“I had known the pain, and survived it. It only remained for me to give it voice, to share it for use, that the pain not be wasted.”
Audre Lorde
The experience of violence is shaped by shame and silence. We’ll hear stories about how silence and shame define the experience of violence for everyone involved: the victim, the perpetrator and the bystander, with a special focus on white bystanders and racist violence. We explore how violence is dehumanizing, and leads survivors to blame themselves. We also hear about the forces that make it difficult for victims and bystanders to speak up.This hour long show is about the power of overcoming shame and silence by telling the truth about violence. Through compelling stories and expert reflection, we explore how finding voice and bearing witness can become part of recovery for both individuals and communities.
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From Our Guests
Carl Russell; No Telling Aloud: Keeping Secrets That HurtSusan Brison; Aftermath: Violence and the ReMaking of the SelfJim Gilligan; Violence: Reflections on a National EpidemicJim Gilligan; Preventing Violence: Prospects for TomorrowMartha Minow; Between Vengeance and Forgiveness: Facing History After Genocide and Mass ViolenceMartha Minow; Breaking the Cycles of Hatred: Memory, Law, and RepairDaryl Fort, TEDx 2014; “Safe Communities Require Empathetic Courage”Further Reading & Listening
Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy BancroftTrauma and Recovery by Judith Herman, MDHealing the Soul after Religious Abuse: The Dark Heaven of Recovery by Mikele RauchThe Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk, MDWhen Violence Begins at Home: A Comprehensive Guide to Understanding and Ending Domestic Abuse by J. WilsonThe Little Book of Restorative Justice by Howard ZehrOn Racism and Racist Violence:
Chokehold: Policing Black Men by Paul ButlerTears We Cannot Stop: A Sermon to White America by Michael Eric DysonTacit Racism by Waverly Duck and Anne Warfield RawlsHow To Be An Antiracist by Ibram X. KendiMy Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies by Resmaa Menakem, M.S.W.Healing Racial Trauma: The Road to Resilience by Sheila Wise RoweThe Unapologetic Guide to Black Mental Health: Navigate an Unequal System, Learn Tools for Emotional Wellness, and Get the Help you Deserve by Rheeda Walker, PhDCaste: The Origins of Our Discontents by Isabel Wilkerson1619 from the New York TimesOn Adult Sexual Violence:
Dear Sister: Letters from Survivors of Sexual Violence edited by Lisa Factora-BorchersThe Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse, by Wendy Maltz, CSW Surviving the Silence — Black Women’s Stories of Rape by Charlotte PiercebakerUnpinned: Breaking the Hold of Sexual Assault and Abuse Written by a Male Survivor by Grant WatkinsI Never Told Anyone – Writings by Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse edited by Ellen BassHush: Moving From Silence to Healing After Childhood Sexual Abuse by Nicole Braddock BromleyChildren Who See Too Much: Lessons from the Child Witness to Violence Project by Betsy McAlisterChildhood Disrupted: How Your Biography Becomes Your Biology, and How You Can Heal by Donna Jackson NakazawaHelpful Organizations
Battered Women’s Justice ProjectBlack Lives MatterBlack Mental WellnessBlack Visions CollectiveCampaign ZeroColor of ChangeCommunities United Against Police BrutalityEquality NowFutures Without ViolenceINCITE! Women of Color Against ViolenceMe Too MovementNAACPRape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN)Reclaim the BlockSafe HorizonThe Anti-Violence ProjectThe Bail ProjectThe Breathe NetworkThe National Child Traumatic Stress NetworkThe National Coalition Against Domestic ViolenceThe Northwest NetworkWomankindRelated Safe Space Radio Episodes
Breaking Silence about Violence:
Nubar Alexanian, The Scars of SilenceSusan Brison, The Aftermath of Sexual ViolenceNancy Kassam-Adams, Pediatric Medical TraumaLawrence Langer, Holocaust Survivor TestimoniesCarl Russell, Breaking the SilenceJessica Stern, Trauma, Fear and DenialVincent Felitti, Obesity’s Link to Child Abuse and Child Abuse and Physical Health 25 Years LaterBrie Maselli, Emotional Abuse of Children in Violent Homes Governor Paul LePage, Childhood Domestic Violence Vernon Wiehe, Sibling AbuseJulie Colpitts, Domestic Violence (Part 1, Part 2)Cathy Plourde, The Role of Health Care Providers in Preventing Domestic ViolenceDrew Wing, Reducing Interpersonal Violence/Daryl Fort, Male Sexual Violence and Rape Culture (part 1) and Speaking Up to Sexism and Violence (Part 2)Cynthia Enloe, The Experience of Women in War Kathy Russin, Sexual Trauma and the VAKate Weber, Reporting and RetaliationMaria Girouard, Esther Attean, and Stephanie Bailey, Breaking the Silence Debby Irving, Waking Up White (Part 1, Part 2)Paul Marcus, The System of Racism (Part 1, Part 2)Peggy McIntosh, Unpacking White Privilege (Part 1, Part 2)Sandy White Hawk, Intergenerational Trauma Special on Talking to White Kids about Race and RacismRecovery and Healing from Violence:
Dave Emerson, Yoga for Trauma Survivors Deirdre Fay, Trauma, attachment, and the BodyJanina Fisher, Trauma and DissociationCelia Grand, Trauma and EMDR TherapyJudy Herman, Group Therapy for Trauma SurvivorsWendy Maltz, Sexual HealingPat Ogden, Trauma and the BodyBessel Van Der Kolk, Trauma and the Brain Sheila Cassidy, TortureAlice, The Challenge of Speaking up for Asylum Joanna, Escaping From Violence Working with violent offenders:
Lundy Bancroft, The Psychology of Abusive MenDeb Dana, Sex OffendersMike, Imprisonment and Life Transformation (Part 1, Part 2)Restorative JusticeThe post From Violence to Voice appeared first on Safe Space Radio.