Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast

In this deeply powerful and transformative episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by energy and consciousness coach Kanika Vasudeva to explore the healing potential of the sacral chakra—our energetic center of creativity, emotional flow, sensuality, and divine feminine power.

Kanika shares her personal journey through profound grief after the loss of her daughter, and how that experience became a catalyst for deep healing through energy work, womb healing, and spiritual reconnection. Together, she and Eve explore the sacral chakra as a source of life force energy—not only tied to physical creation, but also to emotional expression, creativity, and personal empowerment.

The conversation dives into how trauma, conditioning, and suppressed emotions can create energetic blockages in this center, impacting pleasure, identity, and emotional well-being. Kanika also guides listeners through a grounding and emotional release visualization, offering a practical entry point into healing and reconnection with joy and inner flow.

This episode is both a teaching and a gentle invitation to reconnect with your body’s wisdom, release stored emotional pain, and reclaim your creative and sensual energy.

What You’ll Learn

• What the sacral chakra is and its role in creativity and emotional flow

• How trauma and suppressed emotions create energetic blockages

• The connection between womb healing, self-love, and embodiment

• Why sexual energy is considered a life force energy

• How orgasmic and meditative states can support manifestation

• Kanika Vasudeva’s journey from grief to healing and purpose

• A guided visualization for emotional release and reconnection

Connect With the Guest

Kanika Vasudeva

Energy & Consciousness Coach

Website: https://kanikavasudeva.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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In this electrifying continuation of Please Me Podcast’s two-part series with intimacy and Tantra coach Hani Cheng, Eve and Hani go even deeper into the world of orgasmic potential, energetic release, and embodied pleasure & sexuality.

Together, they explore how pleasure can extend far beyond traditional definitions of orgasm, moving into full-body waves, emotional release, and spiritual connection. Hani introduces the concept of the “mystery orgasm”—a fluid, intuitive experience of pleasure that evolves beyond technique and into presence, awareness, and energetic flow.

The conversation also breaks down the different layers of orgasmic experience, including clitoral, G-spot, cervical, and full-body orgasms, while emphasizing the importance of breath, voice, and emotional expression in unlocking deeper states of pleasure. Rather than focusing on performance or outcome, Hani encourages listeners to shift toward presence, curiosity, and daily embodiment practices that expand sensitivity and awareness.

This episode is a powerful invitation to release pressure, reconnect with your body, and explore pleasure as a living, evolving experience.

What You’ll Learn

• What the “mystery orgasm” is and how to explore it

• The differences between clitoral, G-spot, cervical, and full-body orgasms

• How breath, sound, and emotion influence sexual energy

• Why presence matters more than orgasm as a goal

• How to build a daily practice of pleasure and body awareness

• Ways to co-create deeper intimacy and novelty with a partner

• An introduction to vaginal reflexology and emotional body mapping

• How to release performance pressure and reconnect with authentic pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Hani Cheng

Intimacy & Tantra Coach

Website: https://hanicheng.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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In this juicy and soul-stirring episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with transformational coach, healer, and author Hani Cheng to explore sexuality, sensual embodiment, healing through movement, and the deep intelligence of the body—especially the parts we’ve been taught to disconnect from or silence.

Hani shares her powerful journey from living with undiagnosed bulimia for 15 years to becoming a global teacher in tantra, Taoist sexuality, and energetic healing. Through learning to listen to her body—what she affectionately calls her “peach”—she discovered a path toward liberation, purpose, and embodied pleasure. Together, she and Eve explore how reconnecting with the body can transform not only sexuality, but creativity, confidence, and life direction.

The conversation also dives into the role of dance, particularly Brazilian Zouk, as a form of emotional processing and somatic healing, and how sensual movement can become a gateway to deeper self-trust and presence. Hani shares insights from her Sensual Liberation work, offering tools for reconnecting breath, body awareness, and erotic energy in a grounded and empowering way.

This episode is an invitation to return home to your body, reclaim your desire, and explore sensuality as a source of healing, creativity, and personal power.

What You’ll Learn

• Hani Cheng’s journey from eating disorder to embodied healing

• Why the body holds deep emotional and intuitive wisdom

• What it means to “speak to the peach” and reconnect with sensuality

• How dance (especially Zouk) supports emotional and sexual healing

• The role of breath and movement in sensual embodiment practices

• How orgasmic energy can influence creativity, confidence, and abundance

• Using sexual energy as a source of personal and professional power

• The importance of presence, trust, and co-creation in intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Hani Cheng

Transformational Coach & Sensual Embodiment Teacher

Website: https://hanicheng.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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In this vulnerable and enlightening Part 2 conversation with Britton and Carolee Beckham, Eve continues the exploration of what it means to truly rewrite the rules around love, sex, healing, and relationships after betrayal and religious conditioning.

