Welcome to episode #246! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: “When We Rage Against God — Taking Ownership of Our Choices”

Ever been frustrated with God? You wouldn’t be the first.

Maybe you’ve prayed, “God, if You really loved me, why am I still struggling?” or “Why did You let this happen?” When life doesn’t go our way, it’s easy to shift the blame upward instead of looking inward.

In this episode, Braden unpacks Proverbs 19:3 — “A person’s own folly leads to their ruin, yet their heart rages against the Lord” — and explores why we sometimes get angry at the very God who’s trying to heal us.

Through the story of Jonah, Braden reveals how ownership—not blame—is the starting point for transformation. You’ll discover how humility, confession, and taking responsibility open the door to genuine freedom and restored connection with God.

🔑 Key Points:

• We all rage at God at times. It may not be loud or obvious, but in frustration we often blame Him when life or healing doesn’t go as we hoped.
• Proverbs 19:3 hits home: our own folly leads to trouble, yet our hearts rage against God.
• God’s love doesn’t always shield us from consequences—He uses them to grow and refine us.
• Jonah’s story shows what happens when pride blinds us to God’s mercy—we resist His goodness because we want things our way.
• Blame disempowers, ownership empowers. The moment we stop shifting blame, we regain spiritual strength.
• Ownership isn’t shame—it’s humility. Confession isn’t about beating yourself up; it’s about letting God in.
• 1 John 1:9 reminds us that confession leads to cleansing, and cleansing leads to freedom.

🧭 Practical Steps:

Here’s how to move from frustration to freedom:

1. Pause and reflect. When things go wrong, ask, “Am I blaming God or taking ownership?”
2. Admit your part. Own your choices without shame—this is where healing begins.
3. Reconnect with God. Don’t pull away in anger. Invite Him into your mess and ask Him to teach you.
4. Replace blame with prayer. Instead of “God, why did You let this happen?” pray, “God, what do You want to show me through this?”
5. Remember grace. God doesn’t wait for you to clean up before forgiving—He meets you in your mess.

📖 Scripture Highlights:

• Proverbs 19:3 — “A person’s own folly leads to their ruin, yet their heart rages against the Lord.”
• Jonah 4:2 — Jonah’s anger reveals how pride blinds us to God’s mercy.
• 1 John 1:9 — “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

💬 Quote of the Episode:

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But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.

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• Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.
• Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.
• Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.

How You Can Help:

• One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.
• Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.
• Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.

Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.

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Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #245! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: What Appetites Are You Creating?

What are you feeding your heart and mind every day? Because whatever you feed — grows.

In this episode, Braden unpacks how our spiritual and emotional appetites are formed not by accident, but by what we consistently take in. From social media habits to what we watch or listen to, our daily choices quietly shape what we crave — for better or worse.

🔑 Key Points:

• Our appetites are learned. Just like we develop a taste for coffee or sugar, we also develop cravings for what we continually consume spiritually and emotionally.
• Temptation starts with attention. (James 1:14) Before sin grows, something first catches our eye or mind — what we focus on shapes what we desire.
• Not everything that looks good is good. Eve’s story shows how subtle, attractive things can redirect our appetites away from God.
• Appetites can change. When you start “feeding” yourself with God’s Word, prayer, and truth, unhealthy cravings lose their pull.
• Freedom isn’t about willpower. It’s not saying, “I won’t crave that anymore,” but choosing to replace it with something better.
• What you feed grows. What you starve dies. That’s as true spiritually as it is physically.

🧭 Practical Steps:

Want to reshape your appetites this week? Try this:

1. Take stock. Ask, “What am I feeding my heart and mind daily?” Think about your media, conversations, and routines.
2. Discern the direction. Are those things drawing you closer to God or feeding unhealthy appetites like comparison, lust, or discontentment?
3. Make one swap. Replace one unhealthy input with something nourishing — a worship playlist, a devotional, or quiet time in Scripture.
4. Be patient. Just like cutting sugar, your cravings will change over time. Stay consistent.
5. Pray for awareness. Ask God to reveal the subtle things that shape your heart. Remember: awareness is curative.

🌿 Scripture Highlights:

• James 1:14 — “Each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own desires and enticed.”
• Genesis 3:6 — “When the woman saw that the fruit… was pleasing to the eye…”
• Psalm 34:8 — “Taste and see that the Lord is good.”

🍽️ Quote of the Episode:

 
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At Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.

