Part Two of So Shameless gets into the battle between the male and female experience — and whether we’re so busy proving who has it harder that we’ve stopped actually listening to each other. We start with men living in survival mode and whether conversations about men’s struggles are too often dismissed by immediately comparing them to what women experience. Are men genuinely not being heard — or do men sometimes do the exact same thing when women talk about their problems? Then we take that argument to social media. Do some women go online specifically looking for opportunities to tear men down? Do men do the same thing to women? And how much of what we believe about the opposite sex is actually OUR opinion versus us falling victim to internet mob mentality? From there, we get into the mental load at home. Women often describe feeling like their brains NEVER get to turn off — remembering what needs to be bought, cleaned, scheduled, handled and taken care of. Are men contributing enough inside the home? And even when women say they’re overwhelmed, is it sometimes difficult for them to actually relinquish control and allow someone else to handle things?  Then comes the money conversation:  Should men ALWAYS pay for everything? Who actually benefits from that arrangement? Does paying make a man a provider, or can traditional financial expectations create unhealthy dynamics for BOTH people in a relationship?  Speaking of financial trauma, Tahoe made the mistake of taking his daughter to Sephora and discovered that apparently looking pretty costs approximately the same amount as a small mortgage. 😂 We also ask why sleeping with someone else after being cheated on is sometimes treated like a flex. If somebody hurt you by cheating, does revenge sex actually make YOU feel better — or are you still allowing their actions to dictate yours?  And finally, we get into emotional intelligence, adversity and what happens when men allow hurt, ego and emotion to control how they respond when life doesn’t go their way.  Men vs. women. Money. Relationships. Household responsibilities. Revenge sex. Social media.  …and Tahoe discovering the price of makeup.  Socials Chrys Childs @ChrysChilds on Instagram Visit <a href="https://NewMusicWednesdaysLive.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">NewMusicWednesdaysLive.com</a> Preme @PremeDaPrez on Instagram Follow @RichFlex for more info about Rich Flex weekend Welcome back to So Shameless.

Part Two of So Shameless gets into the battle between the male and female experience — and whether we’re so busy proving who has it harder that we’ve stopped actually listening to each other. We start with men living in survival mode and whether conversations about men’s struggles are too often dismissed by immediately comparing them to what women experience. Are men genuinely not being heard — or do men sometimes do the exact same thing when women talk about their problems? Then we take that argument to social media. Do some women go online specifically looking for opportunities to tear men down? Do men do the same thing to women? And how much of what we believe about the opposite sex is actually OUR opinion versus us falling victim to internet mob mentality? From there, we get into the mental load at home. Women often describe feeling like their brains NEVER get to turn off — remembering what needs to be bought, cleaned, scheduled, handled and taken care of. Are men contributing enough inside the home? And even when women say they’re overwhelmed, is it sometimes difficult for them to actually relinquish control and allow someone else to handle things? Then comes the money conversation: Should men ALWAYS pay for everything? Who actually benefits from that arrangement? Does paying make a man a provider, or can traditional financial expectations create unhealthy dynamics for BOTH people in a relationship? Speaking of financial trauma, Tahoe made the mistake of taking his daughter to Sephora and discovered that apparently looking pretty costs approximately the same amount as a small mortgage. 😂 We also ask why sleeping with someone else after being cheated on is sometimes treated like a flex. If somebody hurt you by cheating, does revenge sex actually make YOU feel better — or are you still allowing their actions to dictate yours? And finally, we get into emotional intelligence, adversity and what happens when men allow hurt, ego and emotion to control how they respond when life doesn’t go their way. Men vs. women. Money. Relationships. Household responsibilities. Revenge sex. Social media. …and Tahoe discovering the price of makeup. SocialsChrys Childs@ChrysChilds on InstagramVisit NewMusicWednesdaysLive.comPreme@PremeDaPrez on InstagramFollow @RichFlex for more info about Rich Flex weekendWelcome back to So Shameless.

