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Follow Stamie and Tracy in 2020 as they navigate their lives after appearing on Showtime’s The Real L Word Season 1 with their careers, Tracy being an insta-mom, dating with kids, Stamie’s real estate career, Greek family back East, dealing with your ex, dealing with your ex and living life as a gay...

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Show favorite Sophie Nicolaou- Greek legend- returns to the show for a very fun episode! It is summer travel season and Stamie and Sophie tackle the proper etiquette when flying on a plane! They also talk about Sophie's difficult time saying "no", how Stamie missed out on the best mom party ever, an Uber horror story, Sophie's trip to Italy, the upcoming Womans World Cup, Messi going to Miami and much more. Cool down with a nice summer evening drink and have some great laughs in this latest episode! Follow Sophie: YouTube + podcast Higbury Squad Instagram: @soccerdiva71 Twitter: @soccerdiva Follow our new Instagram: @stamieandtracypodcast if you love the show.. and want to see it continue. Please share your thoughts and review on Apple Podcasts   thank you to our sponsor  www.Mewdvitamins.com And... If you like horror films visit Producer Mike's Youtube channel @chronocabin

#27 Sophie Nicolaou on Little Travel Etiquette when flying

In this very special episode Stamie is joined by dear friend Joe Wilson. Joe talks about coping with terminal pancreatic cancer and his new perspective on life and "living in overtime." His title for living longer than the doctors expected. We cover his life being a private eye, dealing with an augoraphobic pimp, his time in L.A. as a filmaker, writer, actor and producer, stand up & what not to say to someone who is struggling with a disease, his artwork involving a giant portrait of his cat, his delve into VR, how he told his family of his illness, how he has dealt with his illness, why all of the people at the hospital love to see him and much more.   ans his famous quote:  "We are all famous to a few people" Follow Joe on Instagram @joewilsontv Follow our new Instagram: @stamieandtracypodcast if you love the show.. and want to see it continue. Please share your thoughts and review on Apple Podcasts   thank you to our sponsor  www.Mewdvitamins.com And... If you like horror films visit Producer Mike's Youtube channel @chronocabin  

#26 Joe Wilson - Living In Overtime; Joes journey with Stage 4 Cancer and 1800 Hours of Chemo

Tracy Ryerson finally returns to the show this week with special guest Whitney Mixter! They talk about being moms (and a single mom for Whitney) during the pandemic, breast feeding babies and your partner, who is on their "List", running the L.A. Marathon on a whim, learning from life trauma, Milo's nickname for Stamie, why Stamie would get dressed up to drop her kids at school, and a very awkward and celebrity encounter with Dolly Parton   Instagram: @stamiela @whitneymixter @trye follow our new instagram: @stamieandtracyshow if you love the show.. and want to see it continue. Please share your thoughts and review on Apple Podcasts   And... If you like horror films visit Producer Mike's Youtube channel @chronocabin thank you to our sponsor  www.Mewdvitamins.com

#25 Real L Word Alums Tracy Ryerson and Whitney Mixter

Lauren Koeppe joins Stamie to talk about so much. Starting with how she was a major player in developing the flavor of Mewd Vitamins. how she got into the food and hospitality business, her entreprenuerial experience in building a successful business, going to the Burning Man festival, her incredible organizational skills and maintaining a healthy relationship with her partner, being a ballet dancer in New York, how Milo put a hex on Stamie and much more. Lauren is hospitality wizard, restaurant developer, world traveler event producer and celebrity chef. Follow Lauren: @lauren_koeppe  Lauren's Business @createhospitality Instagram: @stamiela If you like horror films visit Producer Mike's Youtube channel @chronocabin www.Mewdvitamins.com

#24 Lauren Koeppe- Entrepreneur, Hospitality Wizard & how she gets it all done.

Special guest Wendy Miller! Wendy Miller is an ACS Certified Sexologist, Relationship Expert, Author, Emmy-Winning TV Producer, and Host of the hit podcast, Sex Ed The Musical. In this episode we talk about her car bond with Jagger, beating cancer and the activity that changed her life, why it is difficult and awkward to talk about sex, Wendy's Oracle card business,and a very funny celebrity story. We also have a very fun Oracle card reading which is sure to bring you some laughs. Buy Wendy's Oracle Cards at www.cardtobelieve.com  instagram: @stamiela @cardtobelieve If you like horror films visit Producer Mike's Youtube channel youtube.com/@chronocabin www.Mewdvitamins.com

#23 Wendy Miller and Why It is Awkward to Talk About Sex

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We are two strippers. We are two queer, hetero-presenting sex enthusiasts. We have a mission to inform, arouse and amuse you. We live in a world of rapid-fire social media, and of diverse politics. We have watched as the establishment and the media perpetuate systemic oppression of all peoples thoug...

Orchid and Elle bid farewell and reflect on how UnzippedPdx has changed their lives.

S2 EP45 // Until Next Time

Orchid and Elle celebrate their second to last episode by talking about mothering, parenting, and record-breaking.

S2 EP44 // Glass Ceiling Ejaculations

We Talk with a BDSM Event Organizer and give more suggestions for managing sex related trauma. Enjoy our last episode on May 25th! Thank you and follow your hosts to see what we do next.

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Elle and Orchid are wrapping up Unzipped and talk about the future after FOSTA.

S2 EP 42 // All Good Things Must Come To An End

Elle recounts her cervical biopsy experience and the gals answer your sex + dating questions.

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Turn Me On features conversations about love, sex, and relationships hosted by a recently divorced, formerly polyamorous, couple of best friends. Thoughtful, intelligent, and funny, Turn Me On is a homegrown education in sex and relational literacy brought to you via curious and adventurous hosts, J...

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What’s a bigger turn off than feeling like sex might shred your vagina? Deb Porteus found new love right along the same time she started perimenopause, and the kicker is that "new relationship energy" sex combined with vaginal dryness for folks who are going through “the change”, it fucking hurts. They tried the standards and explored at length, but firecracker Deb and her lover Brian were determined to make something better than what they could find, and The Pleasure Pods were born. Longtime friends from teaching yoga together, Deb, Bryde and Jeremie chat about what The Pleasure Pods are made of, what they look, feel, smell, and taste like, and the many ways they can be used to enhance your pleasure. No, this is not an ad! Deb has a spirit that will light you up and inspire you, and you will enjoy her story of how she went about getting into lube development and becoming a “friggin’ awesome squirter”.
Pleasure Pods Links: Instagram Facebook Youtube www.thepleasurepods.com
TakeawaysPleasure Pods are small, solid lubricant pods made of natural ingredients like mango butter, cocoa butter, and coconut butter.The pods melt upon contact with the skin, providing a smooth and long-lasting lubrication.Pleasure Pods can be used for sexual activities, massages, and as a skincare product for soothing irritated skin.Deborah's personal experience with perimenopause and vaginal dryness inspired her to create Pleasure Pods to address the lack of effective and safe lubricants on the market.
 Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting Up 08:01 Using Coconut Oil and the Birth of Pleasure Pods 16:27 Ingredients and Skincare Benefits of Pleasure Pods 29:31 Expanding into the United States 36:12 Understanding the Longevity of Pleasure Pods 43:16 Connecting with Pleasure Pods on Social Media



