Happy holidays nieces and nephewsYour favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B talk about “pop psychology” and how it has everyone on the internet in a chokehold over the words: love bombing, gaslighting, narcissism, etc. Spoiler alert, everyone you dislike isn't a narcissist (8:00). The two talk about:(10:00) the dangers to self-diagnosing without seeking professional guidance, the difference between grandiose arrogance and confidence (11:00) being indifferent vs having a lack of empathy(17:00) The dangers of over-indulgence / codependency (23:00) People who gift while centering THEIR desires for YOU(24:00) How to acknowledge your partner’s EFFORTS while also honoring your DESIRES (30:00) Conflict isn’t always abuse/gaslighting (32:00) Baiting someone into an argument (40:00) Everything doesn’t have to be “normalized” (45:00) Speaking like an HR memo isn’t self-awareness CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL: https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119 —---------—---------SPONSORS:ZOC DOC: Go to https://zocdoc.com/STTI and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Many are available within 24 hours." NAKED WINES: Head to  https://NakedWines.com/STTI  click ‘ Enter Voucher ’ in the top right corner and enter  STTI  for both the code  AND  password to get 6 bottles of wine for  JUST  $39.99 with shipping included - that’s  $100 off  and less than  $7 per bottle