Part Two of So Shameless gets into the battle between the male and female experience — and whether we’re so busy proving who has it harder that we’ve stopped actually listening to each other. We start with men living in survival mode and whether conversations about men’s struggles are too often dismissed by immediately comparing them to what women experience. Are men genuinely not being heard — or do men sometimes do the exact same thing when women talk about their problems? Then we take that argument to social media. Do some women go online specifically looking for opportunities to tear men down? Do men do the same thing to women? And how much of what we believe about the opposite sex is actually OUR opinion versus us falling victim to internet mob mentality? From there, we get into the mental load at home. Women often describe feeling like their brains NEVER get to turn off — remembering what needs to be bought, cleaned, scheduled, handled and taken care of. Are men contributing enough inside the home? And even when women say they’re overwhelmed, is it sometimes difficult for them to actually relinquish control and allow someone else to handle things?&nbsp; Then comes the money conversation:&nbsp; Should men ALWAYS pay for everything? Who actually benefits from that arrangement? Does paying make a man a provider, or can traditional financial expectations create unhealthy dynamics for BOTH people in a relationship?&nbsp; Speaking of financial trauma, Tahoe made the mistake of taking his daughter to Sephora and discovered that apparently looking pretty costs approximately the same amount as a small mortgage. 😂 We also ask why sleeping with someone else after being cheated on is sometimes treated like a flex. If somebody hurt you by cheating, does revenge sex actually make YOU feel better — or are you still allowing their actions to dictate yours?&nbsp; And finally, we get into emotional intelligence, adversity and what happens when men allow hurt, ego and emotion to control how they respond when life doesn’t go their way.&nbsp; Men vs. women. Money. Relationships. Household responsibilities. Revenge sex. Social media.&nbsp; …and Tahoe discovering the price of makeup.&nbsp; Socials Chrys Childs @ChrysChilds on Instagram Visit <a href="https://NewMusicWednesdaysLive.com" rel="noopener noreferrer">NewMusicWednesdaysLive.com</a> Preme @PremeDaPrez on Instagram Follow @RichFlex for more info about Rich Flex weekend Welcome back to So Shameless.

The Male Experience Vs The Female Experience

This week on So Shameless, Tahoe tries to do a good deed by buying a stranger some food — only to realize afterward that what HE thought was kindness might have made another man feel emasculated. Can helping somebody cross the line into disrespecting their pride? Then we get into Lil Durk being found NOT GUILTY in his federal murder-for-hire trial and a much bigger conversation about Black culture, street life and accountability. Regardless of the verdict, should we be more critical of the way we celebrate rappers, drug dealers, scammers and other people associated with street culture? And why do we continue glorifying lifestyles when we’ve seen how often they end? On a completely different note, we introduce something we’re extremely proud of: the new So Shameless Scholarship Fund, created to help young people pursue a college education. Then Tahoe brings the problems back home. 😂 His fiancée requires her daughter, who’s a freshman in college, to call when she goes out and text when she makes it safely back to her dorm. Is that responsible parenting when your child is away from home for the first time — or is Mom having trouble letting an adult daughter grow up?  We also get into Papoose and “Jezebel,” and debate whether publicly addressing alleged infidelity through music is fair game. Is expressing your pain through a record different from publicly embarrassing your partner? Finally, we discuss Macklemore being removed from the U.S. leg of Ed Sheeran’s tour following his pro-Palestinian remarks. Was a shared concert stage an appropriate place for Macklemore to advocate for Palestinians? What responsibility does an artist have when they’re performing on someone else’s tour — and where is the line between respecting someone else’s platform and using your own voice? Accountability, parenting, hip-hop, relationships, politics, charity and one good deed that somehow turned into an argument about masculinity.  Socials Chrys Childs @ChrysChilds on Instagram Visit <a href="https://NewMusicWednesdaysLive.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">NewMusicWednesdaysLive.com</a> Preme @PremeDaPrez on Instagram Follow @RichFlex for more info about Rich Flex weekend Welcome back to So Shameless.

This week on So Shameless, Tahoe tries to do a good deed by buying a stranger some food — only to realize afterward that what HE thought was kindness might have made another man feel emasculated. Can helping somebody cross the line into disrespecting their pride? Then we get into Lil Durk being found NOT GUILTY in his federal murder-for-hire trial and a much bigger conversation about Black culture, street life and accountability. Regardless of the verdict, should we be more critical of the way we celebrate rappers, drug dealers, scammers and other people associated with street culture? And why do we continue glorifying lifestyles when we’ve seen how often they end? On a completely different note, we introduce something we’re extremely proud of: the new So Shameless Scholarship Fund, created to help young people pursue a college education. Then Tahoe brings the problems back home. 😂 His fiancée requires her daughter, who’s a freshman in college, to call when she goes out and text when she makes it safely back to her dorm. Is that responsible parenting when your child is away from home for the first time — or is Mom having trouble letting an adult daughter grow up? We also get into Papoose and “Jezebel,” and debate whether publicly addressing alleged infidelity through music is fair game. Is expressing your pain through a record different from publicly embarrassing your partner? Finally, we discuss Macklemore being removed from the U.S. leg of Ed Sheeran’s tour following his pro-Palestinian remarks. Was a shared concert stage an appropriate place for Macklemore to advocate for Palestinians? What responsibility does an artist have when they’re performing on someone else’s tour — and where is the line between respecting someone else’s platform and using your own voice? Accountability, parenting, hip-hop, relationships, politics, charity and one good deed that somehow turned into an argument about masculinity. SocialsChrys Childs@ChrysChilds on InstagramVisit NewMusicWednesdaysLive.comPreme@PremeDaPrez on InstagramFollow @RichFlex for more info about Rich Flex weekendWelcome back to So Shameless.