But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.

Why Donate?

• Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.
• Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.
• Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.

How You Can Help:

• One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.
• Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.
• Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.

Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.

Donate Today

Thank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.

“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36

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Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #244! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast:  Vows vs. Intentionality — Why ‘I’ll Never Do That Again’ Doesn’t Work”

Have you ever said, “I’ll never do that again”—only to find yourself doing the exact same thing later? Whether it’s porn, anger, or hurtful words, we’ve all made vows in moments of guilt or frustration. But what if those vows are actually working against lasting change?

In this episode, Braden dives into the real difference between making vows and living intentionally—and why one keeps you stuck while the other leads to freedom. Using the story of Peter’s denial and restoration, we see how Jesus isn’t asking for dramatic promises—He’s inviting us into daily, steady growth.

You’ll learn how to move from emotional reactions to practical, Spirit-led steps that build a life of freedom and integrity.

🔑 Key Points:

• Vows come from reaction, not reflection. They’re emotional declarations often made in guilt, shame, or frustration.
• Jesus cautioned against impulsive vows (Matthew 5:37). He calls us to simple, faithful obedience instead.
• Peter’s story shows that sincerity isn’t enough—without intentional growth, vows crumble. But Jesus restores, not shames.
• Intentionality is proactive, not reactive. It’s slow, steady, and rooted in daily habits of surrender and faithfulness.
• Worldly sorrow vs. godly sorrow (2 Corinthians 7:10): one leads to panic and self-condemnation, the other to genuine repentance and life change.
• Freedom isn’t found in “never again.” It’s found in “today, I’ll take one step closer to Jesus.”

🧭 Practical Steps:

Want to start walking intentionally? Try this:

1. Get accountable. Install accountability software or invite a trusted friend into your journey.
2. Join a healing group. Don’t walk alone—freedom grows in community.
3. Be honest. Share your real struggles with someone safe.
4. Build rhythms. Spend time daily in prayer and Scripture; fill your mind with truth, not triggers.
5. Focus on today. Instead of swearing off forever, ask, “What’s one intentional step I can take right now?”

Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn Addiction

At Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.

But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.

Why Donate?

• Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.
• Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.
• Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.

How You Can Help:

• One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.
• Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.
• Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.

Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.

Donate Today

Thank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.

“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36

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Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #243! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Are You Too Noisy? Finding God in the Quiet

In this episode of the Pure Victory Podcast, Braden takes on something that surrounds all of us but often goes unnoticed — noise. Not just the sounds around us, but the mental clutter, constant scrolling, and nonstop stimulation that fills our lives.

What if the reason we feel disconnected — from God, from others, even from ourselves — is because life has simply become too loud?

Braden explores how both external and internal noise can block our ability to hear God’s voice and experience peace. Using Elijah’s encounter with God in 1 Kings 19, we see that God often doesn’t speak in the earthquake, fire, or wind — but in the gentle whisper.

Through personal reflection and practical insight, this episode challenges listeners to intentionally make space for stillness — to stop numbing pain with distraction and instead invite God into the silence, where true healing begins.

Key Points:

• Noise isn’t just sound — it’s soul clutter.
  From constant scrolling to mental chatter, our lives are filled with distractions that drown out God’s voice.
• Silence can feel uncomfortable — but it’s sacred.
  Stillness forces us to face reality, our thoughts, fears, and pain. But it’s also where transformation begins.
• Noise delays healing.
  We often use noise to avoid facing what’s really going on. It numbs us instead of nourishing us.
• Elijah’s story reminds us where God speaks.
  In 1 Kings 19, Elijah didn’t meet God in the wind, earthquake, or fire — but in the gentle whisper.
  God isn’t silent; He’s just often quieter than our world.
• Quiet makes room for God’s whisper.
  When we remove distraction, we make space for peace, freedom, and joy. Silence isn’t empty — it’s full of God’s presence.

Practical Takeaways:

• Create intentional quiet.
  Turn off notifications. Go for a walk without music. Sit with God for 10 minutes a day in stillness.
• When uncomfortable thoughts surface, don’t run.
  Invite God into them. Ask, “Lord, what are You showing me here?”
• Stop numbing, start listening.
  If you’re battling shame, addiction, or distraction — meet God in the quiet, not the chaos.
• Remember: God isn’t shouting.
  He’s whispering grace, love, and truth — if we’ll just pause long enough to listen.

