for today's episode, let's dive into a discussion around feeling like you don't belong ~ sometimes it's hard to fully shed the feeling of imposter syndrome (especially in work & social settings) but today's discussion is all around our personal experiences navigating the feeling of imposter syndrome, parenting habits & how we tackle this challenging (but normal!) feeling of being out of place ~

today's specialty drink on the menu: strawberry basil soju (from @drinkneat)

chapters

(00:00:00) preview

(00:00:21) intro & shenanigans

(00:04:12) what is imposter syndrome?

(00:07:10) imposter syndrome in our childhood

(00:09:13) does imposter syndrome come from parenting styles?

(00:18:07) "cultural' imposter syndrome

(00:24:00) imposter syndrome as a woman in tech

(00:31:22) how to support your partner

(00:34:42) intermission + reddit tips

(00:52:10) imposter syndrome in social settings

(01:00:31) the connotations of wearing glasses

(01:05:49) how we navigate imposter syndrome

(01:10:35) bloopers

welcome back soju shotties! today we have on a very close friend, content creator & fellow corporate girly, Julia Fei ~ join us as we chat about Julia's backstory, how she approached quitting her job, all the backlash that came with it, navigating being a woman in tech & life as a public figure! so grab your drinks for a chatty sesh :)

find julia here!

https://www.youtube.com/@juliafei

https://www.instagram.com/julia.fei

today's specialty drink on the menu: iced coffee

chapters

(00:00:00) preview

(00:00:26) welcome julia!

(00:06:23) defining yourself with your career

(00:08:49) being a surprise extrovert

(00:16:34) is computer science a promising career?

(00:23:51) navigating competitive environments

(00:25:25) imposter syndrome & discrimination as a woman in tech

(00:29:33) making the hard decision to quit

(00:36:04) keeping privacy as a creator

(00:41:36) our original content creation goals

(00:44:44) the importance of personal branding

(00:52:25) full-time content creation?

(00:55:10) julia's anonymous boyfriend

(01:06:35) truth or drink

(01:17:12) *exclusive* what is on the horizon for julia?

(01:20:56) appeasing different audiences online

(01:28:27) thank you's :)

(01:29:14) bloopers

today's episode is diving into a more niche topic about our passions on the side — content creation! so grab your mugs & drinks because we're spilling some tea in this episode ~

today's specialty drink on the menu: banana milk

chapters:

(00:00:00) preview

(00:00:24) intro & chit chat

(00:10:19) creator vs. influencer

(00:13:40) hot take: content creation is a lot of work

(00:18:06) moose's pawducer check #1

(00:18:41) the importance of planning as a creator

(00:20:39) how much time we spend on content

(00:29:28) moose's pawducer check #2

(00:29:38) hot take: doing content is inherently cringey

(00:34:46) hot take: creators are not shallow for doing content full time

(00:40:58) losing touch as a creator is easy

(00:56:38) entertainers losing their relatability

(01:06:44) "accidents" in content creation

(01:10:51) moose's pawducer check #3

(01:11:32) shallow interactions as a creator

(01:13:00) elitism in the creator space

(01:19:49) copying content as a creator

(01:28:01) james & his content journey

(01:30:28) bloopers

pick 2: relationships, career or sleep? today we discuss the age old question of adulthood and how to maintain balance in “every” aspect of life — so grab a cup of coffee and let’s talk everything adulthood and more ~

today's specialty drink on the menu: milk black tea

chapters

(00:00) preview

(00:21) intro & my injury this week

(03:02) the triangle of adulthood

(05:51) how to figure out your triangle

(08:51) intermission

(10:27) so true with sarah

(13:30) average # of job changes

(17:32) sleep disorders in adults

(19:50) kids = happiness?

(22:12) time spent with friends

(25:17) the happiest country in the world

(26:57) the illuminati

(29:39) maintaining balance in career

(33:29) maintaining balance in relationships

(39:28) maintaining balance wellness & sleep

(42:33) bloopers

today we're diving into our internal self talk and chatting about self confidence, our biggest insecurities & how we've navigated self esteem issues throughout our life! so strap in soju shotties (our official community name ❤️) for the most vulnerable & TMI episode to date ~

today's specialty drink on the menu: lemon citron tea

(00:00:00) preview

(00:00:21) intro & drink of the day

(00:03:03) fit check :)

(00:05:15) what does confidence mean to you?

