Real Love Scenario

RLS Ep151 - Breadcrumbing


Listen Later

Are they keeping you warm… or keeping you stuck? This week on Real Love Scenario, we’re talking breadcrumbing — the slow, subtle heartbreak that comes from being led on just enough to stay… but never enough to grow. We break it all down using our 4 P’s: Pattern, Proximity, Payoff, and Power — and help you recognize whether someone’s offering respectful pacing or just dangling you for their own benefit.

🔥 Topics We Cover: • Breadcrumbing vs. casual clarity vs. real interest • “Hey stranger” texts, flirty reacts, and holiday pop-ins • The addiction loop of mixed signals • The red flags of emotional manipulation • How to stop the cycle and reclaim your power

🛑 Red flags: “Soon” with no plan, late-night-only vibes, public flirt/private ghost

✅ Green flags: Clear timelines, consistent actions, defined intentions 💡 Use our 3-response menu to call it out and move forward:
  1.  Clarify — “What’s your intention here?”
  2. Cap — Set limits with timelines 3. Close or Continue — Walk away or stay with clarity
Poll Time: Are you Team Mirror (match the energy) or Team Exit? Let us know in the comments.
✅ Like, comment, subscribe, and follow us on socials @RealLoveScenario. New episodes every week!
👉 Want us to answer your real love scenario? Submit it here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario

00:00 Episode Intro
01:47 Welcome to Real 
Love Scenario
02:16 Understanding Bread Crumbing
02:51 Personal Experiences with Bread Crumbing
07:58 The Concept of Respectful Pacing
12:00 The Framework of Bread Crumbing
22:34 The Psychology Behind Breadcrumbing
23:48 The Dangers of Manipulative Relationships
24:46 Healthy Power Dynamics in Relationships
26:10 Recognizing Green Flags in Dating
30:58 Identifying Red Flags and Vague Behavior
33:18 Practical Takeaways for Navigating Relationships
42:04 Consistency: The Key to Real Love
43:13 Final Thoughts and Social Media Plugs
...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Real Love ScenarioBy Relationship Restored

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

404 ratings


More shows like Real Love Scenario

View all
CockTales: Dirty Discussions by Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

3,177 Listeners

Woman Evolve with Sarah Jakes Roberts by Woman Evolve

Woman Evolve with Sarah Jakes Roberts

6,928 Listeners

Black Girls Heal by Shena Lashey

Black Girls Heal

1,729 Listeners

Ellis Ever After by iHeartPodcasts

Ellis Ever After

16,304 Listeners

Dear Future Wifey by Laterras R. Whitfield

Dear Future Wifey

2,113 Listeners

Self Care and Chill With Maui by Amirah Morris

Self Care and Chill With Maui

2,663 Listeners

Nice & Neat The Podcast by Blue Wire

Nice & Neat The Podcast

877 Listeners

Affirmations for Black Girls by Tyra The Creative

Affirmations for Black Girls

1,165 Listeners

LOVERS by shan by LOVERS by shan

LOVERS by shan

5,402 Listeners

The Mama's Den by Black Love Podcast Network

The Mama's Den

636 Listeners

Relationship Conversations - Smiths On Demand by Relationship Restored

Relationship Conversations - Smiths On Demand

78 Listeners

For The Gurls by Relationship Restored

For The Gurls

77 Listeners

Your Favorite Aunties by ShaMarian Nia

Your Favorite Aunties

661 Listeners

Keep it Positive, Sweetie by The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts

Keep it Positive, Sweetie

2,259 Listeners

Lost Loverboy Podcast by Demetri Wiley

Lost Loverboy Podcast

285 Listeners

Let's Try This Again with B. Simone by Dear Media

Let's Try This Again with B. Simone

1,029 Listeners