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Pleasure Pods: I Melt for You

What is the most common question an online sex educator finds in her DMs? Danielle Bezalel, aka DB, is an executive producer and creator of Sex Ed with DB. She has a Master of Public Health with a focus on sexuality and reproductive health. In this conversation, she talks to Bryde and Jeremie about public health and its role with sex education, highlighting the need for age-appropriate and medically accurate sex education that covers topics such as boundaries, consent, puberty, menstruation, STIs, and contraception, and statistics relating to abstinence only sex ed. 
DB breaks down the benefits of masturbation, including effects on stress levels, mood, and confidence, and details on her own masturbation science project and the findings. Jeremie offers a brief history lesson on the Magic Wand. Other topics of conversation include the challenges of being a sexual health influencer on social media plus a workshop to help folks who are establishing their sex health brands online. DB also addresses questions about talking to children about masturbation and the most common questions she receives as a sexual health educator.
Keywords: sex education, public health, abstinence-only, comprehensive, age-appropriate, medically accurate, boundaries, consent, puberty, menstruation, STIs, contraception, pleasure, orgasm gap, sex education, masturbation, sexual health, Magic Wand, confidence, parenting, sex toys, social media
TakeawaysComprehensive and age-appropriate sex education is crucial for promoting sexual health and well-being.The United States has a lack of comprehensive sex education, with only 17 states requiring medically accurate program content.Abstinence-only programs perpetuate myths and misinformation about sex and sexual health.Sex education should start at a young age, with age-appropriate discussions about boundaries, consent, and body parts.Public health plays a vital role in addressing sexual health issues and promoting overall well-being. Masturbation can have numerous benefits, including stress reduction, improved mood, and increased confidence.
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Other episode mentions:  Guttmacher Institute 
Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Danielle Bezalel (DB) 05:54 The Lack of Comprehensive Sex Education in the United States 12:06 Age-Appropriate Topics in Sex Education 28:21 Comprehensive Sex Education 41:19 Talking to Children About Masturbation 48:09 The Challenges of Being a Sexual Health Educator 54:33 Navigating Social Media as a Sexual Health Influencer Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Shaping Sex Ed: A Public Health Perscpective

What's it like to make a decision in favour of your sexual and mental well-being that costs you everything you know and sometimes everyone you love? Julia and Jeremiah Postema are certified sex therapists who grew up in different religious communities, and from their experiences they speak to singles and couples who are on their own healing path from shame, disillusionment, and allegiance to the church. Jeremie and Bryde chat with today's guests about the restrictive gendered messages around relationships and sexuality that exist within evangelical, Mormon, and Pentecostal communities. They also talk about the challenges of existing in both religious and philosophical spaces and the grief that can come with leaving a religious community. They highlight the importance of expanding options for healthy relationships and sexuality, at a pace that is appropriate for those in treatment.
TakeawaysGrowing up in religious communities can impact our approaches to intimacy and sexuality.The concept of the 'trad wife' reinforces restrictive gender norms within evangelical, Mormon, and Pentecostal communities.Existing in both religious and philosophical spaces can be challenging, but it is possible to maintain a sense of spirituality outside of organized religion.Leaving a religious community can result in a sense of grief and loss, as it often means leaving behind a community and relationships.Religious communities often teach foundational values for healthy sexuality in early childhood, but as children become adolescents, the focus shifts to allegiance and identification with the church.Men who grow up in purity culture may struggle with the double bind of being taught that they are sexually dominant and aggressive, but also that they must fight sinful urges.Couples with differing religious beliefs or levels of commitment may face challenges in their sexual and intimate relationships.

Keywords sex, religion, sexuality, religious communities, sex therapy, gender norms, trad wife, evangelical, Mormon, Pentecostal, philosophy, spirituality, grief, leaving a religious community, healthy relationships, religion, sexuality, relationships, abstinence-only education, gender differences, shame, therapy, couples, communication
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Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background of Julia and Jeremiah 03:08 The Intersection of Sex and Religion 06:10 The Trad Wife Phenomenon and Gender Norms in Religious Communities 10:57 Challenges of Existing in Religious and Philosophical Spaces 23:35 Expanding Options for Healthy Relationships and Sexuality 29:32 The Impact of Religion on Sexuality 31:06 Gender Differences in Religious Teachings 34:06 The Double Bind for Men in Purity Culture 38:46 Challenges in Relationships with Differing Religious Beliefs 46:16 The Importance of Finding a Therapist Who Understands Religious Backgrounds Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Eternal Consequences of Sexuality

Have you ever wondered why your mother/daughter is such a bitch? Dr. Debra Mandel, nationally renowned psychologist and author of 4 books including the bestselling "Dump That Chump," joins Bryde and Jeremie for a conversation about Dr. Debra’s latest release, “Sassy & Rude, Her New Attitude: A Tough Love Guide for Moms on How to Bring Back The Sugar and Spice in Their Not-so-Nice Adult Daughters”. This conversation centers on the relationship between adult mothers and adult daughters, and this information is for you if you are either of those or anyone who knows and loves a mother daughter duo. The three talk through personal anecdotes and professional insights on themes of shame, power dynamics, shifts in relationship, independence, boundaries, expectations, body image, and more. Dr. Debra provides insights and advice on fostering healthy communication, addressing conflicts, and supporting each other's growth.
Dr. Debra brings over 30 years working clinically with individuals, couples, and families with a range of specialties from relationship and daily life issues to depression, anxiety, eating disorders and addiction, and she speaks on her subject with humour and compassion at the forefront.
TakeawaysParent-adult child relationships require open dialogue and understanding.Recognize and address shifts in the relationship to foster healing.Let go of the need to be the authority and embrace a reciprocal relationship.Power dynamics can impact communication and should be navigated with care.Transitioning from a parent-child relationship to an adult-adult relationship can be challenging for both mothers and adult daughters.Setting boundaries and managing expectations are crucial in maintaining a healthy mother-daughter relationship.Mothers should prioritize self-care and pursue their own interests and hobbies to avoid becoming overly dependent on their adult daughters.