Building on their earlier story, Britton and Carolee share how they rebuilt their connection through shadow work, ritual, astrology, and sacred sexuality—turning pain into a pathway for deeper awareness and conscious intimacy. Together, they now support others navigating spiritual awakening and relational transformation.

This episode dives into how they used moon cycles and intentional ritual to anchor new patterns of healing, and how practices like sex magic and embodied intimacy became tools for reclaiming desire, trust, and personal sovereignty. The conversation also opens up nuanced discussions around relationship structures, including monogamy, polyamory, kink, and the importance of radical honesty and clear boundaries.

At its core, this episode is an unfiltered look at healing inside relationship—messy, expansive, and deeply transformative.

What You’ll Learn

• What shadow work is and how it supports emotional and generational healing

• How astrology and moon cycles can be used in personal ritual

• Reclaiming sexuality after betrayal, shame, or religious conditioning

• The role of sovereignty and self-agency in relationships

• How sex magic and sacred intimacy are used in healing practices

• Navigating monogamy, polyamory, and relationship fluidity

• The importance of boundaries, kink, and radical honesty

• Embodiment practices for reconnecting with divine feminine energy

Connect With the Guests

Britton & Carolee Beckham

Spirituality & Conscious Relationship Educators

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this deeply personal and transformational episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Britton and Carolee Beckham, a married couple who share their powerful journey of healing, reconnection, and radical redefinition of love, sex, and spirituality.

Raised within the Mormon church and shaped by purity culture, Britton and Carolee open up about the infidelity that disrupted their marriage and the way institutional responses to sexuality deepened their struggle. Together, they reflect on how traditional frameworks of healing fell short—and how a path of spiritual deconstruction, plant medicine, and sacred sexuality ultimately helped them rebuild their relationship on a foundation of truth and liberation.

The conversation explores the role of psilocybin ceremonies in their awakening, alongside practices such as moon rituals and embodiment work that helped reconnect them to self-love and feminine empowerment. They also discuss the impact of sexual reeducation, ISTA training, and the importance of radical honesty in transforming not only their marriage but their individual sense of identity and desire.

This episode is a powerful exploration of what it means to step outside inherited beliefs, heal relational wounds, and consciously create a new paradigm for love, intimacy, and spiritual connection.

What You’ll Learn

• How religious conditioning can shape sexuality, shame, and identity

• The impact of infidelity and institutional responses on relationships

• How plant medicine can support spiritual awakening and healing

• The role of ritual, moon cycles, and embodiment in self-reconnection

• Why sexual reeducation and ISTA training can be transformative

• How radical honesty can rebuild trust and intimacy

• What it means to redefine love and spirituality outside of religion

Connect With the Guests

Britton & Carolee Beckham

Marriage & Spirituality Educators

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful continuation of Please Me Podcast, Eve reunites with Shawn Schutt and Amanda Courier from the Touchy Subjects podcast to go deeper into the often-invisible dynamics of emotional and social abuse.

While physical violence is more widely recognized, this episode highlights how coercion, control, isolation, and emotional manipulation can be just as damaging—and often far more difficult to identify. Together, they explore the Power & Control Wheel, breaking down the eight key tactics commonly used in abusive relationships, including emotional abuse, economic control, intimidation, isolation, and the misuse of privilege or authority.

Shawn and Amanda offer both expert insight and grounded, real-world understanding of how these patterns show up in everyday relationships, as well as practical tools for recognizing red flags in your own life or in the lives of those you care about.

The episode also includes a role-play segment that demonstrates how to respond when someone discloses abuse, emphasizing the importance of empathy, safety, and non-judgmental support in these critical moments.

This conversation serves as both an educational guide and a compassionate resource for understanding the deeper layers of abuse and how to support healing and awareness.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between emotional, social, and physical abuse

• The 8 tactics in the Power & Control Wheel explained in real-life context

• How abusers use isolation, privilege, and economic control

• Why coercion undermines true consent in relationships

• How to recognize patterns of abuse early

• What supportive responses to disclosure of abuse should look like

• The importance of safety, empathy, and validation

Connect With the Guests

Shawn Schutt & Amanda Courier

Co-hosts of Touchy Subjects Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful and eye-opening episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Shawn Schutt and Amanda Courier, co-hosts of the Touchy Subjects podcast, for an important conversation about how abuse can often hide behind the appearance of love, jealousy, and care.

