On this episode, I discuss the vanilla influx of people that have swarmed the scene over the last two decades. The effects it has had on newcomers into the community as they mask who they are with a stolen lexicon of terminology and creating issues in the local scene. Conversely, I also discuss the response by BDSM practitioners offering helpful suggestions that are shut down for trying to help with the pejorative of, "There is not true way," yet discarding the rules, competency and respect the rest of us adhere to, is exactly what keeps us safe and enjoying the lifestyle, and more.

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