Keywords parent-adult child relationships, healing, communication, power dynamics, open dialogue, understanding, mothers, adult daughters, boundaries, expectations, roles, responsibilities, self-care, body image, communication, conflicts, growth, empathy, understanding
Links Twitter: @DrDebraMandel Instagram: @dr.debramandel  Facebook: Dr. Debra Mandel, The LOVE Warrior  Youtube: @debramandel7083 Website: DrDebraOnline.com
Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background of Dr. Deborah Mandel 03:05 Exploring Different Modalities in Psychology 07:51 The Effectiveness of Psychological Techniques 11:05 The Inspiration Behind 'Sassy and Rude' 13:53 Healing Unresolved Mother-Daughter Relationships 21:28 Power Dynamics in Parent-Adult Child Relationships 27:01 Transitioning to an Adult-Adult Relationship 33:29 Setting Boundaries and Overcoming the 'Too Nice Mom Syndrome' 38:55 The Empty Nest and Shifting Roles 45:17 Mother-Daughter Conversations about Sexuality and Empowerment 48:48 Addressing Dislike for a Daughter's Partner Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why She's a Bitch: Mother Daughter Dynamics

It’s time for a revolution in the sheets and the streets, as we sit down with Cindy Gallop, the genius at the forefront of the Social Sex Revolution. Cindy, the visionary behind MakeLoveNotPorn, shares the serendipitous inception of her platform and how it's challenging and reshaping societal norms around sex. But that's just the first layer. Delving deeper, Cindy unravels the complex web of gender bias in AI, advocating for a seismic shift towards inclusivity and safety in tech through the lens of female innovation. Imagine a world where AI not only serves us but enhances our creativity and nurtures ethical, consensual relationships in the digital age—Cindy believes it's not just possible; it's imperative. From the gritty challenges of entrepreneurship to the soaring potential of AI in the arts and sex tech, this conversation is a masterclass in disruption, diversity, and daring to dream.
Key TakeawaysMake Love Not Porn has had a significant impact on changing the conversation around sex and challenging societal norms.The platform has played a role in shifting views on sex work and promoting healthy, consensual sexual relationships.Cindy Gallop emphasizes the importance of diversity and inclusion in the tech industry, particularly in AI development.The future of AI depends on funding female founders and incorporating the female lens to create safe and beneficial AI experiences. Gender bias in AI can lead to ineffective and biased outcomes. Safety is a significant concern in AI development. Ensuring AI is designed and implemented safely is essential to prevent potential harm and create a positive impact.Ethical and consensual practices are essential in the world of sex and porn. AI can be used to create positive and empowering experiences, but it should be approached with caution and respect for consent.Investing in companies that align with one's values and beliefs can be a powerful way to support their growth and make a positive impact.
 Relevant Links: MakeLoveNotPorn TheArts.AI MakeLoveNotPorn WeFunder
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Social Sex Revolution: Sex, AI, and the Future with Cindy Gallop

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Love People Use Things is a podcast run by a Christian (Matt) and an atheist (Noah). They disagree on a lot of stuff, obviously, but they both agree that your life, your relationships, and society as a whole would be a whole lot more beautiful and healthy without porn.

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Today I discuss a recent article "These Mothers Teamed Up To Create A Porn Film They Want Their Children To Watch." Thanks for listening. Be sure to checkout Strive here.

49: These Mothers are making porn for their children

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48: New Year's Resolutions & Porn

47: Anxiety and pornography use

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46: Designing Your Porn-Free Future

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The world from a Queer perspective: Conversations, stories and a good old laugh with LGBTQ+ icons, allies and of course, our lovely listeners. Come and join the Homo Sapiens family with new episodes every Thursday - the more the merrier! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we are joined by the hilariously funny actor and comedian, Hannah Gadsby.
Hannah's new Netflix special Gender Agenda was released earlier this month. Gender Agenda showcases some of the best gender queer comedy from around the world and features topics such as top surgery, misgendering and the effects of testosterone. Hannah sat down to tell us all about how they curated the line up and why stage time isn't always safe time for gender queer comedians. Plus, they tell us why they caused a stir on Instagram.

 

278: Hannah Gadsby's Gender Agenda | Part 2

This week, we are joined by the hilariously funny actor and comedian, Hannah Gadsby.
Hannah's new Netflix special Gender Agenda was released earlier this month. Gender Agenda showcases some of the best gender queer comedy from around the world and features comedians discussing topics such as top surgery, misgendering and the effects of testosterone. Hannah sat down to tell us all about how they curated the line up and why stage time isn't always safe time for gender queer comedians. Plus, they tell us why they caused a stir on Instagram.


278: Hannah Gadsby's Gender Agenda | Part 1

*TRIGGER WARNING*: This episode contains discussions around suicide and rape. 
This week, we are joined by the incredible Charlie Craggs. Charlie is an author, actress and the brains behind campaigns such as Nail Transphobia and Charlie's Self Defence Angels. More recently, she was in the press after being denied hormones by her new GP after moving out of London after a transphobic attack.
We sat down to discuss all of this and more. Charlie is a true trailblazer for the trans community, so make sure you don't miss this one!
If you have been affected by any of the themes in this episode, both Samaritans and SARSAS have resources on their websites.


277: The T is for Try Me, B*tch! With Charlie Craggs | Part 1

*Trigger warning*: This episode contains discussions around suicide and rape.*
This week, we are joined by the incredible Charlie Craggs. Charlie is an author, actress and the brains behind campaigns such as Nail Transphobia and Charlie's Self Defence Angels. More recently, she was in the press after being denied hormones by her new GP after moving out of London after a transphobic attack.
We sat down to discuss all of this and more. Charlie is a true trailblazer for the trans community, so make sure you don't miss this one!
If you have been affected by any of the themes in this episode, both Samaritans and SARSAS have resources on their websites.


277: The T is for Try Me, B*tch! With Charlie Craggs | Part 2

This year marks the 38th BFI Flare: London LGBTQIA+ Film Festival and to celebrate we are coming from you live from the red carpet! We were lucky enough to chat to some of the amazing queer talent being showcased at this year's festival. We spoke to writer and director of opening night film Layla, Amrou Al-Kadhi, as well as cast Bilal Hasna and Louis Greatorex. We also caught up with Elliot Page, star and producer of Close To You, his co-star Hilary Baach and director Dominic Savage.
38th BFI FLARE: LONDON LGBTQIA+ FILM FESTIVAL 2024 is running now until 24 March at BFI Southbank and on BFI Player. 


Culture Club: BFI Flare LGBTQIA+ Film Festival feat. Elliot Page + more!

