Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast

In this bold continuation of the conversation, Eve is joined once again by gay OnlyFans creator Koby Falks for an unfiltered deep dive into gay sexuality, sexual health, safety, and the evolving culture around pleasure and protection.

Koby shares candid insights from his lived experience as a self-described bear and bottom, offering honest perspectives on anal sex preparation, communication, and the shifting norms within the LGBTQ+ community. Together, he and Eve explore how conversations around condoms, PrEP, DoxyPEP, and STI testing are changing modern sexual practices and what that means for intimacy, risk awareness, and responsibility.

The episode also breaks down practical, often unspoken topics like douching techniques, oral sex risks, and the importance of timing and preparation for safer, more comfortable experiences. A role-play segment highlights common breakdowns in communication around consent and safety, offering listeners real-world examples of how to navigate these moments with clarity and confidence.

This episode is a grounded, educational, and empowering conversation designed to replace stigma with knowledge and encourage healthier, more informed sexual choices.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between light and deep douching and when to use each

• Why condom use is changing in parts of the gay community

• How PrEP and DoxyPEP are reshaping sexual health practices

• The real risks of STI transmission through oral sex

• The importance of regular STI testing and prevention strategies

• How gut health and recovery matter after frequent anal play

• How to communicate boundaries clearly in sexual situations

Connect With the Guest

Koby Falks

Adult Content Creator & Advocate

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Koby Falks, adult content creator and advocate, for an honest conversation about sexuality, masculinity, confidence, and self-expression.

Koby shares his journey from growing up in rural Australia, where being gay often came with stigma and misunderstanding, to embracing his identity and redefining masculinity on his own terms. Together, he and Eve explore the pressures society places on men, the impact of body image and performance expectations, and how self-acceptance can lead to greater confidence both inside and outside of relationships.

The conversation also dives into the evolution of the adult entertainment industry, including how creator platforms have given performers more autonomy, control, and opportunities for authentic self-expression. Koby discusses the role of kink, sexual exploration, and community in helping people move beyond shame and embrace their desires with confidence.

This episode is a powerful exploration of identity, empowerment, and the freedom that comes from living authentically.

What You'll Learn

• How masculinity can be redefined beyond traditional stereotypes

• The impact of body image and performance pressure on confidence

• How creator platforms have changed the adult entertainment industry

• The connection between self-acceptance and sexual empowerment

• Why authentic self-expression is essential for personal growth

• The role of kink and exploration in understanding desire

• How overcoming shame can lead to greater confidence and freedom

Connect With the Guest

Koby Falks

Adult Content Creator & Advocate

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Fanny Tristan, therapist, women's empowerment coach, and retreat leader, for a candid conversation about sexuality, identity, post-breakup healing, and reclaiming pleasure after heartbreak.

Together, they explore what a "happy hoe season" really means—not as recklessness, but as an intentional period of self-discovery, healing, and reconnecting with your desires. Fanny shares her personal experiences and professional insights on overcoming shame, navigating societal expectations, and creating healthy boundaries rooted in consent and self-worth.

The conversation also examines how race, culture, class, and gender expectations can influence self-esteem, relationships, and the way women experience singlehood. Fanny introduces her three-step soul therapy framework, offering practical guidance for transforming grief into growth and using life's transitions as opportunities for deeper self-connection.

This episode is an empowering invitation to embrace your sexuality, honor your healing journey, and build a relationship with yourself that is grounded in confidence, pleasure, and authenticity.

What You'll Learn

• What a "happy hoe season" really means and how it supports healing

• Why masturbation and solo pleasure are important for self-discovery

• How to reclaim your sexual identity after a breakup

• The impact of culture, race, and societal expectations on self-worth

• Healthy ways to process heartbreak and personal loss

• How to establish boundaries rooted in consent and self-respect

• Fanny's 3-step soul therapy framework for empowerment and growth

Connect With the Guest

Fanny Tristan

Therapist, Women's Empowerment Coach & Retreat Leader

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Sophia Torrini, certified Clinical EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) practitioner, for a powerful conversation about trauma, healing, and reclaiming sexuality & pleasure.

Sophia shares her personal journey from a life-altering medical experience to discovering EFT and the profound impact it had on her health and wellbeing. Together, she and Eve explore how unresolved emotions and trauma can become stored in the body, influencing physical symptoms, pelvic health, intimacy, and overall quality of life.

