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S5:E7 - Nelly & Violet


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From Chronic Illness to Solo Mum: Nelly’s Long Road to Violet

⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of miscarriage, fertility challenges, and medical complications during pregnancy.

Season 5 continues with Nelly’s story — one of resilience, persistence, and navigating an incredibly complex path to motherhood.

Nelly didn’t grow up assuming she would have children. With a history of renal failure, transplants, and years of medical treatment, motherhood didn’t feel like a given.

But over time, that quiet desire became impossible to ignore.

In this episode, she shares:

  • Living with chronic illness and how that shaped her path to motherhood

  • The unexpected discovery of a rare genetic condition during fertility testing

  • A long IVF journey with multiple cycles, losses, and setbacks

  • The decision to move forward with an egg donor — and how a friend changed everything

  • Navigating complex medical care throughout pregnancy

  • A sudden and traumatic early birth at 30 weeks

  • Life in NICU and the emotional reality of becoming a mum in those circumstances

    This episode is raw, honest, and deeply human.

    Key Takeaways
    • The journey to motherhood can be far more complex than expected.

    • Advocating for yourself and asking questions can change everything.

    • Support networks can shape your entire experience.

    • There is no “perfect” path — only your path.

    • Even the hardest journeys can lead to something incredibly meaningful.

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