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    The encounter between you and your hot German teacher takes on a thrilling twist as you navigate the delicate balance of discretion on campus. Pretending to be strangers around colleagues fuels the excitement, but the burning desire for his strict lessons is becoming harder to conceal.
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    With less than a month until your research fellowship in Dresden, your German is anything but fluent. When the handsome, recently-tenured philosophy professor everyone's been talking about offers to tutor you, it very quickly becomes clear that you're in for more than just language lessons. Your tutoring sessions turn into a high-stakes game of power and pleasure that no one but you two can ever know about.
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    Your boyfriend really isn't the jealous type, but you can tell he's feeling worked up after that guy blatantly hit on you right in front of him. To be honest, you kind of like it when he gets a little possessive. When he needs to have you all to himself. When he doesn't hold back.
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Exploring sex, kink, gender, and love with Tina Horn. Subscribe to ACast+ for Exclusive Bonus Content! Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Yin Q, writer of the piece "We All Deserve To Heal" from We Too, discusses Spike Lee, Body of Workers, Kink Out Spaces at MOMA PS1, disassociation, complicity, power play, control, and forgiveness. // Yin Q is a mother, kink educator, writer, and activist based in New York City. Their media work includes Mercy Mistress, a web pilot, and Fly in Power, a short documentary. They founded a production team called Kink Out and organize with Red Canary Song, an APIA and Asian migrant sex and massage worker collective. Yin has been recognized by Spike Lee as an impact activist in his tribute to Jackie Robinson.// ABOUT WE TOO: This collection of narrative essays by sex workers presents a crystal-clear rejoinder: there’s never been a better time to fight for justice. Responding to the resurgence of the #MeToo movement in 2017, sex workers from across the industry—hookers and prostitutes, strippers and dancers, porn stars, cam models, Dommes and subs alike—complicate narratives of sexual harassment and violence, and expand conversations often limited to normative workplaces. Writing across topics such as homelessness, motherhood, and toxic masculinity, We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival gives voice to the fight for agency and accountability across sex industries. With contributions by leading voices in the movement such as Melissa Gira Grant, Ceyenne Doroshow, Audacia Ray, femi babylon, April Flores, and Yin Q, this anthology explores sex work as work, and sex workers as laboring subjects in need of respect—not rescue. A portion of this book's net proceeds will be donated to SWOP Behind Bars (SBB). Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

WE TOO: Yin Q on Kink Out and Forgiveness

“They have no stakes. We have all of the stakes.” In the latest episode of my special series on WE TOO: Essays on Sex Work and Survival, I interviewed Selena the Stripper, who wrote the book's introduction. Discussed: FKA Twigs' pole dance appropriation; who gets to use the word Heaux: sugar dating; the status value of a Birkin bag; Strippers United // Selena The Stripper is a sex worker, writer, podcaster, and community organizer. After graduating from MICA in 2015, fae felt out of place in the elitist world of institutional art. Through stripping fae found financial stability and a community of incredibly strong, radically free thinking artists. Faer Instagram (@prettyboygirl) highlights faer writing and photography, but weekly exclusive content can be found on Patreon (@therealprettyboygirl). Fae is a resident author with Berlinable, a Berlin-based erotica publication. Faer podcast, Heaux in the Kneaux, is available on all platforms. //  ABOUT WE TOO This collection of narrative essays by sex workers presents a crystal-clear rejoinder: there’s never been a better time to fight for justice. Responding to the resurgence of the #MeToo movement in 2017, sex workers from across the industry—hookers and prostitutes, strippers and dancers, porn stars, cam models, Dommes and subs alike—complicate narratives of sexual harassment and violence, and expand conversations often limited to normative workplaces. Writing across topics such as homelessness, motherhood, and toxic masculinity, We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival gives voice to the fight for agency and accountability across sex industries. With contributions by leading voices in the movement such as Melissa Gira Grant, Ceyenne Doroshow, Audacia Ray, femi babylon, April Flores, and Yin Q, this anthology explores sex work as work, and sex workers as laboring subjects in need of respect—not rescue. A portion of this book's net proceeds will be donated to SWOP Behind Bars (SBB) Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

WE TOO: Selena the Stripper

For the first episode of a special series celebrating the release of We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival, I chatted with the book's editor Natalie West. (I associate edited and contributed to the anthology!) // "You have to be ok with ambiguity to grapple with what the book presents and what sex work is."// Natalie reflects on her choice to market herself as the Lesbian Dominatrix of Los Angeles. Then we get into the long history of how we came to co-edit this anthology of sex workers responding to the Me Too movement. Stay tuned for more episodes featuring other contributors to the book. And snag your copy, out 2.9.21 from Feminist Press! // Natalie West is a Los Angeles based writer and educator. She worked as a professional Dominatrix while obtaining her PhD in Gender Studies. These days, she is a professor who moonlights as a sex work, BDSM, and queer community authenticity consultant for film and television. // We Too is a collection of narrative essays by sex workers presents a crystal-clear rejoinder: there’s never been a better time to fight for justice. Responding to the resurgence of the #MeToo movement in 2017, sex workers from across the industry—hookers and prostitutes, strippers and dancers, porn stars, cam models, Dommes and subs alike—complicate narratives of sexual harassment and violence, and expand conversations often limited to normative workplaces. Writing across topics such as homelessness, motherhood, and toxic masculinity, We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival gives voice to the fight for agency and accountability across sex industries. With contributions by leading voices in the movement such as Melissa Gira Grant, Ceyenne Doroshow, Audacia Ray, femi babylon, April Flores, and Yin Q, this anthology explores sex work as work, and sex workers as laboring subjects in need of respect—not rescue. A portion of this book's net proceeds will be donated to SWOP Behind Bars (SBB). Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

WE TOO: Natalie West

Hey YAPIT fans! I'm focusing my energy on SfSx Volume 2, the hustle, and work/life balance in these turbulent times. Listen for a few words on my hiatus, and what to expect in 2021. xoxoxo TH Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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“No amount of assimilation or pride has shaken this sense of myself as an inverted dark predatory lesbian.” // Certified lesbian vampire Annie Rose Malamet joins me to explain the appeal of darkness, finesse, predation, the night, immortal codependency, two little wounds in the neck, ejaculating blood, obsession, morbidity, the shadow self, and performance; with nods to Octavia Butler, Anne Rice, Countess Elizabeth Báthory, Phantom of the motherfuckin Opera, Xenomorphs, Ovi positors, slutty Halloween werewolves, tentacles, and evil computers. // Annie Rose Malamet is a writer, teaching artist, and podcast producer. As the creator of the podcast "Girls, Guts, & Giallo," she examines subversive and controversial films from a femme leather dyke perspective. In her writing, she blends personal narrative and film theory. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Annie Rose Malamet: Vampires

Why Are People Into That?!

Digital Romance Radio with Michael Fiore – Relationship Advice for a Digital World

When it comes to love, are there times when omitting the truth could be better than telling it? In today's episode, Mike Fiore chats about whether or not you should lie in your relationship. Whether they are little white lies, relationships built on lies or things you feel your partner just doesn't need to know, is telling the truth always the "right" thing to do? Listen to find out more...

Episode 177: Is Honesty Always the Answer? The Pros and Cons...

Episode 178: What is the "Nice Guy" Problem and How it Could Be Keeping You From Finding Love

We have all heard how fun and sexy sexting can be... But couldn't it also be the ruin of your relationship? In today's episode, Mike Fiore discusses all things sexting. From how to send a steamy text, to knowing when the right time to send that text is... Listen up and learn!

