How Nikeesha raced against time, embraced IVF, and navigated health challenges to welcome her daughter, Willa.

In this episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Nikeesha shares her remarkable journey to becoming a solo mum by choice to her daughter, Willa. At just 27, a diagnosis related to her rare form of arthritis meant her window to carry a child was rapidly closing. Determined not to miss out on motherhood, Nikeesha embarked on a whirlwind IVF journey that took just three months from decision to pregnancy.

She candidly discusses the challenges of navigating fertility treatments, the emotional strain of a rushed process, and the physical toll of pregnancy with her condition. Nikeesha also touches on the realities of a traumatic birth during the early days of the COVID-19 pandemic, the lack of postpartum support, and how her unwavering resilience—and the support of her dad—helped her thrive as a solo mum. Her story is one of strength, adaptability, and boundless love for her daughter, Willa.

Key Takeaways:

Making a swift decision to pursue solo motherhood due to a health diagnosis.

Navigating IVF at 27 and dealing with age-related assumptions from medical professionals.

Choosing a donor and experiencing a high-risk pregnancy.

Coping with a traumatic birth and postpartum challenges during the pandemic.

The importance of building a support network and prioritising self-care.

Curious about becoming a solo mum but don’t know where to begin?

Start with the Considering Solo Motherhood course—it’s designed to help you explore this path with clarity and confidence. You’ll learn about donor options, fertility treatments, emotional readiness, finances, and what life can really look like as a solo mum.

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