They discuss the principles behind EFT, often known as tapping, and how it can help people process emotional experiences, shift limiting beliefs, and create new patterns that support healing. The conversation also explores the connection between trauma and sexual wellness, including how pelvic floor tension and emotional wounds can contribute to painful sex and disconnection from pleasure.

The episode includes a role-play demonstration showing how EFT may be used as a supportive tool for addressing trauma-related intimacy challenges and fostering a deeper connection with the body.

This is an insightful episode for anyone interested in emotional healing, mind-body wellness, and creating a more empowered relationship with themselves.

What You’ll Learn

• What Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is and how it works

• The connection between emotions, trauma, and physical symptoms

• How trauma can impact intimacy and sexual wellbeing

• Why symptoms may sometimes be part of the healing process

• The role of the pelvic floor in storing stress and tension

• How EFT can help reframe limiting beliefs and patterns

• Practical insights for reconnecting with your body and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Sophia Torrini

Certified Clinical EFT Practitioner

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of Please Me, host Eve sits down with the incredibly talented self-taught portrait photographer, Melissa Ushtchenko. Melissa specializes in boudoir self-portraits, creating a unique blend of art and self-reflection that goes far beyond the traditional selfie. They dive into the empowering process of capturing oneself through the lens, discussing the therapeutic and meditative qualities of self-portraiture, and how it helps build confidence and a deeper connection with one's body.

Melissa shares her journey from brand photography to becoming a boudoir photographer, ignited by a moment of divine inspiration during the pandemic. She explains how boudoir self-portraits differ from the usual Instagram selfies and how the solo experience of self-photography allows individuals to explore and express their true selves without the influence of external judgment.

Throughout the conversation, Eve and Melissa explore the importance of embracing the "messiness" of the process, both in photography and in life, and how this acceptance can lead to beautiful, unexpected results. They also discuss how this practice can be a powerful tool for people recovering from surgeries or learning to love their bodies after significant changes.

Melissa also talks about her course that guides people in creating their own self-portrait practice, offering a space for continuous self-discovery and empowerment. The episode wraps up with tips on how to prepare for a boudoir session, including the importance of being present, tapping into sensuality, and creating a personalized, sensory-rich environment.

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Dr. Jenn Kennedy, licensed psychologist, sex therapist, and relationship expert, for the honest and empowering sexuality education conversation many of us never received.

Together, they explore the role of masturbation, self-discovery, and communication in creating a more satisfying and connected sex life. Dr. Jenn explains why solo pleasure is an important tool for understanding your body, desires, and boundaries, and how that knowledge can strengthen intimacy with a partner.

The conversation also dives into the differences between sensuality and sexuality, the realities of the orgasm gap, and why vulnerability and communication are often the foundation of great sex. Eve and Dr. Jenn discuss practical tools for reigniting connection, including Sensate Focus exercises, aftercare practices, and ways to navigate intimacy as our bodies and needs change over time.

This episode is an invitation to replace shame with curiosity, deepen your self-awareness, and create more authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences.

What You'll Learn

• Why masturbation supports self-awareness and sexual confidence

• The difference between sensuality and sexuality

• How to communicate desires and boundaries more effectively

• The role of sex toys in exploration and connection

• How Sensate Focus can help rebuild intimacy

• Why aftercare and pillow talk strengthen relationships

• Navigating aging, changing bodies, and evolving desires

• How curiosity can help dismantle sexual shame

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Jenn Kennedy

Psychologist, Sex Therapist & Relationship Expert

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this empowering episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Pepper Kat, sex worker, content creator, and host of Spicy Spectrum, to explore the importance of sexual communication, boundaries, and creating safe spaces for authentic self-expression & sexuality.

Pepper shares her journey from working in the news industry to building a career centered on sexual empowerment and education. Together, she and Eve discuss how open conversations about intimacy, desires, and boundaries can strengthen relationships, increase confidence, and create more fulfilling sexual experiences.

The episode features a practical roleplay demonstration showing how to establish boundaries and communicate expectations clearly, highlighting why consent and communication are essential for trust, safety, and connection. Eve and Pepper also explore how dirty talk, humor, and self-acceptance can help people feel more comfortable expressing themselves and enhancing pleasure.