Episode 179: Does Sexting Enhance or Ruin a Relationship?

How much sex SHOULD you be having? Everyone wants to know... And when you're not doing it a lot does it mean you don't love your partner as much? In today's episode, Michael sets the record straight. Find out what he has to say now!

Episode 180: Does It Really Matter How Much Sex You're Havin...

How do you know if you are in a good relationship? In today's episode, Mike and Nora talk about what a healthy relationship looks like, signs you are in a toxic one, whether or not you can save an unhealthy one and much more!

Episode 171: Is Your Relationship Healthy?

Digital Romance Radio

Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes) is a Bourdain-style podcast exploring sex, love, relationships, gender, and seductive subcultures around the world. Join host Courtney Kocak and expert guests for hilarious, sex-positive conversations — destigmatizing everything from abortion to Ashley Madis...

For the 155th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Gabrielle Stone, author of Eat, Pray, #FML and host of FML Talk.
If you've recently been dumped or are struggling to get over a past relationship, this episode is for you! This is the ultimate breakup recovery guide to help you not just survive but thrive after your breakup. No matter how desperate you feel or how embarrassing things have gotten with your ex, you CAN heal your heartbreak, and we'll tell you how.
Gabrielle shares her incredible story with not one but two happy endings. We also discussed whether you should implement the no-contact rule, toxic relationships, love-bombing, the benefits of journaling through the pain, "the thought onion," why the length of your relationship doesn't always correspond to the level of post-breakup grief, and more.
For more from today's guest, Gabrielle Stone:

Check out Gabrielle's website eatprayfml.com


Follow Gabrielle on Instagram @gabriellestone


Buy Gabrielle's books Eat, Pray, #FML and The Ridiculous Misadventures of a Single Girl



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How Gabrielle Stone Got Her Groove Back After TWO Devastating Breakups

For the 154th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Ian Kerner for a long-term relationship sex rut reboot.
Dr. Ian Kerner is a nationally recognized sex therapist and author of the smash hit She Comes First and the recently released So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex. He also coined the term "cliteracy" and is a Sherlock Holmes of the bedroom—a sexual detective helping individuals and couples solve the mystery of why they're not f*cking like they wish they were. 
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Stuck in a Sex Rut? Ian Kerner Helps Us Repair Our Love Lives with "So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex"

For the 153rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Joey Tuccio, president and CEO of Roadmap Writers, for the final episode in our three-part series on pet loss.
Have you ever lost a beloved pet? It’s the worst. Scientifically, it can be as hard to grieve a pet as a parent or a partner. I lost my beloved dog, Georgia, in early December, and it was so hard for me to process — that experience inspired this series. (If you missed part one with Cherie Doyen, listen here, and part two with Beth Bigler, listen here.)
Joey Tuccio is heavily involved with animal rescue efforts, including saving abused dogs from Skid Row. Of course, we talk about pet loss and navigating the grief, but we also share how to get involved and make dogs' lives better, even if you can't take a dog into your home at the moment.

For more Joey Tuccio:

Follow Joey on Instagram @joey.tuccio


Follow Joey on Twitter @joey_tuccio


Check out the Roadmap Writers website roadmapwriters.com



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Pet Loss, Part 3: The Agony & Ecstasy of Animal Rescue & Saving Abused Dogs From Skid Row with Joey Tuccio

For the 152nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Beth Bigler, pet loss grief counselor and founder of Honoring Our Animals, for part two in a three-part series on pet loss.
Have you ever lost a beloved pet? It’s the worst. Scientifically, it can be as hard to grieve a pet as a parent or a partner. I lost my beloved dog, Georgia, in early December, and it was so hard for me to process — that experience inspired this series. (If you missed part one with Cherie Doyen, listen here.)
One of the things that really helped me shortly after Georgia passed away was discovering an Instagram account, @honoringouranimals. I got so much reassurance and validation just from following the account, so I knew I wanted to interview its creator, Beth Bigler, for this series on pet loss. And she did not disappoint.
Beth is a double-certified pet loss grief counselor, certified end-of-life animal companion doula, and pet chaplain. She works with individuals and families before, during, and after the loss of their beloved animal companion. We had a super in-depth conversation. It was not a counseling session, but Beth is clearly really good at her job, and just talking to her for this interview helped me get over a big hump in my Georgia grief. I hope it helps you too. 
We discuss:

What does pet loss counseling actually entail?

The definition of disenfranchised grief

Beth’s #1 euthanasia tip

How to talk to your kids about pet loss

How to know if you’re ready for a new pet

The spiritual questions that death can bring up

Navigating the lexicon of pet grief, including the Rainbow Bridge

How to be a good ally to others experiencing pet loss

How you can keep your deceased pet alive in your life


For more Beth Bigler:

Follow Beth on Instagram @honoringouranimals


Check out the Honoring Our Animals website honoringouranimals.com



(Pictured with Beth is her soul cat, Arnie.)
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Pet Loss, Part 2: Working Through the Grief & Guilt of Losing a Beloved Pet with Beth Bigler of Honoring Our Animals

For the 151st episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Cherie Doyen of Quantum Therapeutix for part one in a three-part series on pet loss.
Have you ever lost a beloved pet? It’s the worst. Scientifically, it can be as hard to grieve a pet as a parent or a partner. I lost my beloved dog, Georgia, in early December, and it was so hard for me to process — that experience inspired this series.
Our first guest is Cherie Doyen, one of my best friend’s mom and a professional healer. In this conversation, Cherie explains a bit about her work healing complex trauma. We also talk about grieving our beloved dogs — my Georgia and her Nina — our dogs as protectors and the best friends we could ever have, pets mourning other pets, being visited by your dog's spirit, how hard euthanasia is for pet owners, and the fraught experience of getting another pet (or "calling in your next guide," as Cherie says.)
For more Cherie Doyen:

Follow Cherie on Instagram @cheriedoyen


Buy Cherie's book The Chronicles of Tigua


Buy Cherie's book Junebug


Check out the Quantum Therapeutix website quantumtherapeutix.com



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Pet Loss, Part 1: Grieving Our Beloved Dogs & Healing Complex Trauma with Cherie Doyen of Quantum Therapeutix

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Horizontal with Lila is the podcast of intimate conversations about sex, love, and relationships that's entirely recorded while lying down. Many of the episodes are recorded in bed at Hacienda Villa, a sex-positive intentional community in Bushwick, Brooklyn. Others are recorded while horizontal els...

SUBSCRIBE to the new "POSITIVELY SEX! WITH LILA" podcast  on APPLE PODCASTS  (or wherever you like to get your podcasts)  & never miss an episode!    Get ready for a 46 episode season of Sex Ed, with Pleasure! Host Lila, Intimacy Specialist & founding member of the premier sex-positive intentional community in New York, explores intimacy of all kinds in this sex-positive talk show on timely, titillating, tender, & taboo topics. Her guests are pro-Dommes, therapists, kink masters, sex coaches, non-monogamous people, & folx on the street with opinions. Positively Sex! celebrates intimacy & our ability to design our own relationships. PS! talks about all those sex things you want to know, but might be hesitant to ask. PS! lays it all out for you. PS! is sex ed, with pleasure. Darling, that is Positively Sex!