This week on So Shameless, Tahoe tries to do a good deed by buying a stranger some food — only to realize afterward that what HE thought was kindness might have made another man feel emasculated. Can helping somebody cross the line into disrespecting their pride? Then we get into Lil Durk being found NOT GUILTY in his federal murder-for-hire trial and a much bigger conversation about Black culture, street life and accountability. Regardless of the verdict, should we be more critical of the way we celebrate rappers, drug dealers, scammers and other people associated with street culture? And why do we continue glorifying lifestyles when we’ve seen how often they end? On a completely different note, we introduce something we’re extremely proud of: the new So Shameless Scholarship Fund, created to help young people pursue a college education. Then Tahoe brings the problems back home. 😂 His fiancée requires her daughter, who’s a freshman in college, to call when she goes out and text when she makes it safely back to her dorm. Is that responsible parenting when your child is away from home for the first time — or is Mom having trouble letting an adult daughter grow up?&nbsp; We also get into Papoose and “Jezebel,” and debate whether publicly addressing alleged infidelity through music is fair game. Is expressing your pain through a record different from publicly embarrassing your partner? Finally, we discuss Macklemore being removed from the U.S. leg of Ed Sheeran’s tour following his pro-Palestinian remarks. Was a shared concert stage an appropriate place for Macklemore to advocate for Palestinians? What responsibility does an artist have when they’re performing on someone else’s tour — and where is the line between respecting someone else’s platform and using your own voice? Accountability, parenting, hip-hop, relationships, politics, charity and one good deed that somehow turned into an argument about masculinity.&nbsp; Socials Chrys Childs @ChrysChilds on Instagram Visit <a href="https://NewMusicWednesdaysLive.com" rel="noopener noreferrer">NewMusicWednesdaysLive.com</a> Preme @PremeDaPrez on Instagram Follow @RichFlex for more info about Rich Flex weekend Welcome back to So Shameless.

Did Macklemore Totally Wreck Ed Sheerans Tour? / Is Lil Durk Really Not Guilty??

Being selfish, being aware as a young lover and cheating responsibly. im tired. enjoy

Self Made

This week on So Shameless our duo PassportCutty and Tahoe discuss what to do and what not to do on a job interview, the rules of unengagement in marraige, and what its like to sip champagne around beer sippers.. (only the real get that quote).. Enjoy!

Guns and Butter

In light of the disturbing occurrences in the world this last week our duo discusses the hurricanes and the unfortunate passing of Kenneka Jenkins.

We Gotta Do Better

This week our hosts, PassportCutty and TahoeTV, discuss transparency in relationships, Charlegmanes views on keeping your dreams to yourself, Tahoe's newest fatherhood dilemna and Cutty gives Tahoe a new secret weapon. Enjoy!

Kiss it better

This week our hosts, PassportCutty and TahoeTV, discuss transparency in relationships, Charlegmanes views on keeping your dreams to yourself and Tahoe's newest fatherhood dilemna. Enjoy!

Transparency

Hey, Big Heads! This week we discuss Hurricane Harvey, saying no when somebody asks you for help, Tahoe's dilemma with being a long distance parent, women giving ultimatums in relationships and dealing with damaged people. Enjoy!

I Cant Come

On the morning of PassportCutty's 31st birthday, the duo meet up to discuss whether she is really a Leo or an in the closet virgo, then move on to talk about whether its best for women to take advice from men or from women. We also talk space in relationships, how petty is too petty and of course somehow tahoe manages to bring up Jay-Z again... sigh. Enjoy!! And Everybody say HAPPY BIRTHDAY to CUTTY!!

Thirty Won...

Following the events in Charlottesville our duo tackle social responsibility, racism and awareness. Then we talk about hoes. Enjoy!

Views

Welcome to Atlanta!! Straight off the heels of PassportCutty's Atlanta book event, our duo discuss their weekend adventure in Atlanta, new details in the Usher debacle, Tahoe's addiction to social media and a sisters hard choice in whether to help a struggling sibling. Enjoy!

Peaches and Cream

Hey Big Heads! This week the duo talks cutty's new view on life, Tahoe's hurt feelings from JHS, domestic violence, a frugal proposition and a host of other shameless notions...Enjoy!

The Hot Seat

Tahoe, Ms. DajahBelle and Dj Trauma talk relationships, friendships, life issues, finance, sex, and everything about men that annoys women.

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