Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast

In this candid and thought-provoking episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Kels and Tess, creators of the Porn Nerds podcast miniseries and founders of Squirm, for an honest conversation about sexuality, porn, pleasure, and the importance of communication in sexual wellness.

Together, they challenge the idea that porn should serve as sexual education and explore healthier, more effective ways to build confidence, curiosity, and connection in intimate relationships. Kels and Tess share how porn can be a source of inspiration and fantasy while highlighting the importance of understanding the difference between entertainment and real-life intimacy.

The conversation also dives into shame, stigma, desire, boundaries, and the role communication plays in creating fulfilling sexual experiences. From discussing fantasies with a partner to navigating relationship dynamics, including non-monogamous relationships, this episode offers practical tools for anyone looking to deepen connection and improve communication around sex.

Whether you're single, partnered, or simply curious about how media shapes our understanding of sexuality, this episode provides a thoughtful and empowering perspective on pleasure, consent, and authentic connection.

What You'll Learn

• Why porn is not a substitute for comprehensive sexual education

• How to communicate desires, fantasies, and boundaries with confidence

• The role of fantasy in solo and partnered pleasure

• How watching porn together can spark meaningful conversations

• Why desire should be explored rather than judged

• Strategies for navigating boundaries in relationships and non-monogamy

• How Squirm helps normalize open conversations about sex

Connect With the Guests

Kels & Tess

Founders of Squirm

Website: https://www.squirm.fm

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this powerful bonus episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve continues the conversation on sexuality & abortion by exploring the legal, emotional, and practical realities of pregnancy options in today’s post-Roe landscape.

With reproductive rights varying dramatically across the United States, Eve breaks down abortion access, gestational limits, and the challenges many women face when seeking reproductive healthcare. She also provides a compassionate overview of all pregnancy options—including abortion, adoption, and parenting—empowering listeners to make informed decisions based on their own values, circumstances, and needs.

In addition, Eve addresses some of the most common myths and misconceptions surrounding abortion, separating fact from fiction and encouraging women to seek accurate information rather than fear-based narratives. This episode is designed to educate, empower, and support anyone navigating reproductive health decisions or seeking a deeper understanding of their rights and options.

No matter where you stand or what situation you may face, this conversation reinforces one simple truth: knowledge is power, and every person deserves access to information without shame, pressure, or judgment.

What You’ll Learn

• How abortion laws and access vary across the United States

• What gestational limits are and why they matter

• The differences between abortion, adoption, and parenting options

• Common myths and misconceptions about abortion

• How to make informed reproductive healthcare decisions

• Why bodily autonomy and informed consent matter

• Resources for understanding your reproductive rights

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this eye-opening episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Robert Johnson, founder of Shameless Care, for an honest conversation about the hidden gaps in traditional STI testing and what everyone should know about protecting their sexuality & sexual health.

Robert shares the personal experience that led him to create Shameless Care after discovering that a routine STI panel—which came back negative—failed to detect an oral gonorrhea infection. That experience revealed a larger problem within standard sexual health screening and inspired him to advocate for more comprehensive, accessible testing.

Together, Eve and Robert explore the limitations of so-called “full panel” STI testing, why oral and asymptomatic infections are often missed, and the importance of understanding your testing options. They also discuss herpes testing, common misconceptions surrounding sexual health, and how stigma can prevent people from having honest conversations about risk and responsibility.

This episode is packed with practical information to help listeners make informed decisions, communicate openly with partners, and take a more proactive approach to sexual wellness.

What You’ll Learn

• Why many “full panel” STI tests are not as comprehensive as people think

• How oral gonorrhea and other asymptomatic infections can go undetected

• The limitations and controversies surrounding herpes testing

• Common gaps in traditional sexual healthcare

• How Shameless Care is improving access to sexual health resources

• Important conversations to have before becoming sexually active with a partner

• How to take a proactive approach to STI testing and prevention

Connect With the Guest

Robert Johnson

Founder, Shameless Care

Website: https://shamelesscare.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this unapologetically bold episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve tackles one of the most important and often censored topics in sexuality & women’s health: abortion.