Together, they unpack the early warning signs of domestic violence and sexual assault, focusing on the subtle but dangerous patterns of control that can begin long before any physical violence occurs. Shawn and Amanda share their expertise in exposing how abusers often use emotional manipulation, isolation, surveillance, and possessiveness to gain power in relationships while disguising these behaviors as affection or concern.

The conversation also explores how societal norms can normalize unhealthy jealousy, making it harder to recognize red flags, and why marginalized communities may face unique risks and barriers when trying to seek help. They also address the complexities and dangers of leaving abusive relationships, emphasizing the importance of safety planning and support systems.

This episode is a vital resource for anyone seeking to better understand relationship dynamics, recognize warning signs, and support themselves or others in navigating unsafe situations.

What You’ll Learn

• The definitions and realities of domestic violence and sexual assault

• How jealousy can be an early and normalized red flag

• Common manipulation tactics used in abusive relationships

• How abuse can disguise itself as love, care, or protection

• Why leaving abusive relationships is complex and potentially dangerous

• The importance of safety planning and support networks

• How marginalized communities may experience unique vulnerabilities

Connect With the Guests

Shawn Schutt & Amanda Courier

Co-hosts of Touchy Subjects Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this special Friday bonus episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve pays tribute to the life, courage, and authenticity of Koby Falks — an LGBTQ+ creator, advocate, and unforgettable voice within the community.

Eve reflects on Koby’s journey of self-expression, from his success as an OnlyFans creator to his unapologetic embrace of identity, sexuality, and queer visibility. Through their past conversations on the show, she honors the impact he made by living his truth and encouraging others to do the same.

This episode also acknowledges the deeper conversations surrounding mental health within the LGBTQ+ community, highlighting the importance of compassion, connection, and checking in on those we care about. Eve emphasizes the value of community support and the role we all play in fostering safer, more open spaces for honesty and healing.

At its core, this episode is a heartfelt remembrance and a reminder of the importance of visibility, authenticity, and mental health awareness.

What You’ll Learn

• Koby Falks’ journey of authenticity and queer self-expression

• The importance of representation in the LGBTQ+ community

• How open conversations about sexuality can reduce shame

• The mental health challenges faced within queer communities

• How to support friends, chosen family, and loved ones

• Why checking in and reaching out matters

• The importance of suicide prevention awareness and support

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this candid and playful episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes back Kels and Tess, the bold duo behind Porn Nerds and Get Squirmy, for a continued conversation about porn, pleasure, and the beautifully “squirmy” parts of human sexuality.

Together, they explore how fantasy and curiosity shape desire, and how engaging with these inner worlds—without shame—can lead to greater self-awareness and stronger intimacy in relationships. The conversation breaks down the difference between fantasy and real-life experience, highlighting how each can serve a different role in understanding our needs, boundaries, and turn-ons.

Kels and Tess also share insights on how porn can be used as a healthy tool for exploration when approached consciously, and how couples can transform vulnerable conversations about sex into opportunities for deeper connection and trust.

At its core, this episode is about dismantling stigma, normalizing desire, and learning how to communicate what we want with honesty and confidence.

What You’ll Learn

• How porn can support healthy curiosity and sexual exploration

• The difference between fantasy and real-life intimacy

• What porn preferences may reveal about emotional or physical needs

• How to talk about porn and desire without shame

• Ways to turn sexual conversations into deeper connection

• How fantasy can improve communication in relationships

• Tools for exploring curiosity safely and consciously

Connect With the Guests

Kels & Tess

Creators of Porn Nerds & Get Squirmy

Website: https://www.squirm.fm

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful and reflective episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve shares a deeply personal conversation around sexual identity, community, and the ongoing journey of self-acceptance within the LGBTQ+ experience.

Eve opens up about her own path toward understanding her sexuality and what it means to step into and belong within the LGBTQ+ community. The episode also honors the resilience of trans and non-binary individuals, especially in the face of harmful policies and ongoing social challenges.

Together, the discussion explores the importance of allies, long-time advocates, and those newly awakening to their identity in building a more informed, supportive, and empowered community. Eve also emphasizes that coming out is not a single moment but a personal, evolving journey shaped by self-love and individual timing.

This episode also highlights resources and organizations supporting trans rights and healthcare access, while paying tribute to the many LGBTQ+ guests who have courageously shared their stories on Please Me.

What You’ll Learn

• Eve’s personal journey with sexual identity and the LGBTQ+ community

• The resilience and lived experiences of trans and non-binary individuals

• How allies and community members can show up in meaningful ways

• Why coming out is a personal and evolving process

• The importance of self-love in identity exploration

• Resources supporting trans rights and healthcare access

• The power of shared stories in LGBTQ+ visibility and empowerment

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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