What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• What does over-strategizing look like? How does it show up in ways you may not have thought about or noticed? 
• Dating feels so stressful! How can I have fun and actually enjoy myself?
• How to make your texting more friendly and less urgent and needy. 
• The less you strategize, the better you can weed out the avoidants and only put energy into those who match your interest and values. 
• What does it feel like to a man when women over-strategize? 
• Why is dating multiple people so important before deciding to go exclusive with a man? 
• Yes, men can truly feel both authentic trust, safety, and friendship. AND they can feel when you are overthinking and trying to control/steer the ship. 

Continue On Your Journey

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The Rules

Quotes:

• “We create these stories just out of thin air, and you know, it’s crazy making.” - Benjamin
• “I think a lot of women are looking for a picture to put into a picture frame, rather than seeing the person.” - Benjamin
• “One of the concerns that a guy has in dating is that they’re going to be controlled, so their radar is up.” - Benjamin 
• “It takes a lot of personal risk and a willingness to fully open yourself up to another person and to really surrender to the process.” - Lisa 
• “What we found is that by combining our lives, we've actually gained greater autonomy and a greater sense of ourselves in doing so, because we're reflected back by the other person. By combining our lives, we've actually gained.” - Benjamin 
• “Dating multiple people is so important because you begin to see who shows up.” - Benjamin
• “I stopped trying to get a guy to like me. I just wanted to feel good about myself and I showed up in those situations feeling proud that I had portrayed the best example of me.” - Lisa

Continue On Your Journey: 

Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa

Email the podcast at: [email protected]