In this episode of The Rearview Mirror, Jeff and Steve reflect on pivotal, “game changing” moments that have shaped their lives. Through honest and engaging conversation, they explore how certain events, comments, and decisions—both big and small—have had lasting impact across different seasons of life.

Whether it’s a mentor’s encouragement, a moment of crisis, or a personal realization, Jeff and Steve show how looking back reveals the ways these moments were more than chance—they were turning points that continue to echo forward. The conversation is rich with personal stories, spiritual reflection, and an invitation for listeners to consider the game changing moments in their own lives.

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Episode 13 of the Rearview Mirror Podcast features a thoughtful conversation between Jeff and Steve as they explore the evolving dynamics of relating to adult children, rather than continuing to "parent" them in the traditional sense. They reflect on their own relationships with their grown kids, recognizing that the parenting role has shifted into something more consultant-like—offering wisdom when invited, but primarily being a source of trust, encouragement, and support. This episode offers a heartfelt and relatable take on what it means to parent with open hands and a full heart as roles evolve over time.

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Books mentioned on this podcast episode:

Life with Your Adult Children: Keep Your Mouth Shut and the Welcome Mat Out by Jim Burns

How Children Raise Parents by Dan Allender

In this deeply personal Good Friday episode, Jeff and Steve reflect on the reality of change and the importance of healthy transition--especially in light of the recent miscarriage of one of Jeff's grandchildren. Drawing on William Bridges' wisdom that "change is external, transition is internal," they explore the three stage of transition: an ending, the messy middle and a new beginning.

They discuss how we navigate that difficult middle space, where grief, uncertainty and growth often collide. From the changing of seasons to the story of Easter, and from personal loss to life's many shifts--aging, sports, job changes and even death--this episode is filled with raw emotion, hope and practical insight for anyone walking through a season of transition.

In this episode, Jeff and Steve dive into the power of reframing—shifting our perspective to navigate life’s challenges more effectively. From mishits on the golf course to missteps in relationships, they explore how setbacks don’t have to define us. Instead of getting stuck in the moment, they encourage listeners to see failure as part of a bigger story—one that’s still being written.

The episode emphasizes that failures aren’t final and that we always have the chance to ask, “Maybe?” or “And…?” to discover new possibilities. By choosing to “just do the next right thing,” we move forward. Life is a video, not a snapshot, and our worst moments never have to be the last word.

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In this episode, Jeff and Steve explore why community and connection are essential for a healthy life. From church groups to dinner parties, they discuss what makes a group thrive—trust, vulnerability, and shared purpose. They highlight the value of going deeper with others and why some groups succeed while others don’t.

The conversation covers different types of groups, including organic friend circles, study groups, and accountability groups rooted in recovery principles. They clarify that true accountability isn’t about control, but about supporting each other with honesty and grace. Building real community takes risk—but it’s worth it.

Following the social media trend of "I had a cup of coffee with my younger self this morning", Jeff wrote his own story called "I had a beer with my younger self last night." This exercise of self-compassion provides a chance to look in the rearview mirror at what a 20 year olds world view looked like and what advice and wisdom an older version wants to offer. After reading this to Steve they discussed key topics such as viewing authority with a better perspective, financial management, how to leave wounds in the past and move forward with healed scars.

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In this episode, Jeff and Steve dive into the world of health, wellness, exercise, and nutrition—not as experts, but as two guys figuring it out along the way. Steve shares some of his best workout practices, while Jeff opens up about his struggles with discipline and makes a commitment to a new approach. It’s an honest, lighthearted conversation about the challenges and small victories of staying healthy. Tune in for relatable insights, a few laughs, and maybe even some motivation to get moving!

In episode 7 of the Rearview Mirror Podcast, Jeff and Steve continue their discussion on the Enneagram, focusing on the concept of triads. This is Part 2 of their exploration of the Enneagram, where they break down how the nine personality types are grouped into three triads, each defined by a core emotional response to the world.

The triads include:

• The Gut (Instinct) Triad (Types 8, 9, and 1) – Driven by anger, these types react to life based on instinct and a desire for autonomy or control.
• The Heart (Feeling) Triad (Types 2, 3, and 4) – Motivated by shame, individuals in this group seek affirmation and identity through relationships and image.
• The Head (Thinking) Triad (Types 5, 6, and 7) – Rooted in fear, these types navigate the world through analysis, planning, and seeking security.

Jeff and Steve dive into how these core emotions shape behavior, decision-making, and personal growth. They offer insights into recognizing these patterns in daily life and provide practical takeaways for self-awareness and interpersonal relationships.

In Episode 6 of The Rearview Mirror Podcast, Jeff Helton and Steve Pierce give a high-level overview to the Enneagram, a personality framework that explores nine distinct types. They discuss how each type expresses itself in a healthy, resourceful way and contrast that with the shadow side—unhealthy patterns that can emerge under stress or insecurity.

Using real-life examples, Jeff and Steve illustrate the strengths of each number, such as the natural leadership of Type 8 (The Challenger) or the compassionate care of Type 2 (The Helper), while also highlighting potential pitfalls, like control issues or people-pleasing tendencies. Their conversation provides an engaging and reflective look at self-awareness and personal growth through the lens of the Enneagram.

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Resource from today's podcast:

The Road Back to You by Ian Cron and Suzanne Stabile

In this episode of Rearview Mirror, the conversation heats up—literally—with fire stories, cooking successes and failures, and the glory of Texas BBQ. But just like life, the discussion takes an unexpected turn, shifting from sizzling grills to the arrival of a new grandbaby. With this milestone, the conversation deepens into reflections on aging, the second half of life, and learning to embrace change. Instead of dwelling on regrets, Steve and Jeff explore how mistakes can shape growth, the importance of moving forward, and how to navigate the inevitable transitions of life with grace and humor.

A mix of smoky flavors and life wisdom, this episode is all about savoring the journey—both in the kitchen and beyond.