Valentine's day is just around the corner.  Only a few days left in fact.  If that started to make you sweat, well, I feel for you.  Valentine's Day, I think, is potentially one of the most dangerous days of the year for married couples.  I'll explain what I mean, and then give a couple tips for how to survive it.

Valentine's day is just around the corner.  Only a few days left in fact.  If that started to make you sweat, well, I feel for you.  Valentine's Day, I think, is potentially one of the most dangerous days of the year for married couples.  I'll explain what I mean, and then give a couple tips for how to survive it.

Men are often accused of compartmentalized lives, and for the most part it's true.  Most of us can have our work life and our home life and our church life and our sports/hobbies life, and keep them all fairly contained.  Women, on the other hand, tend to have one life, and it all mixes together.  However, there is one aspect of life that men often find very difficult to compartmentalize: their sex life.

Men are often accused of compartmentalized lives, and for the most part it's true.  Most of us can have our work life and our home life and our church life and our sports/hobbies life, and keep them all fairly contained.  Women, on the other hand, tend to have one life, and it all mixes together.  However, there is one aspect of life that men often find very difficult to compartmentalize: their sex life.

This week, I'm talking about morning sex, that is sex when you first wake up.  Why discuss morning sex?  Because there's a lot going on that people don't realize I think.  I often get asked "why does my husband want sex in the morning?" and so if you ever had that question, or if you're a husband and are curious why you want sex in the morning, here's your change to find out why.

This week, I'm talking about morning sex, that is sex when you first wake up.  Why discuss morning sex?  Because there's a lot going on that people don't realize I think.  I often get asked "why does my husband want sex in the morning?" and so if you ever had that question, or if you're a husband and are curious why you want sex in the morning, here's your change to find out why.

I wrote a post on this topic a few years ago and thought I'd do a podcast version for those who don't read the blog, or are new and aren't aware of my older posts.  I believe married men (or women) masturbate for three reasons: Ignorance, Selfishness and/or Addiction.

I wrote a post on this topic a few years ago and thought I'd do a podcast version for those who don't read the blog, or are new and aren't aware of my older posts.  I believe married men (or women) masturbate for three reasons: Ignorance, Selfishness and/or Addiction.

This week we're discussing how you train your spouse.  In all human relationships, we teach other's how to interact with us.  Sometimes it's positive, sometimes it's not.  But, often we don't think about it and then we are surprised by the results of our training.

My wife and I trained each other horribly in the years of our marriage and spent years undoing those bad teachings.  But, you can't start unless you understand what's going on.

This week we're discussing how you train your spouse.  In all human relationships, we teach other's how to interact with us.  Sometimes it's positive, sometimes it's not.  But, often we don't think about it and then we are surprised by the results of our training.

My wife and I trained each other horribly in the years of our marriage and spent years undoing those bad teachings.  But, you can't start unless you understand what's going on.