Positively Sex! with Lila {an iHeart Podcast Trailer!}

Hello horizontal lover. This is horizontal with lila, the podcast about intimacy of all kinds, recorded while lying down. Usually, the first part of our conversation is available wherever you listen to podcasts, and the last part is available exclusively to my patrons on Patreon.com/horizontalwithlila. Navigate yourself on over to Patreon for 50+ exclusive horizontal episodes! Season 4, however, is my Season of Experiments. The experiment of this episode... introduces you to my brand-new live show, Positively Sex! Sex Ed, with Pleasure. Clubhouse pioneered a new form of media: interactive social audio. It’s like a podcast you can participate in...  I joined the app in late February and promptly became deeply infatuated. Really. Full-on limerence. NRE: New Relationship Energy. I hardly slept! I barely ate! I talked about it to anyone who would listen! I fell asleep at wee morning hours in Clubhouse rooms, the phone half under the pillow next to me. It was, if you will, horizontal with clubhouse. It began by ‘raising my hand.’ Then Alec Murphy began making me a co-moderator, and passing me the mic to offer intimacy advice & sexual education.  I started saying, “Just a sex ed moment here!” As I moved from infatuation to bonding, I met other beloved favourites, like De’Andre Sinette & Shane Cottle & my Clubhouse wife Annie Block & my Clubhouse mistress Dani & Brittany Michalchuk & Angus McColluch & & & & … I became a regular in Angus’s club MATE. I found communities of people who shouted my name with joy when I entered a virtual room. These relationships feel tender and warm and deep, playful and tasty and delightful. And real. I haven’t met these people in person (yet). But I know their voices. And I can feel them. They are a real part of my real life. Clubhouse is the app of the zeitgeist.  We are the most connected, and the loneliest we have ever been. Facebook Image Crafting & comparing and despairing on Instagram has most of us feeling so much less intimate. There is something unbelievably wholesome and grounding and genuine about dialing our digital connection to its very first form: a phone call — with the addition of a few bells & whistles. It’s free. It’s global. It’s live. And it’s just, voice. I think that’s marvelous.   I starting co-hosting rooms, like: “Ask Men Anything” with Alec. “The Sex-Positive Room” with De’Andre.   And then I opened rooms of my own: Ladies of the Sex House (with my former housemates from the Villa) I Just Found My Poetry Stash (which I actually did, from 10 years ago, when I was doing a page a day writing practice, and there is some glorious stuff in there!)   Then I formed my own club: The Sex-Positive Club, and began gathering about me wise, compassionate co-mod to carve out a space for sex-positivity. My second week on the app, I happened upon the last few minutes of Abraxas Higgins’s “Apply to the Creator First Program” room. He was doing his very last reset — giving the information about the room for the last time before closing it. I snagged that link & stayed up 'til 4am working on the application, very horizontal, laptop resting on my thighs. At 4am, I fell asleep under my computer. At 7am, I woke and kept working. That was the due date. I submitted around 1pm. I was chosen as a finalist. There were 5,000 entries. 53 finalists each made a pilot episode (this episode), and 25 shows were chosen as the inaugural Creator First Class of 2021… and mine, mine was one of them. YESSSSSSSSSSS. This is basically the first time I’ve won something in 20 years. Positively Sex! Sex Ed, with Pleasure airs a new live episode every Sunday night through September at 9pm EST / 6pm Pacific.  Catch it live, or become a patron of the horizontal arts on Patreon.com/horizontalwithlila (that’s P-a-t-r-E-o-n.com / horizontalwithlila) for exclusive patron access to the entire 12-episode season.  Prepare for SENSUAL CONTESTS… Like "Best Sext”   DELECTABLE PRIZES… Like a deck of “Let’s Talk About Sex” cards from Games for Humanity’s Erin Hickok aka The Connectress. (By the way, all of her fabulous question card games are 10% off with the discount code: HORIZONTALITY, in all caps.)   FUN & SPICY AUDIENCE POLLS… Sexted lately? Got a Clubhouse crush?   TENDER, TABOO, & TIMELY TOPICS… Such as the pilot theme, the theme of this episode: Sex @ a Distance, which included: * noods * sexting * aural sex (phone sex, er0tic hypnosis, described video p0rn) * video sex & sex on video * virtual play parties   & BRILLIANT THOUGHT LEADERS. This pilot episode features special guest Cindy Gallop, one of the most brilliant extemporaneous speakers I've ever heard. The Michael Bay of business (because she blows shit up!) creator and CEO of Make Love Not Porn introduced us to the concept of social sex. We were joined by a few of my former housemates from Hacienda Villa, the sex-positive intentional community I used to live in, as a founding member: Mirelle, polyamorous woman, purveyor of sensuality, & horizontal’s very first guest, of episode number  1. feed your delight, which is my most downloaded episode of all time, treated us to her unerring taste for pleasure & a voice that positively drips with sex. Tiger, former Villan & former lady, him of many trades, Trans & gynecological educator and horizontal guest of episodes 16. kiss me I’m jew-witch, and  17. professional cuddling, gave us a taste of erotic hypnosis that left us with our mouths agape. Theia made us all aware that described video porn is a thing, Shane brought his soulful sensuality, Fiona tallied our very important polls, & my Creative Producer & Social Media Maven Natalia Sketch helped me sjuzz the episode, then sat behind me in the tiniest focus room at the co-working space, calling the show & managing the backchannel. The episode begins with my working definition of sex & concludes with showering at a virtual play party. Join my club on Clubhouse so you don’t miss an episode. I have always been a Creator First, and now, finally, again, I am being recognized as such. And DAMN it feels good. P.S. Which is, of course, a double entendre, meaning both Post Script and Positively Sex! … Welcome to social audio. Come get positively sex with us, all across the globe, through the magic of the interwebz.

