Misery loves company, we all know the saying. There’s comfort in commiserating, but lately, we can’t stop noticing the endless echo chamber of women complaining about perimenopause… and it’s driving us nuts. We can’t be the only ones—men and women alike—who look and feel better in our 40s than we did in our 20s. So, we’re breaking down why that is—and why we think this whole perimenopause thing might just be a crock. Plus, a ridiculous story about promoting the podcast, getting invited to a sexy restaurant, and Stephie choking on steak. (She’s fine, but… it was a whole thing.)