This conversation challenges stigma around sex work while emphasizing the value of honest communication, personal agency, and creating judgment-free environments where people can better understand their desires.

What You’ll Learn

• Why communication is the foundation of healthy intimacy

• How setting boundaries enhances safety and connection

• The role of consent in creating fulfilling experiences

• How shame and silence can impact relationships

• Why self-acceptance supports confidence and pleasure

• How humor, playfulness, and communication strengthen intimacy

• What personalized sexual experiences can teach us about connection

Connect With the Guest

Pepper Kat

Host of Spicy Spectrum

Sex Worker & Content Creator

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this enlightening encore episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the mysterious and transformative world of dreams, uncovering how our dream life can offer insight into desire, creativity, emotions, and self-awareness.

Eve breaks down different types of dreams—including lucid dreams, sex dreams, wet dreams, and even premonition-style experiences—and discusses how each can reflect subconscious thoughts, unresolved emotions, or hidden aspects of desire & sexuality.

The episode also explores lucid dreaming techniques and how becoming aware within a dream can enhance creativity, problem-solving, and emotional processing. Eve touches on the meaning behind sex dreams and wet dreams, helping listeners understand how these experiences may relate to pleasure, curiosity, and personal exploration rather than literal interpretation.

Listeners are also guided through dream journaling practices and simple ways to reflect on recurring symbols and themes as a tool for self-discovery and growth.

This episode is an invitation to see dreams not as random imagery, but as a powerful inner language that can support healing, creativity, and deeper self-understanding.

What You’ll Learn

• The different types of dreams and what they may represent

• How lucid dreaming works and how to explore it

• What sex dreams and wet dreams may reveal about desire

• How dream journaling supports self-awareness

• The connection between dreams and creativity

• How to use dreams for emotional insight and problem-solving

• Why reflection on dreams can support personal growth

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this encore episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with self-taught portrait photographer Melissa Ushtchenko to explore the empowering practice of boudoir self-portraiture as a tool for self-love, healing, body reconnection, and empowered sexuality.

Melissa shares how she transitioned from brand photography into intimate self-portrait work during the pandemic, after a moment of inspiration that shifted her creative direction. She explains how boudoir self-portraits go beyond traditional selfies, offering a deeply intentional and reflective process that helps individuals reconnect with their bodies without external judgment.

Together, Eve and Melissa discuss the therapeutic and almost meditative nature of photographing yourself, embracing imperfection, and allowing the “messiness” of self-expression to become part of the beauty of the experience. They also explore how this practice can support confidence-building and emotional healing, especially for those recovering from surgery or navigating body changes.

Melissa also shares insights from her course that teaches others how to develop their own self-portrait practice, encouraging ongoing self-discovery and empowerment through creativity.

This episode is a powerful invitation to see yourself differently—through presence, curiosity, and compassion.

What You’ll Learn

• How boudoir self-portraits differ from traditional selfies

• Why self-portraiture can support healing and confidence

• The therapeutic benefits of photographing yourself

• How to embrace imperfection in creative expression

• How self-portrait practices support body reconnection

• Tips for preparing for a boudoir or self-portrait session

Connect With the Guest

Melissa Ushtchenko

Self-Taught Boudoir & Portrait Photographer

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Marijke McCandless to explore infidelity, reconnection, and the power of presence in intimacy and sacred sexuality.

Marijke shares insights from her book Naked in the Now, focusing on how cultivating presence can transform the way we experience sensuality, connection, and emotional intimacy. Together, she and Eve discuss how relationships can be rebuilt after rupture, and how honesty, vulnerability, and awareness can open the door to deeper reconnection.

The conversation also explores playful sex and the importance of bringing curiosity and lightness back into intimate relationships. Marijke offers guidance on how to reconnect with your body and access a more embodied, present experience of pleasure.

This episode is a reflective and grounding exploration of intimacy, healing, and what it means to be fully present with yourself and your partner.

What You’ll Learn

• How infidelity can lead to reconnection and growth

• The role of presence in sacred sexuality

• Why playful sex strengthens intimacy

• Insights from Naked in the Now

• How to cultivate vulnerability in relationships

• Ways to deepen embodied awareness in intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Marijke McCandless

Author of Naked in the Now

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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