As the Spice Girls said... Tell me what you want, what you really, really want. And that holds true in sex as well! Today we discuss why being subtle will lead to disappointment.

Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie will explain why you need to be clear with your lover about your desires.

John weighs in with the story of how many radio stations he's worked at painted a very different picture of what they believed the audience wanted, and what those who talked to the listener every day KNEW they really liked and wanted. The point being - if you don't express what you desire, you'll often be presented with things that don't satisfy you.

We'll also discuss masculinity meltdowns and viral sex confessions. In fact, we received a voice note from a listener who has a kinky for shiny things and is looking for a partner who will embrace it! We offer some tips on the best places to find that kinky person. We also have an open conversation about why men should always be ok with having their butts played with!

In this week's So You're A Swinger segment - getting caught in the act while on a cruise. The do's and don'ts on swinger cruises and on mainstream cruises.

Sue will give you a preview of some of the sex tech she wants to discuss in the new year, and there are already some fantastic examples of incredible gadgets that help us get off and explore sex in ways we never could before!

Sex In The News is back including the story of a German man whose gingerbread house, glory hole included, became the talk of the town!

And we address sex and power. Why a lot of the visuals surrounding Christmas actually speak to our kinky selves!

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