Scripture Highlight:

📖 “And after the fire came a gentle whisper… When Elijah heard it, he pulled his cloak over his face and went out and stood at the mouth of the cave.” — 1 Kings 19:12-13

Challenge for the Week:

This week, take 10 minutes a day to turn off every noise — no phone, no podcast, no music — and sit in silence with God. Ask Him to speak, and just listen.

Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn Addiction

At Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.

But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.

Why Donate?

• Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.
• Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.
• Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.

How You Can Help:

• One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.
• Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.
• Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.

Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.

Donate Today

Thank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.

“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36

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BRADEN HAFNER

Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #242! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Authenticity: The Freedom of Being Real
Authenticity sounds simple — but it can feel terrifying. Especially when it comes to sharing the parts of our story we’d rather keep hidden: shame, addiction, porn struggles, past mistakes. What will people think? Will they still respect us?

In this episode, Braden unpacks why authenticity is not only vital for healing, but a spiritual weapon against shame. He shares a powerful personal story of coming clean about his past drug use — a step that led to deeper healing, restored relationships, and freedom he didn’t know he needed.

Through biblical truth and relatable experience, Braden reminds us that God can use the very parts of our story we’re afraid to share — and that our vulnerability may be the key that unlocks someone else’s freedom.

💡 Key Takeaways:

• Authenticity isn’t oversharing. It’s being real, Spirit-led, and honest in ways that bring light to what shame wants to keep hidden.
• Shame thrives in silence. But when you bring your story into the open, the enemy loses power.
• Confession leads to healing. James 5:16 says, “Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” Healing happens in community.
• When you’re authentic, you create safe space for others to be authentic too.
• Your past doesn’t disqualify you — it’s part of your testimony.
• Lies that hold us back — “If people knew me, they wouldn’t love me” or “I can fix myself without telling anyone” — only protect pride, not your heart.
• God doesn’t need perfection. He asks for honesty, and He meets you in the discomfort with grace, peace, and freedom.

📖 Scripture Highlight:

🙌 Practical Steps:

1. Ask God to show you where He’s inviting you to be more authentic.
2. Name your fears. What’s stopping you from sharing your story? Fear of judgment, rejection, or pride? Bring it before Him.
3. Take a step of faith. Choose one trusted person — a friend, pastor, mentor, or small group leader — and share honestly. You don’t need to tell everyone everything, but someone needs to know.
4. Expect discomfort. True authenticity can feel scary — but it’s in that space that God brings His deepest healing.

❤️ Final Encouragement:

Your story — even the messy parts — is not a mistake. It’s a testimony in progress.
 When you choose honesty over hiding, God redeems what shame tried to bury.
 Remember: your story might be the key that unlocks someone else’s freedom.

So this week, ask yourself:
 ➡️ Who do I need to open up to?
➡️ What part of my story is God nudging me to share?

Don’t wait for the perfect moment. Start today — and let God use your authenticity to bring light, healing, and hope.

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At Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.

But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.

Why Donate?

• Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.
• Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.
• Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.

How You Can Help:

• One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.
• Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.
• Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.

Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.

Donate Today

Thank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.

“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36

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Online marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)

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Podcast Hosts

BRADEN HAFNER

Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #241! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Being Bold in a Crazy World!
In a world that feels louder, messier, and more chaotic than ever, it’s easy to play it safe — to keep our heads down and hope life just evens out. But what if God is calling you to be bold right where you are? In this episode, Braden challenges you to ask, “Where is God calling me to be bold?” and reminds you that boldness isn’t about perfection — it’s about obedience, trust, and faith in God’s presence and power.

Braden shares encouragement from Joshua 1:9 and the story of Moses at the burning bush, unpacking what it looks like to step out in faith even when you feel unqualified or stuck in shame. Maybe you’ve battled addiction, pornography, or self-doubt — and you’ve believed the lie that you need to “get it together” before God can use you. This episode reminds you: God doesn’t wait for your perfection. He meets you in your mess.

💡 Key Takeaways:

• God’s call to boldness often comes in the middle of your mess, not after you’ve cleaned it up.
• Joshua 1:9 reminds us that we can be strong and courageous because God is with us wherever we go.
• Like Moses, we often respond to God with excuses — “I’m not good enough,” “I’m not ready,” or “I’ve messed up too much.” But God’s answer is always, “I will be with you.”
• Your past doesn’t disqualify you; it prepares you. God redeems every part of your story.
• Naming your stumbling blocks — fear, shame, addiction, inadequacy — is the first step to bringing them before God and walking in freedom.
• Stepping out in boldness can unlock freedom not only for you but for others watching your story unfold.

