A Productive Conversation

PM Talks S2E3: Curiosity


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This episode of PM Talks is all about curiosity—how it drives us, how it gets suppressed, and how it intertwines with trust and judgment. Patrick Rhone and I dive deep into the forces that shape our thinking, from societal conditioning to personal experiences. As always, we take a thoughtful (and sometimes humorous) approach to unpacking these ideas.

We explore why curiosity is often discouraged, how judgment can be a shortcut that stifles growth, and what it means to stay open-minded in an increasingly polarized world. Plus, we talk about journaling, trust, and even how sports fandoms can lead to unexpected insights.

Key Discussion Points

  • The paradox of curiosity—how it's both encouraged and discouraged in society
  • Why judgment often wins over curiosity and how that impacts trust
  • How breaking down projects fosters curiosity and prevents blind trust in assumptions
  • The role of journaling in cultivating curiosity and letting go of judgment
  • How social conditioning teaches efficiency over exploration (and why we need to push back)
  • The concept of a Judgment Journal and a Book of Curiosities as tools for reflection
  • How our kids reflect and challenge our own curiosities in unexpected ways

  • We wrap up by discussing how staying curious can build stronger relationships and deeper understanding—whether it’s in politics, personal growth, or simply learning a new skill.

    Links Worth Exploring

    • Patrick's book, "For You"
    • Patrick’s Website
    • Ted Lasso: The "darts" scene
    • PM Talks S2E2: Alignment
    • Sensible Defaults
    • The Hartford Whalers goal song (for those who love hockey nostalgia)
    • Mel Robbins’ “Let Them Theory” video (Note: She's not the originator of "Let Them" – Cassie Phillips is. Read more here.)
    • Watch "The Social Dilemma"
    • Take The Journaling Persona Assessment
    • Check out ALL of the PM Talks episodes

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      If this episode resonated, I’m exploring ideas like these more deeply in my upcoming book, Productiveness. You can follow along as it takes shape at mikevardy.com/productiveness.

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