Queer Women Rising® with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino

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Let’s talk sexology, p*ssy stroking, sexual trauma, pleasure, and making peace with Darshana Avila.

Yes, you might recognize today’s guest is someone you might recognize from Netflix’s Sex, Love & Goop, but that’s just the beginning of her story.

Back in 2015, Darshana Avila was in a marriage and a career that no longer fit. She walked away from both, and now she’s an internationally celebrated speaker and Erotic Wholeness guide helping queer women and AFABs come back home to their bodies and their truth.

Her work is trauma-informed, pleasure-centric, and radically real.

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What if your person is already inside the same dating platform as you… Just waiting for a message?

This week on Queer Women Rising, I’m joined by Raina and Laurie, a couple who found each other through the Queer Country Club®, a platform built for lesbians and queer women looking for intentional, monogamous love.

From first messages to cross-state travel, they share how their relationship unfolded with patience, warmth, and clarity.

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Don’t try this at home.

Two Lesbians. One carrot.

It was fun until it wasn’t.

Trigger warning: this episode includes my experience with sexual assault.

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She created one of the most iconic sapphic spaces on the internet… but that’s not where the story ends.

📲 Connect with my guest, Jaime Messina.

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We talked about:
– What it’s like to coach others while still healing yourself
– The love story that took her by surprise
– Building sapphic spaces that actually feel safe

– Recognizing internal homophobia
– What she’s creating next

If you’re a lesbian or queer woman building a life of love, peace, and purpose… this one’s for you.

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Today, I dive into the truth of lesbian age gap relationships, the real, raw, and often misunderstood dynamics between women of different generations. Whether you're crushing on someone older, dating someone younger, or just curious how these relationships actually work… this episode is for you.

You’ll learn:

• Why age gap love between women feels so different from straight dynamics

• The benefits of dating someone in a different life stage

• The very real challenges, and how to overcome them

• How to make your relationship work, long-term, regardless of age

• What makes these connections so powerful, so sexy, and so worth it

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🏳️‍🌈 When the love of your life dies… do you ever really come back the same?

This episode is for the lesbians and queer women who’ve been cracked open by heartbreak, walked the messy path of dating married people, and are looking for real magic—within and in partnership.

Back in 2016, Lauren Courtney’s first love passed away, leaving her heartbroken and believing she would never love again. Through her spiritual awakening and the messy dating adventures that followed, she discovered that true love begins within. As she healed, she realized that self-love and inner alignment are the foundation for deep, meaningful connections. Now, as a healer, author, and spiritual guide, she helps others clear emotional blocks, awaken their intuition, and cultivate the love they seek, starting from within.

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Today’s episode is your cheat sheet for getting a girl to actually respond to you in the DMs.

Save these. Copy/paste them. Send them. You’re welcome.

1️⃣ “You seem like someone who actually knows what she wants. Am I right or should I keep scrolling?”
Why it works: It flatters her decisiveness without being generic. And that playful little challenge? It makes her want to prove you right, or cheekily prove you wrong.

2️⃣ “Okay I have to ask… are you the big spoon, little spoon, or ‘depends on the night’?”
Why it works: This skips all the small talk. It’s cheeky, flirty, and dives into playful intimacy without being over the top. It’s irresistible to respond to.

3️⃣ “Something tells me you’re not the type to settle. What’s a green flag you always look for?”
Why it works: It makes her feel like a woman with high standards…which we love. It also gives her a moment to show emotional depth without needing to get super vulnerable too fast.

4️⃣ “I’d bet good money you’re a softie under that confident energy. Am I wrong?”
Why it works: This gently teases her while giving her the perfect opening to reveal more about herself. It’s confident, direct, and it invites a real connection.

5️⃣ “Your vibe feels intentional… what’s something you wish more women noticed about you right away?”
Why it works: This tells her you’re not just here for surface-level attraction. You want to see her. And that? That’s magnetic.

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Can your heart keep up with the digital nomad life?

Our queer guest, Yvonne Wilson, has experienced a transformation that is nothing short of inspiring.

In 2018, she hit rock bottom—binge drinking, drowning in debt, and renting rooms in strangers’ homes—but by 2019 she reinvented her life with the help of a money coach.

After paying off 15k in collections and embracing the digital nomad lifestyle, Yvonne now travels the world and empowers others as a Certified Financial Educator. Her journey of financial and emotional rebirth is wild!

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What makes love last through the years? Nearly 9 years in, Stacey and Alice have some wisdom to share!

What are the odds? You match with someone on a dating app… only to find out they’ve been walking the same campus halls as you!

Stacey and Alice’s love story is proof that sometimes, fate and logging into a dating platform go hand in hand. 💕

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