Brittney offers insight into how reclaiming pleasure and self-love can become a gateway to transformation, helping women step into their full power with clarity and confidence.

She also shares her personal journey of self-discovery and how it led her to create transformational spaces for women through her retreats, where healing, embodiment, and confidence-building are central themes. Throughout the episode, Brittney provides practical tools and mindset shifts for cultivating authenticity, self-love, and fearless self-expression in daily life.

This episode is a powerful reminder that confidence is not something you wait for—it’s something you choose, embody, and grow from within.

What You’ll Learn

• What “Big Clit Energy” really means beyond the phrase

• How sexual confidence influences overall empowerment

• Ways to release shame and societal conditioning

• Brittney Carmichael’s journey into self-love and leadership

• Practical tools for building confidence and authenticity

• How embodiment supports transformation in all areas of life

Connect With the Guest

Brittney Carmichael

Creator of Goddess Retreats

Intuitive Coach & Empowerment Leader

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this special Christmas episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Danielle Bezalel, creator and host of Sex Ed with DB and Rom Com Vom, for a heartfelt and reflective conversation about sexuality, identity, and self-acceptance.

Danielle shares her personal journey of embracing her bisexuality and navigating the fluid and evolving nature of sexual identity. Together, she and Eve explore how labels can both empower and limit us, and how self-discovery is often an ongoing process rather than a fixed destination.

The conversation also highlights generational shifts in how people understand and express gender and sexuality, with younger generations embracing more openness, fluidity, and inclusivity than ever before. Eve and Danielle reflect on how these changes are reshaping cultural conversations and creating space for more authentic expression.

They also discuss the role of pop culture in shaping perceptions of LGBTQ+ identities, unpacking how movies and TV often reinforce stereotypes while also acknowledging the growing importance of accurate, nuanced representation.

At the heart of the episode is the importance of communication—both with ourselves and with others—as a tool for understanding identity, building relationships, and fostering self-acceptance.

Settle in with a warm drink and join this cozy holiday conversation celebrating authenticity, growth, and the freedom to be yourself.

What You’ll Learn

• Understanding bisexuality and the LGBTQ+ spectrum

• How sexuality can be fluid and evolving

• Generational shifts in gender and sexual identity

• The impact of pop culture on representation and stereotypes

• Why communication is essential for self-discovery and relationships

• How self-acceptance supports authentic living

Connect With the Guest

Danielle Bezalel

Creator of Sex Ed with DB and Rom Com Vom

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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Welcome to the Please Me Podcast! In this eye-opening and empowering episode, Eve sits down with Jenn Wodtke, pleasure & sexuality coach and author of Touchless Orgasm, to explore the fascinating world of touchless orgasms, energetic pleasure, and body connection.

Together, they dive into how pleasure can extend far beyond traditional ideas of sexuality and orgasm. Jenn explains the science, psychology, and emotional liberation behind touchless orgasms, sharing how breath, mindfulness, nervous system regulation, energy awareness, and intentional focus can create profound full-body experiences without physical touch.

The conversation also explores how societal conditioning, shame, and disconnection from the body can limit pleasure and intimacy. Jenn offers insight into how reconnecting with sensation, curiosity, and self-awareness can help people deepen their relationship with themselves and their partners.

Eve and Jenn discuss the role of relaxation, emotional safety, and presence in accessing expanded pleasure states, while emphasizing that every body experiences arousal and pleasure differently. This episode encourages listeners to approach pleasure with openness rather than performance or pressure.

Whether you’re curious about energetic intimacy, looking to reconnect with your body, or interested in expanding your understanding of pleasure and self-discovery, this conversation offers compassionate and practical insight into the mind-body connection.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• What touchless orgasms are and how they work

• The role of breath, energy, and mindfulness in pleasure

• How shame and conditioning can impact intimacy and arousal

• Ways to deepen connection with your body and nervous system

• The importance of emotional safety and relaxation in pleasure

• How curiosity and self-awareness can expand intimacy experiences

Connect With the Guest

Jenn Wodtke

Author of Touchless Orgasm

Pleasure Coach

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this empowering episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes Amita Sharma, co-founder of NourishDoc, for an important conversation about women’s health advocacy, sexuality, hormonal wellness, and navigating perimenopause and menopause with confidence and clarity.

Together, they discuss the challenges many women face when seeking medical support for symptoms related to hormonal transitions. From feeling dismissed or unheard by healthcare providers to navigating outdated information around menopause, Eve and Amita explore the systemic gaps that often leave women searching for answers on their own.

Amita shares practical guidance on how women can advocate for themselves during medical appointments, including how to communicate symptoms effectively, ask informed questions, and seek care that aligns with their individual needs and experiences. The conversation emphasizes the importance of education and self-awareness in making empowered health decisions.

The episode also dives into holistic approaches to wellness, highlighting how Ayurveda, nutrition, stress management, lifestyle changes, and gut health can all play a role in supporting hormonal balance and overall wellbeing. Eve and Amita discuss the connection between inflammation, digestion, energy levels, mood, and hormone function—offering listeners a more integrative perspective on women’s health.

This thoughtful and validating discussion encourages women to trust their experiences, prioritize their wellbeing, and become active participants in their healthcare journey.

What You’ll Learn

• Why women’s hormonal symptoms are often overlooked in healthcare

• Practical ways to advocate for yourself during doctor visits

• Holistic approaches to managing perimenopause and menopause

• The connection between gut health, inflammation, and hormones

• How Ayurveda and lifestyle practices support wellness

• Why informed decision-making is essential for women’s health

Connect With the Guest

Amita Sharma

Co-Founder of NourishDoc

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this insightful episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes Dr. Elizabeth Polinsky, marriage counselor, sex therapist, and expert in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), for a compassionate conversation about one of the most common challenges in long-term relationships: mismatched sexuality & sexual desire.

Together, Eve and Dr. Liz explore the concept of sexual desire discrepancy and why differences in libido are completely normal in relationships. Rather than framing these differences as failures, the conversation focuses on how couples can approach intimacy with empathy, curiosity, and open communication.

Dr. Liz shares practical tools for navigating feelings of rejection, avoidance, resentment, and emotional disconnection that can arise when partners experience different levels of desire. She explains how emotional safety, vulnerability, and secure attachment are deeply connected to physical intimacy and why strengthening emotional connection often improves sexual connection as well.

The episode also challenges societal myths around spontaneity and desire, introducing the idea that planning intimacy or scheduling sex can actually increase anticipation, reduce pressure, and create more intentional opportunities for connection. Eve and Dr. Liz discuss how couples can prioritize intimacy without making it feel forced or transactional.

Listeners will also gain actionable communication strategies for discussing sensitive topics around sex, boundaries, emotional needs, and pleasure in a way that fosters understanding instead of conflict. The conversation emphasizes self-care, emotional regulation, and mutual compassion as key components of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

This episode offers a realistic, encouraging, and deeply validating perspective for couples seeking to reconnect emotionally and physically.

What You’ll Learn

• What sexual desire discrepancy is and why it’s common

• How emotional connection impacts physical intimacy

• Why scheduling intimacy can strengthen relationships

• Communication tools for discussing sex and desire

• The role of vulnerability and emotional safety in intimacy

• Self-care practices that support healthier partnerships

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Elizabeth Polinsky

Marriage Counselor & Sex Therapist

Expert in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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