With Roe v. Wade overturned and reproductive rights under increasing scrutiny, Eve cuts through the stigma, fear, and political noise to provide clear, practical information about abortion care, bodily autonomy, and informed decision-making. She explores why abortion is fundamentally a healthcare issue and discusses the real-world consequences of restricted access to safe reproductive care.

Eve also breaks down the differences between emergency contraception and medical abortion, explains how medical abortion works, and shares important facts about safety, effectiveness, and access. This episode is designed to empower listeners with knowledge, encourage informed choices, and support open conversations about reproductive health without shame or judgment.

Whether you've personally faced this decision, supported someone who has, or simply want to better understand the realities of reproductive healthcare, this episode offers education, empowerment, and compassion.

What You’ll Learn

• Why abortion is considered healthcare

• The difference between the morning-after pill and abortion pills

• How medical abortion works and its safety profile

• The risks associated with unsafe abortions

• Why bodily autonomy is essential to health and wellbeing

• How access to reproductive healthcare impacts women's lives

• Ways to stay informed and support reproductive rights

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this eye-opening and empowering episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined once again by lifestyle educator, author, and sexuality coach Lexi Sylver for her third appearance on the show. Together, they clarify the critical differences between consensual ethical non-monogamy and coercive or abusive behavior, especially in response to public confusion surrounding high-profile allegations involving so-called “lifestyle parties.”

Lexi breaks down what truly defines the swinger and ethical non-monogamy communities, emphasizing that consent, communication, and mutual respect are the foundation of all interactions. She also explains the structured safety practices often used in these spaces, including boundaries, health awareness, and accountability systems that prioritize participant wellbeing.

The conversation further explores how power dynamics can exist within kink and play while still remaining fully consensual, and why clear communication is always essential. Lexi and Eve also highlight how these communities can serve as spaces for empowerment, particularly for women exploring their sexuality on their own terms.

The episode concludes with a roleplay segment that demonstrates what healthy, explicit consent conversations actually look like in practice, offering listeners a grounded example of communication in action.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between ethical non-monogamy and abusive dynamics

• Why consent and communication are non-negotiable in lifestyle spaces

• How safety practices help create responsible adult environments

• The role of power dynamics in consensual kink and play

• How ethical non-monogamy can support sexual empowerment

• What real consent conversations sound like in practice

• How to distinguish healthy exploration from coercion

Connect With the Guest

Lexi Sylver

Lifestyle Educator, Author & Coach

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this powerful Friday series episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the difference between being a passive receiver and an active participant in your sex life—and why this shift can completely transform your experience of pleasure, confidence, and embodied sexuality.

Eve breaks down how subtle changes in awareness and movement can help you reconnect with your body, including simple techniques like hip engagement, pelvic tilts, breathwork, and Kegel exercises. She also emphasizes the importance of understanding your own anatomy and building confidence through solo exploration and practice.

The conversation expands beyond sex, inviting listeners to consider how presence, agency, and embodiment influence every area of life. This episode is a call to step into your power, take up space in your body, and show up more fully in intimacy and beyond.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between passive receiving and active participation in sex

• How movement and breath can enhance pleasure and sensation

• Simple techniques like pelvic tilts and Kegels for body awareness

• Why solo exploration builds confidence in partnered sex

• The importance of understanding your own anatomy

• How presence and embodiment increase pleasure and connection

• Why sexual agency translates into everyday empowerment

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this bold and emotionally rich episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with reality TV star Lanette West from MILF Manor for an honest conversation about sexuality, healing, and self-love.

Lanette opens up about her experience on reality television, including the realities behind filming a provocative dating show, navigating personal boundaries on set, and what it means to publicly reclaim identity in a highly sexualized environment. Together, she and Eve explore how labels like “MILF” can be redefined and reclaimed as a source of confidence and empowerment rather than shame.

The conversation also goes deeper into Lanette’s personal journey through divorce, dating, and rebuilding intimacy afterward. She shares her experiences with modern dating apps, navigating emotional connections, and learning to trust herself again after major life transitions.

Lanette also speaks candidly about her recovery journey, including her mental health challenges, addiction, and reaching over 1,000 days of sobriety. This becomes a powerful thread throughout the episode as she reflects on healing, self-worth, and the role pleasure and self-acceptance can play in recovery.