🙌 Practical Challenge:

• Take a moment to pray and ask:
   “God, where are You calling me to be bold right now?”
• Write down what holds you back — name your fear, shame, or inadequacy — and surrender it to Him.
• Take one small step of faith this week: share your story, start a conversation, or step into a leadership opportunity you’ve been avoiding.

Remember: God doesn’t need perfection — just your yes.

📖 Scripture Highlight:

❤️ Final Encouragement:

Don’t wait for the perfect moment — it may never come. God’s bold call always comes with His bold provision. Trust that He’ll give you what you need, when you need it. The world doesn’t need perfect people — it needs bold followers of Jesus.

Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn Addiction

At Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.

But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.

Why Donate?

• Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.
• Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.
• Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.

How You Can Help:

• One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.
• Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.
• Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.

Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.

Donate Today

Thank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.

“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36

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Pure Freedom Community for men 18+

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Book a FREE call (men)

Course for marriages

FamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriage

Online marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)

Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days free

Podcast Hosts

BRADEN HAFNER

Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #240! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: I'm Back!!! A Podcast Update!
In this episode, Braden gives an update on his time off, and some news about the format and direction of the podcast moving into a new season!!!

Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn Addiction

At Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.

But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.

Why Donate?

• Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.
• Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.
• Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.

How You Can Help:

• One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.
• Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.
• Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.

Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.

Donate Today

Thank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.

“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36

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Resources

Pure Freedom Community for men 18+

Pure Freedom Journey for men and women

Book a FREE call (men)

Course for marriages

FamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriage

Online marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)

Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days free

Podcast Hosts

BRADEN HAFNER

Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #239! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Is There Ever A "Good" Time To Confess?

When it comes to breaking free from porn and sexual sin, one of the hardest steps is confession. We all want the “perfect” time—the moment when it won’t hurt as much, when life is calmer, when it won’t cost us as dearly. But does that time ever really come?

In this episode,  Braden wrestles with the question: Is there a good time to confess? Drawing from his own story and biblical truth, he shares how fear, shame, and rationalization keep us waiting for a “better” moment that never arrives. Instead, the longer we hide, the deeper sin takes root, isolating us from God, others, and even ourselves.

You’ll hear:

• Why waiting for the “right time” is a lie that keeps us stuck.
• What the Bible says about confession and healing (Proverbs 28:13, James 5:16, 1 John 1:9).
• The difference between healthy confession and harmful “staggered” confession.
• How to choose safe, trusted people to open up to.
• Why confession isn’t just about exposing sin but stepping into God’s mercy and freedom.

Confession will never feel convenient—but it is always worth it. Healing, freedom, and intimacy with God and others are on the other side of that hard but courageous step.

If you don’t yet have a safe person in your life to confess to, Braden shares resources like Pure Freedom Journey and Pure Desire online groups that can walk with you. You are not alone in this battle.

👉 Takeaway: There is no perfect time to confess. The time is now—and God will meet you in it with grace, mercy, and healing.

Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn Addiction

At Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.

But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.

Why Donate?

• Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.
• Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.
• Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.

How You Can Help:

• One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.
• Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.
• Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.

Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.

Donate Today

Thank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.

“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36

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Resources

Pure Freedom Community for men 18+

Pure Freedom Journey for men and women

Book a FREE call (men)

Course for marriages

FamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriage

Online marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)

Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days free

Podcast Hosts

BRADEN HAFNER

Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #238! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Rewiring Bad Messaging Around Sex and Sexuality
Struggling with harmful beliefs about sex, lust, and freedom? In this episode, Braden gets real about the unhelpful messages we often receive from culture and—even more painfully—from church environments.
Key Takeaways:
• Arousal Is Not a Sin: God designed our bodies—including sexual arousal. Feeling attracted to someone isn’t shameful; what matters is our response. It’s not about running from the world but learning, with God’s help, to see people the way He does—full of value and dignity.
• Lust Is Not Inevitable: The message that “all men lust” or that we’re just animals trapped by desire sells us short. With Christ, we’re called higher—to honor, respect, and truly see the people around us, not objectify them.
• Shame Isn’t the Answer: Bad messaging—whether from the “purity culture” or secular world—often leads to shame. But you are not defective because of past actions. In Christ, there is always hope, healing, and a chance to start again.

