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It was a listener’s question. I don’t think they were being mean-spirited; I think they were just concerned because my mom and Lulu aren’t here anymore.

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Holiday magic has a way of clouding our judgment. The twinkling lights, cozy nights, and festive excitement can make every connection feel deeper than it really is. But just because the season feels magical doesn't mean the person you're with is truly right for you. The real question is: how can you tell if he's genuinely a good match, or if you're just caught up in the holiday charm? 

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Some men don’t stop taking until you stop giving. As long as you keep showing up, he’ll keep using you. He’ll drain your last bit of dignity if you let him. He’ll drag your name you up and down the street if you let him. So don’t just say you’re done — show it. 

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Ladies, here’s what happens when you start to be the provider in your relationship. 

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The dating scene may appear to be declining, but this often happens when you lower your standards. Many men today expect women to be the providers while they benefit from the women's efforts and finances. Ladies, maintain your standards and stop entertaining men who offer nothing but excuses. Remember, you are not their safety net. 

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Ladies, stop trying to do everything on your own. If you really want to achieve your dreams and go farther in life, you need the right mate — someone loyal, who shares your goals and supports your journey. Life is always better when you have a partner by your side. Two is always better than one

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We’ve all fallen into this trap — opening up to the wrong people. But not everyone in your friend group is meant to hear your breakup story. Some friends carry their own hidden pain and will judge you through the lens of their secrets. I know you’re just looking for comfort and a soft place to land, but remember — not everyone’s heart has walked the same path as yours.

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We do this to ourselves because we focus on the good. He’s throwing red flags, but we choose to look past them. And that’s how the cycle begins — dating the same man over and over, just with a different name  Sometimes, we fall in love with potential instead of reality — and that potential can lead us straight down the rabbit hole.

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A quick life update. Sorry for going missing, but I’ve been on the road, headed to a new destination called home. I did it scared and overwhelmed, but I made it. The key is to just do it. We we will not know what life has in store for us unless we move, unless we take a chance on us. So, for that reason, I left on Monday at 4 p.m. to travel to my new home.  Of couree, I had to stop. I can't drive 15 hours straight. But I really stop to go down memory lane, to visit the places my mom and I used to visit before she passed on August 1. 

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