Carly always knew motherhood was non-negotiable. Marriage? Optional. A partner? Nice, but not essential. But children? Absolutely.

After a serious car accident in 2020 forced her to stop and re-evaluate everything, Carly realised she couldn’t keep waiting for “someday.” What followed was a journey through public hospital waitlists, donor shortages, IUI disappointment, IVF pressure, and the emotional intensity of choosing a donor in a system where options are limited and timing is everything.

In this episode, Carly shares:

The breakup that made her confront her fertility timeline

The moment her dad said, “There are many ways to have a child.”

Being hit by a car on the way to a first date

Why donor selection was far harder than she expected

The stress of donor availability disappearing in seconds

Losing “her donor” and getting him back

The emotional impact of failed IUIs

Why IVF ultimately changed the trajectory

This episode is honest, grounded, and full of perspective for any woman considering solo motherhood.

Motherhood can be non-negotiable, even when partnership isn’t.

Public fertility systems can involve long waitlists and limited donor access.

Donor shortages are real, particularly for Caucasian donors and IUI cycles.

Extended genetic screening can reduce stress during donor selection.

IUI success rates are low (around 10–15% per cycle).

IVF may feel more clinical, but it can provide reassurance through embryo grading and higher success rates.

Emotional resilience is just as important as medical readiness.

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