God’s truth sets us free, even when old habits and temptations linger. Freedom is a journey, not a one-time event. Let’s celebrate God’s design, walk in empathy, and ask Him to help us see ourselves and others through His eyes.
Thanks for listening! Support the show, subscribe, and share this episode to help others find freedom. 

Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn Addiction

At Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.

But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.

Why Donate?

• Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.
• Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.
• Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.

How You Can Help:

• One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.
• Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.
• Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.

Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.

Donate Today

Thank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.

“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36

Ask a question

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Resources

Pure Freedom Community for men 18+

Pure Freedom Journey for men and women

Book a FREE call (men)

Course for marriages

FamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriage

Online marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)

Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days free

Podcast Hosts

BRADEN HAFNER

Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com

Welcome to episode #237! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Have You Taken Ownership of Your Healing?
In this episode, host Braden Hafner, dives deep into a cornerstone of lasting freedom: taking ownership of your healing. This candid conversation unpacks why real change starts when you stop waiting for others to heal you—and step up with intentionality.

Highlights & Key Takeaways
• Personal Responsibility: Lasting healing from porn and unhealthy habits requires more than just wishing or blaming others. No one can carry your water—you have to participate actively in your recovery, in partnership with the Holy Spirit.
• Faith in Action: Jesus said, “Your faith has healed you.” The woman with the issue of blood reached out on her own initiative to touch Jesus’ robe. Her journey reminds us: healing begins with a step of faith, even if the crowd (or your past) looks daunting.
 • Community Support—Not Substitution: Support groups, accountability partners, and church communities are valuable, but they can’t do the work for you. Use them as support, not as crutches or excuses.
• Real Change vs. Surface-Level Management: True healing is about more than just controlling your behavior (white-knuckling it). It’s about getting honest, confessing, and letting God do deep work in your heart through ongoing openness.
• Practical Steps:
• Examine whether you’re blaming others or waiting passively for change.
• Commit, in faith, to taking deliberate steps—big or small—toward wholeness each day, even when it’s hard.
• Stay connected with your faith and your community, but remember: you must carry your own responsibility for healing.
• Don’t be afraid of the discomfort. Like surgery, healing can feel painful at first, but it leads to freedom on the other side.
Scripture Reference:
• Philippians 2:12: “Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.” There is a divine partnership between your choices and God’s grace.

Help Set People Free: Support the Podcast that Fights Porn Addiction

At Pure Victory Podcast, we believe in the power of God’s grace to heal and restore lives. Pornography addiction is a silent struggle for many, but with Christ, there is hope for freedom and transformation. Through biblically-based guidance, real-life testimonies, and expert advice, we’re helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction and walk in the fullness of God’s plan for their lives.

But we need your help to continue this vital work. Your donation will support the production of future episodes, reach more people with the life-changing message of freedom in Christ, and provide resources to those in need of healing.

Why Donate?

• Bring Hope to the Hurting: Your generosity will help us reach those who feel trapped and alone in their addiction, showing them the love, forgiveness, and freedom found in Christ.
• Provide Free Resources: The podcast is a free resource for anyone who struggles with porn addiction, so that all can hear the message of redemption and healing, no matter their circumstances.
• Support Christian Recovery: By giving, you’re supporting a Christ-centered approach to overcoming addiction—one that focuses on prayer, accountability, and spiritual renewal.

How You Can Help:

• One-Time Donation: Your one-time gift, no matter the size, will make a difference in someone’s life, helping us reach more people with the message of hope.
• Monthly Giving: Become a monthly supporter and help us provide ongoing encouragement and biblical wisdom to those who need it most.
• Spread the Word: Share the podcast with others, and encourage people to seek freedom through Christ. Your voice can help bring light to those in darkness.

Together, we can help people walk in victory over addiction and live the abundant life that God has called them to. Your donation makes this possible.

Donate Today

Thank you for partnering with us in this mission. Your generosity not only changes lives but also helps fulfill the biblical command to bear one another’s burdens and bring the love of Christ to a hurting world.

“If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36

Ask a question

Have a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to [email protected]

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Resources

Pure Freedom Community for men 18+

Pure Freedom Journey for men and women

Book a FREE call (men)

Course for marriages

FamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriage

Online marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)

Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days free

Podcast Hosts

BRADEN HAFNER

Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com