Spoiler Alert: Big Fight at the end of this one... be prepared to take sides on this episode.

Have you ever taken stock in the idea that either you are your partner is the pacesetter in your relationship? What is that you mean? great question. This is the person who consistently either starts, ends or pauses the hard conversations. If that's you, great... if that's your partner, great! The question is, have either of you ever checked in to see how that makes your partner feel? Either had we, so we did it live (and it wasn't good).

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