In today’s episode, Kylene and Patrick discuss what ingredients are involved in a healthy marriage. These include: 

After betrayal and through addiction recovery, couples have a real opportunity to start from scratch, taking anything that was healthy and good before, and rooting out anything that’s unhealthy while they create something brand new together. 

Today, Kylene ad Patrick discuss how these pillars helped them in their relationship and why they believe they are foundational for health in any relationship.

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

On IG: @KyleneTerhune

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

On IG: @KyleneTerhune

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This week Kylene and Patrick discuss 3 mindsets that will set you up for success in recovery and how those impact the betrayed partner and the addict in their journeys.

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

In today’s episode, Jackie Newman shares about the journal/workbook she co-authored called Unapologetically You. 

Unapologetically You is your personal companion on a transformative journey towards inner peace, emotional healing, and self-awareness. This journal offers a collection of guided prompts, exercises, and reflective spaces to help you reconnect with your true self, heal old wounds, and embrace the fullness of who you are.

This journal is a reminder that healing is not a destination, but a beautiful, ongoing process. Step into the best version of yourself and begin your journey of healing today.

Today we walk through the 5 sections of the journal including:

And share how the journal helps betrayed partners feel more grounded and move forward on their healing journey

Conference:https://csbdhopeforhealing.org

Jackies website: https://www.ampersandintegrative.com

Barnes and Noble book link: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/unapologetically-you-jackie-newman/1147552402?ean=9798317694548

Lulu: https://www.lulu.com/shop/jackie-newman-and-grounding-grace-co/unapologetically-you/paperback/product-q6dk69y.html?srsltid=AfmBOoqyShlvGtOuXn_ULA7SWh7iWJ_yVMOpVkjLX3sznvolFCNU8Zw0&page=1&pageSize=4

Previous episode with Jackie Newman:

Prepping for disclosure: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000634888047

Today’s episode is a speech that Kylene was asked to present about overcoming adversity. She shares some of her own story as well as 3 keys she notices helps her and others move through painful experiences: Value, Clarity and Courage —> Knowing who you are, getting clarity on the future, and having courage to take steps towards it.

She shares these 5 truths:

Episode on self confidence vs self worth: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000708437532

Episode with future you meditation: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000611570008

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

In todays episode, Patrick shares his thoughts on 3 important principles for a sex addict to remember in recovery:

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

Sometimes divorce isn’t just admissible, it’s beneficial. When a relationship hinders one or both parties from moving forward in health, divorce may be the best choice.

Kylene and Patrick know that there are many reasons that a couple may struggle with this decision including faith based guilt, internalized people pleasing, financial reasons, children etc… This is an nuanced conversation, and one that a single episode certainly will not cover in its entirety. 

We are not here to tell you what to do. Instead, we are sharing some situations where divorce may be the healthiest option (outside of abusive situations which we do not focus on in this episode).

We hope this episode takes the pressure off, lets you take a deep breath and know that if you are heading down the path of divorce, there is nothing wrong with you. A relationship takes TWO people fully committed to work. 

If you are listening to this episode and struggling with this decision we are sending you so much love.

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

On IG: @KyleneTerhune

In this episode, Patrick explores the critical role that habits, routines, and daily discipline play in deep, lasting recovery. He emphasizes the value of fully engaging with all the tools and resources available in whatever recovery plan or program you're following. Patrick also shares insights on the power of journaling and the importance of being intentional when replacing old, unhealthy patterns with new, life-giving ones.

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

On IG: @KyleneTerhune

In this weeks episode, Kylene and Patrick discuss how patterns of thinking and behavior like: compartmentalization, the ability to feel deeply, and being someone who’s able to take action and get things done, can be great strengths in recovery, but those same strengths can also be our weaknesses in a different scenario.

They discuss how understanding our wounds, identifying the filters we view life through, and processing our emotions can help us challenge our own perspective so we can choose the healthy middle.

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune