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In this fun and informative episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes sex educator and author Elle Chase for a summer-themed exploration of mindful sexuality, body-positive positions, and creative outdoor adventures. Plus, psychological astrologer Dr. Jennifer Freed returns to help you align your sexual energy with cosmic guidance.
We dive into mindfulness techniques for sexual anxiety, including 4-count inhale, 6-count exhale breathing to calm the nervous system and 5-senses grounding exercises to stay present during intimate moments. Elle shares creative summer sex ideas from car sex nostalgia to pool noodle hacks for outdoor comfort, plus body-positive positions like "Threading the Needle" and "The OM Position" that work for all body types.
The episode features listener questions from Trevor about threesome safety, Michael seeking position alternatives for plus-size couples, and Bill concerned about his wife's upcoming hysterectomy. Dr. Emily provides medical advocacy advice about getting second opinions and exploring less invasive alternatives like uterine artery embolization before major surgery.
Dr. Freed's astro forecast highlights courage as this month's theme, with personalized guidance for each sign—from Aries learning to pause and attune to others' desires, to Capricorn embracing daily masturbation for stress release. We also explore alternative intimacy techniques like yoni/lingam massage and the importance of breaking the "penetration as goal" mindset for deeper pleasure exploration.
0:00 - Intro
8:27 - Sexual Liberation & Breaking Free from Negative Self-Talk
9:41 - Threesome Planning: Communication & Boundaries Guide
16:00 - Body-Positive Intimacy Tips
23:00 - Hysterectomy Alternatives: Getting Second Opinions
27:37 - Summer Sex Ideas
32:00 - Massage for Connection
37:22 - Female-Friendly Visual Content & Arousal Discussion
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Sarah breaks down how to make consent attractive rather than awkward, emphasizing that consent is temporary and can be withdrawn at any time. We explore the "hell yes" versus "hell no" standard for enthusiastic consent and practical ways to slow down sexual encounters for better awareness and communication. The conversation addresses how to teach consent early through body autonomy and why being honest about your boundaries actually makes you more attractive to compatible partners.
We dive into listener questions from Matt, who's navigating dating after an abusive marriage with no prior dating experience, and Christi, whose 20-year marriage is strained by concerns about her husband's porn use. Sarah offers guidance on video dating as the pandemic norm, using apps like Hashtag Open for specific interests, and the importance of yes/no/maybe lists for discovering preferences without shame.
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In this empowering episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily Morse sits down with writer, producer, and self-care advocate Tara Schuster to talk about the journey from self-abandonment to self-worth. Through laughter, honesty, and raw storytelling, they explore emotional healing, sexual empowerment, and the small rituals that create lasting change.
Tara shares her background of emotional neglect and how she hit rock bottom; leading her to build a "re-parenting" plan with daily rituals like writing down wins, lighting candles, and journaling to create inner safety and structure. They discuss how unresolved emotional wounds often show up in the bedroom as self-doubt, people-pleasing, or disconnection from pleasure, and how Tara learned to stop abandoning herself in relationships by asking "Do I actually like this person?" instead of "Do they like me?"
They dive into how pleasure, including sex, isn't frivolous; it's essential to well-being, and how we must unlearn shame and guilt around joy in order to thrive.
Featured Resource:
Yes/No/Maybe List - A sexual communication tool mentioned by Tara that helped her explore new experiences and communicate openly with a partner about desires and boundaries. This structured approach allows individuals and couples to indicate their interest levels in various sexual activities, facilitating honest conversations about preferences and limits.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction: Setting the Stage for Healing & Self-Worth
3:08 - Tara's Rock Bottom Moment: The Call That Changed Everything (hitting rock bottom at 25 and the decision to save her own life)
7:42 - The Desert Breakdown: When Success Isn't Enough
14:02 - The Spite Method: How Reluctant Healing Actually Works
19:19 - Body Gratitude Revolution: From Shame to Self-Celebration
22:58 - Self-Worth & Sex: Why Healing Yourself Transforms Intimacy
39:15 - Trauma-Informed Solo Practice: Safe Sexual Exploration
49:23 - The Yes/No/Maybe List: Tools for Sexual Communication
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1:26 - Why Online Dating When Lonely Makes Things Worse
10:00 - Dating App Photo Disasters
18:15 - Can't Orgasm with New Partner After Amazing Ex
24:20 - Military Deployment: Managing Porn Use & Intimacy
27:00 - Breaking Through Sexual Communication Barriers
31:30 - Rebuilding Trust After Cheating
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In this illuminating episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily Morse sits down with Dr. Will Cole, a leader in functional medicine and author of Gut Feelings, to explore how emotional and physical health are deeply connected, and how addressing both is essential for a thriving sex life, better relationships, and holistic well-being.
Dr. Cole explains the "shameflammation connection"; how repressed emotions like shame, guilt, and stress can cause chronic inflammation, impacting libido, energy, and connection. He breaks down this mind-body cycle where emotional stress manifests as physical illness and offers somatic tools for healing, emphasizing that nervous system regulation is crucial to breaking this loop through breathwork, stillness, and rituals that bring people back into their bodies.
We dive deep into the gut-brain connection and its major role in mood, hormone balance, and sexual health. Dr. Cole reveals how processed foods, sugar, and unresolved trauma can hijack desire and performance, while discussing silent inflammation and hormone imbalances that often show up as low libido, fatigue, or anxiety. He uses advanced lab testing to find hidden causes when patients say "I don't feel like myself."
The conversation addresses shame around pleasure and sexual identity, highlighting how culture often teaches us to suppress pleasure or disconnect from desire. Both Emily and Dr. Cole agree that reclaiming sensuality starts with removing shame and practicing compassionate self-awareness.
0:00 - Introduction
2:57 - What is Functional Medicine?
8:24 - The Science Behind "Gut Feelings"
13:37 - How Emotions Become Physical Symptoms
22:27 - Foods That Don't Love You Back
32:07 - Testosterone, Estrogen & Sexual Health
39:04 - Where to Find Functional Medicine Support
46:25 - The Missing Conversation
52:18 - Self-Respect Over Obsession
54:29 - Quickfire Round
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1:38 - Meet the Team
4:10 - What Staying Friends with Exes Says About You
7:17 - Masturbation Month Recap & Four Types of Orgasms Overview
9:03 - Clitoral Orgasms
12:35 - The Tango Vibrator Review
14:54 - G-Spot Orgasms
18:02 - G-Spot Discovery Stories
21:55 - Blended Orgasms
28:17 - Multiple Orgasms
32:05 - Womanizer Review
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In this episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily Morse tackles the myths, insecurities, and real-life situations that often come with high sex drives, mismatched libidos, and performance anxiety. Alongside co-host Anderson, she answers listener questions and offers heartfelt, humorous, and sex-positive advice on topics ranging from post-baby confidence to breakups and virginity.
We explore whether wanting more sex is actually a problem (spoiler: it's not), how to navigate mismatched libidos without shame or labels, and why performance anxiety during first-time experiences is completely normal. Emily addresses a new mom struggling with body confidence and low libido postpartum, offering practical advice on patience, mindful touch, and rebuilding sexual energy through Kegels and self-care.
This episode also dives into breakup survival, including how to live with an ex, resist "revenge sex," and create your own closure rather than expecting it from someone else. We tackle the age-old question of whether you should share your sexual history with partners (Emily's answer: probably not) and explore why "body count" doesn't determine sexual skill. Communication, presence, and adaptability do.
Timestamps:
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
4:29 - Breaking Dating Patterns
10:04 - Sexual History: Should You Share Your Number?
15:11 - High Sex Drive Mismatch
22:04 - Living with Your Ex: Survival Guide
24:10 - Post-Baby Body Confidence Crisis
31:02 - The 31-Year-Old Virgin's Performance Anxiety
36:39 - Breakup Sex Fantasy: Why It's a Bad Idea
39:17 - Wrap-Up
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In this essential episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily dedicates an entire show to demystifying the vagina, expanding knowledge about vulvas, vaginal health, and orgasm types. This conversation is all about understanding anatomy, pleasure pathways, and destigmatizing sexual issues that too many people face in silence.
We explore the internal clitoral network and why it wasn't included in medical texts until the late 1990s, debunk myths around different types of orgasms (spoiler: they're all connected through internal clitoral structure), and address why penetration alone doesn't cause orgasms for most vulva owners. Emily answers listener questions covering everything from clitoral piercings and vaginismus to rebuilding sexual identity after cancer and chronic yeast infections.
This episode includes practical product recommendations like vibrators for sensitive bodies, CBD-infused lubes, and guidance on hormone replacement therapy for vaginal health. Whether you're dealing with pain, dryness, struggling to reach climax, or just want to understand your body better, this episode offers science-backed insights and compassionate guidance for reclaiming your pleasure and sexual confidence.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction: Understanding Your Vagina for Better Pleasure
1:44 - Caller Question: Clitoral Piercing Pain and Partner Acceptance
4:20 - Vaginismus: When Your Vagina Won't Relax for Penetration
8:44 - Endometriosis and Sexual Recovery After Cancer
16:22 - Clitoral vs G-Spot Orgasms: What's the Difference?
18:12 - Post-Menopause Orgasms and Vibrator "Addiction" Myths
23:10 - Chronic Yeast Infections: Causes and Solutions
28:21 - When Your Partner Stops Wanting Oral Sex After Baby
32:13 - Wrap-Up: Key Takeaways for Vaginal Health and Pleasure
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It's not just your closet that needs a refresh, your love life might too. In this episode, Emily helps you declutter the emotional and relational baggage that's blocking deeper connection, better sex, and healthier self-worth. Think of it as a relationship reset: more intention, less chaos.
We explore the signs your love life needs a clean-out (hint: recurring patterns, mixed signals, ghosting) and how to stop confusing chaos for chemistry. Emily guides you through rewriting your dating narrative with clarity and compassion, knowing when to break up with your "type" and try something new, and how to identify emotional unavailability in yourself and others. This episode also covers letting go of "situationships" that are keeping you stuck and creating a values-based dating filter that actually works.
If you've been stuck in dating loops, confused about someone's intentions, or holding on to a relationship that's "almost" right, this episode offers the permission, and tools, you need to clear the space for real, aligned love.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
8:51 - How to Identify Toxic Relationships and Partners
19:09 - Signs It's Time to Let Go of Your Relationship
23:03 - The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse (Gottman Research)
27:17 - Trust Issues: When Relationships Can't Be Rebuilt
30:24 - When Sex Dies in Your Relationship
38:17 - Email Time: Jealous Partner Making Wild Accusations
44:40 - Sex During Separation: Good Idea or Trap?
47:02 - The Great Squirting Debate: What It Really Is
51:46 - Wrap-Up and How to Connect
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