129. Introducing “Positively Sex!” Sex Ed, with Pleasure

Hello horizontal lover. Intimacy investigator. Horizontalist. Typically, horizontal is the podcast about intimacy of all kinds, recorded while lying down. The first part of our conversation is available wherever you listen to podcasts, and the last part is available exclusively to my patrons on Patreon. But this: is Season 4, my Season of Experiments. And this experiment is an installment of Alexa Martinez’s  that sex chick podcast, which was, full disclosure, recorded while in bed, but (gasp!) sitting upright. For that sex chick, it’s episode 34, and for horizontal, episode 128. I’m told it’s the longest Alexa has ever gone with a guest, so, here’s to horizontal stamina. *wink* In this episode, sex parties done right, I share the orientation I lead at my last play party — which is a Facebook-safe euphemism for a sex party — in its entirety. Alexa’s super-connected sex-positive crew of curious kittens, a collective on Facebook called That Sex Group, have been really curious about these parties. Both of us have found it’s what a lot of people want to know about when they find out it’s a) something we’ve got a fair amount of experience with, and b) something we’re willing to talk about publicly. So here! We made you an episode. This contains the lion’s share of wisdom I’ve gathered about play parties during my 7 years in the sex-positive community. What can happen at a play party, how you prepare for it, how to communicate with your partner or partners about it, some points of etiquette, and some of my personal tales of play parties past. I first met Alexa at a Future of Sex panel, curated by the podcast host and sextech expert, Bryony Cole, who was my guest for episodes  28. future of sex, and 29. sexual attitude readjustment day. This was also the very same event at which I met Bryan Stacy (who was on said panel) & Dominick Q., champions of men’s work and co-hosts of  The Great Man Within podcast, who were also my guests for a Season Threesome on episodes  76. the discerning dick, and 77. post-sex choice. (In Season Three, I got horizontal with two guests at a time, who were in some kind of relationship with one another. Hence: the season threesome!) Recently, I guested on The Great Man Within, and we did a deepdive into The Stoplight Game. It’s episode #220, titled,  “How To Ask For What You Want in the Bedroom.”  This to say that… in the not-so-distant future, when I have Alexa on my podcast AT LAST, we will all have been guests on each other’s shows, and isn’t that a particularly pretty podcaster-polycule?  Yes. Yes I think it is. Alexa is my kindred. She approaches sex, love, & relationships with the same kind of voracious curiosity I do, tickled through with playfulness. She was one of the first to encourage me to set up shop as an Intimacy Coach, and now, three years later, I finally have. She sometimes has purple hair and is always up for a frolic and a photo opportunity and a deep conversation. You can hear her smiling when she talks, and the way she shares her vulnerable relationship realizations with the world are both an affirmation and an inspiration to me. I love her. I hope you will too. Come get figuratively horizontal with us, in Canggu, Bali, Indonesia, and Austin, Texas.

128. sex parties done right: lila x that sex chick

Hello my horizontal lovers, my intimacy investigators, my horizontalists! horizontal is the podcast about intimacy of all kinds, recorded while lying down (and usually, while wearing robes).  With few exceptions, our conversations are languorous, meandering, and long-form, as though post-coital, or stargazing, or staring out onto the open road in the wee hours of a very long road trip. It’s a private conversation made public. It’s consensual eavesdropping. Typically on horizontal, each conversation is between 3 and 5 hours long, and divided into two to four parts. The former half is available to all horizontalists, and the latter, is available exclusively to patrons of the horizontal arts.  This is Season 4, my Season of Experiments. During this season, I’m investigating form and format, length and structure, context and content. Playing aurally. Trying things I haven’t tried yet. Thus far, Season 4 has seen a mash-up with Devin Person’s “this podcast is a ritual” show, episodes with more-or-less intrusive narration (you decide), and a session with a matchmaker in which I get interviewed, as the client. you spilled your hot come on my hot girlfriend, this episode, is from my very first recording spotlighting a single sexy topic! In episodes 126 & 127, I lie down with Dallas King, L.A. native, global hedonist, director, filmmaker, hot professor, model, and profoundly experienced bull. He is writing the book on cuckolding. Literally. That’s what he’s in Bali to do. It’s called GASM. For images featuring such highlights as Dallas’s rippling abs, brooding fashion sense, and graphic tattoos, witness his Instagram @dallasking1  In this first half of our recording, we talk about:  craigslist personals what cuckolding means “the lifestyle” versus sex-positive culture working as a massage therapist in L.A. & becoming a bull his first time pleasing another man’s wife & being watched while doing it grappling with professional, mental, and religious inhibitions homophobia & sexual performance how being a bull can affect your romantic relationships humiliation & emasculation agreeing on where to come navigating couple dynamics dealing with your own expectations cuckqueens, and … my desire to be a female bull.  For access to the spicy second half of this conversation, as well as 50 other exclusive episodes, navigate yourself directly to Patreon.com/horizontalwithlila. Make sure you click the link or type that in exactly, because, as a creator who is considered “adult,” my profile isn’t searchable on Patreon. (!) Other than that, Patreon is great. It’s like the love child of crowdfunding and a subscription service. You can become a patron for $7/month on up, and the rewards get more and more sumptuous. For instance, at the $100 level, you get a 30-minute one-on-one Intimacy Guidance session with me every month... This episode was mixed and mastered by Irving Gadhoury of IGrecording.com. My cover art was illustrated by Shana Shay, from 99designs. This intro music is a remix by acapella beatbox musician kidmental, whose motto is “theme songs for everyone.” Support a Black creator, and get a catchy jingle of your very own by hiring him on Fiverr or becoming his patron on Patreon. Upcoming in Season 4, I have a recording from my guest spot on Dominick Q & Bryan Stacey’s “The Great Man Within” podcast, a couple of episodes with the journalist Sue Jaye Johnson, in which she interviewed me for her project “The Pleasure Report,” a 5-part mini-series with Jet-Setting Jasmine, who you must know — a badass Black therapist & porn star, and her incredible Dom husband, and a daughter that gives me hope for the future of humanity, as well as shows with segments, a la NPR, among other explorations. Until next time: May you have someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to. I’m looking forward to scripting and rehearsing my first TED-style talk, and the event I curated around it to celebrate the 4-year podcast-aversary on May 21st, 2021! It’s gonna be called “Hot Love Talks.” Thank you for listening. Thank you for getting horizontal. Now, come lie down with us, in Seminyak, Bali, Indonesia.

126. you spilled your hot come on my hot girlfriend: horizontal with the king of cuckolding [1 of 2]