(00:06:22) rating our self confidence

(00:09:14) our lowest points of confidence (tmi)

(00:17:15) the importance of self love

(00:19:03) career & external validation

(00:24:58) people pleasing & social situations

(00:28:13) *clay making*

(00:33:05) our current biggest insecurities

(00:38:35) consistency & social expectations

(00:42:53) are gifted kids less confident?

(00:45:03) parenting tips & teaching kids confidence

(00:48:20) how to build confidence

(00:55:09) bloopers

today we’re talking about scarcity vs. abundance mindset, having confidence in yourself, & law of attraction! so grab your mugs & let’s chat ☕

today's specialty drink on the menu: pineapple ginger (from @drinkneat on IG!)

chapters

(00:00:00) preview

(00:00:19) intro + new mug + drink of the day

(00:03:03) soju name vote!

(00:04:43) what is scarcity mindset?

(00:08:17) how scarcity mindset manifests

(00:19:03) intermission

(00:21:03) juices with james

(00:35:29) law of attraction & manifestation

(00:41:32) how to overcome scarcity mindset

(00:49:40) bloopers

let’s talk about one of the biggest challenges of adulthood — making friends! in my 20s i’ve learned that making friends is even more confusing, complex, and questionable than it was as a kid. from the different types of friends to *how* to actually make friends, things just somehow seem more challenging… so grab your mugs & let’s chat about friendship in adulthood!

today’s speciality drink on the menu: strawberry milk 🍓🥛

chapters

(00:00:00) preview

(00:00:20) intro, thank you’s, & drink of the day!

(00:04:40) my first adult friendships after graduating

(00:07:12) why making friends in your 20s is hard

(00:12:49) the cringiness of putting yourself out there

(00:20:40) types of adult friendships

(00:26:42) how to actually make friends

(00:32:42) intermission

(00:34:19) juices with james

(00:49:53) the importance of communication

(00:51:24) comparing my friendships in early vs late 20s

(00:52:33) why friends in your 20s are so important

(00:54:24) friendships come in cycles

(00:57:06) quality over quantity

(00:59:57) “well-networked” is the adult version of being “popular”

(01:04:35) outro & finishing notes

todays episode is one about love! and all the trials & tribulations that come with it ~ we have a very special guest @jung.garments on the pod to chat about his (almost) 7 year relationship with our very own host, sarah! so grab some soju & popcorn because this episode’s a long one :)

today's guest: ‪@jung.garments‬

today’s speciality drink on the menu: lychee melon milkis soju

chapters

(00:00:00) preview

(00:00:30) intro & get to know us!

(00:05:15) how we met

(00:17:57) the 1% story

(00:23:07) the first long distance

(00:29:09) the second long distance

(00:38:27) intermission

(00:40:09) the pandemic: our biggest breakup

(00:52:00) favorite presents!

(00:57:07) family & culture

(01:04:15) why we moved in together

(01:07:19) struggling with codependency

(01:10:01) maintaining individuality

(01:11:48) parenthood & moose

(01:16:41) the ~hustle & grind~ phase

(01:21:17) marriage & beyond

(01:26:00) bloopers

*birthday special* an episode about aging and getting older, embracing changes in your aesthetics, my experience with plastic surgery, and all the superficial and non-superficial!

today's specialty drink on the menu: strawberry yakult soju

chapters:

(0:00) preview

(0:24) intro & podcast topic!

(3:10) my birthday this year :)

(4:22) childhood & physical changes as you grow older

(7:45) starting social media & self-image

(9:50) my first influencer event & influencer culture

(17:53) plastic surgery in your 20s

(19:41) my experience with botox

(26:16) intermission *birthday cake*

(31:10) new segment idea!

(34:15) so true with sarah

(42:49) how to age gracefully

(46:48) the reddit thread that made me cry

(49:27) bloopers