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Here are the steps I followed after my divorce. I created a plan, which I carefully thought through—much of it was developed during the divorce process. My philosophy is to never wait for an ending to execute a new plan. 

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Sometimes, someone enters your life, and everything feels different. You may think they are finally the person you’ve been waiting for. But what if their purpose in your life is different from what you imagined? What if some relationships are not meant to last forever, but are instead meant to change you, heal something within you, and prepare you for what comes next? What if he stays? There may be a reason he showed up when he did. But the real question is: was he meant to stay?

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Everyone sees the couple who never seems to argue. They look happy, peaceful, and easygoing. But what if there’s something happening behind the scenes that nobody knows about? What if the relationship only looks easy because someone has become very good at hiding what they feel?  Sometimes the biggest sacrifice in a relationship is the one nobody sees. 

Sometimes the calm you see on the outside is covering a much deeper story. And the question is...

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Yes, we all know before our friends break up. I know many of our friends think we don't notice, but we do. When a marriage ends, it’s obvious to us, to everybody in the circle. We just choose to stay silent. Another thing: we also know which person will move on and do better. 

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We naturally look for the closest people in our circle to support us in everything we do. That isn't uncommon, but what if the person closest to you is your biggest rival? What if it's the person that you married? 

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A relationship can end emotionally before it ends officially. Sometimes the ending doesn’t happen with an argument, a breakup, or someone walking out the door. Instead, it happens quietly—when communication fades, affection disappears, trust is lost, and two people slowly stop showing up for each other. So now you find yourself in the most difficult relationship you've ever been in. 

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Intimacy requires consideration. The bedroom should not be a place where one person’s needs matter more than the other’s. Consideration means paying attention to how your partner feels, making them feel wanted, and understanding what excites them. It means caring about their needs and making intimacy enjoyable for both of you. Also, when both people feel valued, heard, and cared for, intimacy can become a deeper expression of love. 

It's a win-win situation! 

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Never feel upset or let yourself get down when someone says something about you. Instead, look at the person who is saying it and consider who they are. What do they know about you? What is their intention? Not everything said about you deserves your attention, your energy, or your reaction. Sometimes, the best response is simply to consider the source, know who is talking, and keep moving forward. 

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I believe that 90 percent of the time, we should trust the universe to guide us toward our desires, our wants. We have a bad habit of trying to steer romance in the direction we want it to go, but most of the time, that leaves us broken-hearted and miserable. So, let's let go and see what happens. Honestly, what can we lose? https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/

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I believe that to have the life we want, the career and lover we desire, we must choose one or the other. But which one can give you all three? 

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