This episode is a raw, real, and inspiring exploration of resilience, identity, and the freedom that comes from owning your story without shame.

What You’ll Learn

• How reality TV shapes and challenges personal boundaries

• What reclaiming sexual labels like “MILF” can mean

• The realities of dating after divorce and starting over

• How addiction recovery intersects with identity and self-worth

• Why shame blocks pleasure, connection, and healing

• How self-love supports emotional and sexual recovery

• The importance of boundaries in dating and intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Lanette West

Reality TV Star (MILF Manor)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this deeply empowering episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with trauma therapist Laurel Roberts Meese for an honest and supportive conversation about sexuality, sexual trauma, healing, and how to navigate intimacy with care, understanding, and communication.

Laurel explains that sexual trauma is not about sex itself, but about power, and explores how that distinction is essential for both survivors and their partners to understand. Together, she and Eve discuss the emotional complexity of disclosing trauma, and how creating a safe, non-judgmental space can make all the difference in building trust and connection.

The conversation also offers practical guidance for partners on how to respond when trauma is shared, what language supports healing versus harm, and how to recognize trauma responses during intimacy. Tools such as sensate focus are introduced as ways to gently rebuild safety, connection, and pleasure in the body over time.

This episode is a compassionate reminder that healing is possible, communication is essential, and survivors deserve both agency and pleasure in their relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• Why sexual trauma is about power, not sex

• How to safely disclose trauma to a partner

• What supportive responses to trauma disclosure look like

• How to recognize trauma responses during intimacy

• How sensate focus can help rebuild safety and connection

• Why communication is essential in healing relationships

• How survivors can reclaim agency, boundaries, and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Laurel Roberts Meese

Trauma Therapist

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this empowering episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Kimberly Dorsey, founder of Lucky Girl CEO, for a powerful conversation on trauma, transformation, and reclaiming sexuality & personal power.

Kimberly shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming domestic violence, teenage pregnancy, and the lasting emotional effects of adoption. Through radical self-awareness and intentional change, she explains how she shifted from survival mode into a life rooted in healing, purpose, and self-leadership.

Together, Eve and Kimberly explore the concept of “life recalibration”—a process of breaking old patterns, rebuilding identity, and choosing new standards for how you show up in your life, relationships, and self-worth. The conversation also highlights the importance of holistic self-care, including nutrition, journaling, and morning routines, as foundational tools for emotional and physical healing.

This episode is a reminder that healing is not linear, and transformation is possible when you commit to rewriting your story.

What You’ll Learn

• How to transform trauma into personal empowerment

• What “life recalibration” means and how to apply it

• How generational trauma shapes identity and behavior

• Practical healing habits like journaling and daily routines

• The role of nutrition and self-care in emotional recovery

• How to rebuild self-worth after abuse and adversity

• Why healing the mind, body, and soul impacts every area of life

Connect With the Guest

Kimberly Dorsey

Founder of Lucky Girl CEO

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this eye-opening episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Dr. Elliot Justin, emergency medicine physician and co-founder of FirmTech, to explore the intersection of sexuality, sexual health, technology, and overall wellness.

Dr. Justin shares how his clinical experience led him to identify a major gap in men’s health monitoring—specifically, the lack of attention given to erectile function as a key indicator of broader cardiovascular health. Together, he and Eve discuss how sexual health is deeply connected to overall physical health, and why changes in erectile function can sometimes signal underlying issues long before other symptoms appear.

The conversation also explores FirmTech’s innovative smart ring technology, which tracks nocturnal and sexual erections to provide insights into vascular and sexual health. Dr. Justin explains how this data-driven approach is helping shift the narrative from “dysfunction” to proactive health optimization and prevention.

This episode offers a fascinating look at how emerging technology is changing the way we understand men’s sexual health, performance, and long-term wellbeing.

What You’ll Learn

• How sexual health reflects overall cardiovascular health

• Why nocturnal erections are an important health marker

• How erectile function can signal early warning signs of disease

• The role of wearable technology in sexual wellness tracking

• How FirmTech is shifting the focus from dysfunction to optimization

• The future of data-driven sexual health tools

• How sexual health monitoring may evolve for both men and women

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Elliot Justin

Co-Founder of FirmTech

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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