Hello my horizontal lovers, my intimacy investigators, my horizontalists! horizontal is the podcast about sex, love, & relationships of all kinds, recorded while lying down, and usually, while wearing robes. If you’ve listened to either one of my ‘between two wizard’ episodes,  85. well-hung psychedelic sex wizard / no hookups or  86. you’re trying to porn sex me, or my most magical recent horizontal mashup episodes, 123. this ritual is horizontal, or 124. this horizontal is a ritual, you’ve become acquainted with my Wizard friend, Devin Person. During both of our horizontal recordings (one in-person, in his former wizard bed in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, and the other virtual, mediated by the magic of the interwebz, between Louisville, Kentucky, and Canggu, Bali, Indonesia) a remarkable fact about his relationship surfaced: he and his partner (now fiancé) don’t text. Ever. It’s one of their cherished relationship agreements, a social norm within the co-creation of their dyad. They just don’t text. If they want to communicate with one another, they need to actually pick up the phone, and dial their partner. Well, that fiancé he doesn’t text with… is our storyteller today. Typically on horizontal, each conversation is between 3 and 5 hours long and divided into two to four parts. The former half is available for all horizontalists everywhere, and the latter half is available exclusively to patrons of the horizontal arts. With few exceptions, our conversations are languorous and long-form, as though post-coital, or stargazing, or staring out onto the open road in the wee hours of a very long road trip. I consider it consensual eavesdropping. When you become a patron you receive a key to the horizontal city, unlocking access to over 50 exclusive episodes. Become a patron of the horizontal arts by navigating directly to www.patreon.com/horizontalwithlila ... You must click on or type in that link directly, because sex-positive creators are still in quite a bind with social media these days. You can’t just go to Patreon and search my name, or the name of my show, because the search engine pretends all of its mature content doesn’t exist! I guess that makes Patreon sort of like the boyfriend who doesn’t want the world to know that we are dating, but it is the best crowdsourcing subscription service that I know at this moment. So. I take it as an indicator of just how far we still need to go to eradicate sex-negativity, stigma, shame, and taboo. Usually, my Patreon tiers begin at $7 per month, but this month I’ve opened up ten $5 a month spots for access to The Full Horizontal. Two spot already got snagged before this announcement, so as of this recording there are 8 left. Claim one, and all the horizontality shall be yours. At the end of each long-form recording, I ask my guest to tell me a story. It can be any tale that falls under the broad umbrella of intimacy. My only requirement is that they have a burning desire to share it with me. Because these stories usually take place in the part twos (or fours) of our recordings, most of you horizontalists never get to hear such tales as being carried down a mountain on the shoulders of a hunky guide, or donating your father’s body to science and then insisting on a connection with the medical students who studied him, or getting married every year — to the same person. Occasionally, in pre-pandemic times, I’d host horizontal storytelling pajama parties. My launch party in May of 2017 was a pajama party! This quickie was recorded live during Pride Month in June 2019 at horizontal storytelling: the summer pride edition. We all donned rainbow pajamas, noshed on milk and cookies, and curled up together, horizontally, all 50 of us, to listen to the tales of five storytellers from across the LGBTQIA+ community, one after the other. In this particular quickie, I lie down with Lisa Ann Markuson, also known as LAMARKS, queer cis femme bisexual woman boss, founder + CEO of creative agency Ars Poetica, (which provides, among other things, experiential poetic entertainment for events and happenings). Her woman-owned, inclusive and sustainable business model celebrates the multitalented nature of her artists across entertainment, activist, consulting, and literary landscapes. She was the co-host, along with Taz, of the National Poetry Month podcast, A Daily Dose of Poetry. I appeared on the show as  their April 18th guest, and they wrote me poetic prescriptions for what ailed me in my romantic relationship. LA and her 35 artists have written poetry for celebrities & created a series of handmade poetic talismans to benefit Planned Parenthood. You can find her, and them, on the interwebz at @arspoetica.us on Instagram. Come lie down with us at a pajama party in the before-time, at Hacienda Studio in Bushwick, Brooklyn, as LA tells us a tale titled, “In Fact, a Switch Hitter.”

125. like a vagina wrapped around a pole: quickie with a bisexual femme poet ladyboss

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Sultry Stories | Hot Erotic Tales | Nonfiction Explicit Audio

Welcome to Adult Bedtime Stories – Are you ready to experience Nocturnal Emissions. Join us in a Sex-Positive Awakening adventure to help create a sex-positive world. Become part of a movement and start living a sex-positive lifestyle free of sexual shame and guilt. Adult Bedtime Stories is A Raven’...

Edging an orgasm is a sexual technique that can be done by women, and men. While it seems simple at the surface, it does take time to train ones body, but the effort is well worth it. Through the process of edging, pre-orgasmic energy is circulated through the entire body. With this technique, one can experience full body orgasms and more robust orgasms. In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we cover the entire process of edging an orgasm. While many think of sex as a physical activity, it can involve sexual energy. Learn about sexual energy and how to raise sexual energy in this episode.

Edging an Orgasm

Would you like to remove the shackles from living in the dark ages of sexuality? Do you feel worthy of experiencing new heights of sexual ecstasy without feeling sexual shame or guilt? Which statements do you identify with (pick all that apply): I am sexy and beautiful! I love sex and I have an amazing sex drive. I love my body just as it is. I am able to communicate clearly with intimate partners about my sensual desires and about sexual activities I enjoy, freely and openly. If you don’t identify with all the above statements, it is not your fault.  We all live in a sex-negative culture. We are all influenced by sex-negative social conditioning which strips away these values and replaces them with sexual taboos.  If you want to identify with the above statements, today’s topic will provide the methods to change your attitudes and values. From living in a sex-negative society, we are all impacted with sex-negative social conditioning which erodes our healthy sense of being a beautiful sexy person.  These exercises are designed to build a healthy body image and to help us create a new script to override sex-negative social conditioning.

Sexual Affirmations

In our culture, it is assumed that we will instinctively know how to have sex.  This is a myth and a misconception.  For sex to be great, we need to learn about our sexual bodies as well as our partner’s sexual responsiveness. The Erotic Body Map Training Program is a great process to improve one’s sexual pleasure.  Our whole body is neurologically wired to receive sexual pleasure.  By exploring the body, identifying erogenous zones, mapping them out, and communicating them to your partner, you will form a deeper connection with your partner as well as experience more sexual pleasures.  Many people who have completed the training experienced their first full body orgasm.  Men can experience full body orgasms as well as women. In tonight’s episode, we are completing The Erotic Body Map Training with some erotic exercises and erotic games.  I have included exercises that are for singles and for couples.  Explore methods to reach sexual enlightenment and learn how to experience greater pleasure & greater connection.  Show Links: https://ravenslairleather.com/podcast

The Erotic Body Map Training Program Part 4 of 4

In our culture, it is assumed that we will instinctively know how to have sex.  This is a myth and a misconception.  For sex to be great, we need to learn about our sexual bodies as well as our partner’s sexual responsiveness. The Erotic Body Map Training Program is a great process to improve one’s sexual pleasure.  Our whole body is neurologically wired to receive sexual pleasure.  By exploring the body, identifying erogenous zones, mapping them out, and communicating them to your partner, you will form a deeper connection with your partner as well as experience more sexual pleasures.  Many people who have completed the training experienced their first full body orgasm.  Men can experience full body orgasms as well as women. https://ravenslairleather.com/podcast

The Erotic Body Map Training Program Part 3 of 4

Tonights video training is on The erotic body map training part 2.  To watch the podcast on video go to ravenslairleather.com/podcast.  In the video version I include some images of basic sexual anatomy.  In the future, I will offer a podcast on detailed sexual anatomy for those who want more in depth education. Tonight’s training video will cover A Sex Positive Approach & Erogenous Zones, How the Body Works Erotically, Sexual Neurology, The Kundalini, and Sensory Perception.  This is the foundation to create the erotic body map.

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