Please Me! Podcast with Eve

Fantasy, Fetishes & Feeling Seen: What Porn Teaches Us About Desire | Sexuality


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What if your porn preferences could teach you more about your deepest desires? In this episode, I welcome back Kels and Tess, the brilliant and bold duo behind Porn Nerds and Get Squirmy, for a juicy, candid continuation of our conversation around porn, pleasure, and those 'squirmy' moments that make us human.

We dive headfirst into the complexities of fantasy, the power of fetishes, and how exploring our curiosities — even the ones we might never act on — can help us better understand ourselves and our relationships.

Here’s what we get into:
 How porn can be a healthy tool for exploring curiosity and desire
 The difference between fantasy and real-life sexual experiences
 What your porn preferences might reveal about your needs in bed
 Tips for turning vulnerable sex talks into empowering connections
 Breaking down the shame and stigma around watching and talking about porn
 How to use fantasy as a bridge to better communication and deeper intimacy

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     Where to Find Kels & Tess:
    Website: https://getsquirmy.com
    Instagram: @squirm

    Plus, we share laughs, real talk, and actionable advice on navigating the sometimes awkward, often empowering conversations that can bring partners closer — including how to handle dirty talk in a new relationship (throuple vibes included ).  

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