What’s the pettiest reason we’ve ghosted a guy? What specific types of footwear are an ick? And what would our exes name their group chat? 👀

In this unfiltered “Ask Us Anything” episode of Tiger Sisters, we finally spill it ALL on dating, love, and the wild questions you sent us. From red flags to the most romantic thing a date has done recently, nothing is off the table.

We share:

✅ Our biggest turn-offs

✅ The random reasons we’ve refused second dates

✅ The romantic gestures that made us melt

✅ The mistake we kept repeating in relationships until we finally learned

✅ Ghosting confessions

✅ Why dating at work almost always ends in disaster

✅ The brutally honest titles our exes’ group chats would have

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⏰ Timestamps

00:00 Welcome to our Love AMA 💕

01:12 What’s your instant “ick”?

10:04 Pettiest reasons we’ve refused a second date

16:01 Sponsor Break: Square

17:08 The most romantic thing someone’s ever done for us

22:46 The #1 mistake we kept making in relationships

25:42 Sponsor Break: One Skin

27:01 Ghosting confessions (including one that came back years later)

31:24 Is it ever okay to date someone you work with?

38:08 If our exes formed a group chat… what it would be called

42:33 Wrap-up + like, comment & subscribe

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Why trust us?

▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo – 100M+ views demystifying big tech, finance & MBAs

▫️ Jean Luo – ex-Goldman, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor

▫️ Together: 4 Ivy degrees • built billion-dollar products • two startups — decoded for you

What you’ll get (and keep):

▫️ 🚀 Ivy League cheat sheets – no $250K tuition required

▫️ Personal finance playbooks – salary jumps, investing, money psychology

▫️ Networking scripts – behind $100M+ deals, job offers & VC intros

▫️ Real talk with unicorn founders, VCs, and billionaires

▫️ Mindset resets – clarity minus the pricey life coach

▫️ Fashion, wellness, and productivity hacks that actually work

💛 LET'S CONNECT:

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Women are silently losing over half a million dollars across their careers — not from big mistakes, but from three subtle traps: Delay, Doubt, and Default.

In this episode of Tiger Sisters, we expose how these invisible money leaks happen, why women are disproportionately affected, and the practical tools you can use to reclaim your wealth. Backed by research, real stories, and the frameworks we’ve tested ourselves, this episode will change how you think about money.

We share:
 ✅ How delaying investments or salary moves can cost ~$500K+ — and the automation trick to stop it
 ✅ Why women are 29% more likely to feel “not investment ready” — and the role-play method that flips doubt into confidence
 ✅ The danger of defaulting to the first offer, 0% 401k contributions, or cash hoarding — and how wealth circles can boost savings by 45%
 ✅ Case studies from missed Bitcoin to comp transparency spreadsheets
 ✅ A mini exercise to identify your money story: survival, victim, or creator

If you’ve ever felt behind, avoided your finances, or wondered why money feels harder than it should — this one’s for you.

🐯👯‍♀️ We’re the Tiger Sisters — Your Wall Street & Silicon Valley big sisters

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✨ New episodes every Monday | Shorts all week ✨

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⏰ Timestamps00:00 Why women lose $500K+ in invisible wealth

02:01 Delay – The cost of waiting & power of compounding
03:42 How to beat Delay: automate & reward yourself
07:50 Quick Break: mbaMission 

09:08 Doubt – Mindset traps & the 3 money stories

13:24 Mini Exercise: Survival, Victim, Creator
14:40 How to beat Doubt: role play & mock negotiations
17:27 Default — Autopilot money decisions & UBS study
21:02 How to beat Default: create a Wealth Circle
22:04 Case study: salary transparency & collective bargaining
27:07 Wrap-up + survey & subscribe

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Why trust us?

▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo – 100M+ views demystifying big tech, finance & MBAs

▫️ Jean Luo – ex-Goldman, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor

▫️ Together: 4 Ivy degrees • built billion-dollar products • two startups — decoded for you

What you’ll get (and keep):

▫️ 🚀 Ivy League cheat sheets – no $250K tuition required

▫️ Personal finance playbooks – salary jumps, investing, money psychology

▫️ Networking scripts – behind $100M+ deals, job offers & VC intros

▫️ Real talk with unicorn founders, VCs, and billionaires

▫️ Mindset resets – clarity minus the pricey life coach

▫️ Fashion, wellness, and productivity hacks that actually work

💛 LET'S CONNECT:

~ CHERIE ~

🤳🏻 Instagram – / cherie.brooke

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✍🏻 Substack – cherieluo.substack.com

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After spending $250,000 on a Stanford MBA, I realized the most valuable lessons were the invisible soft skills — the mental operating systems that help you build trust, influence, and actually lead everyone around you.

In this episode of Tiger Sisters, we share the 3 most powerful frameworks from Stanford GSB that transformed how we show up as leaders — and how you can apply them immediately.We share:

✅ The SBI feedback model from “Touchy Feely” — used by Netflix, Microsoft, Adobe

✅ Power mapping from Jeffrey Pfeffer’s Paths to Power — why influence beats titles

✅ Executive communication with the SCQA framework — clarity is stronger than being “smart”

✅ Real company case studies (Sheryl Sandberg at Google/Facebook, Amazon product launches)

✅ Mini exercises to practice each framework today

🐯👯‍♀️ We’re the Tiger Sisters — Your Wall Street & Silicon Valley big sisters

Decoding Money • Power • Love

✨ New episodes every Monday | Shorts all week ✨

🎯 Sponsored by mbaMission, the #1 MBA admissions consulting firm (Poets&Quants). Their expert team has helped 15,000+ applicants get into top schools. Start with a free 30-minute consultation at www.mbamission.com/consult

and select “Tiger Sisters.” Use code “TIGERSISTERS30” for 30% off onTrack, their guided MBA application platform.

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⏰ Timestamps

00:00 Doing everything “right” but not seen as a leader

00:08 $250,000 Stanford MBA & invisible soft skills

00:23 The mental operating systems behind leadership

00:33 Today’s 3 frameworks from Stanford

00:41 Meet the Tiger Sisters — Top 10 Business Podcast

01:08 This is Part 3 of our Stanford GSB series

01:32 What to expect: case studies + mini exercises

01:44 Sponsor: mbaMission

03:02 Framework 1: Giving feedback the right way (SBI model)

06:11 Why specificity matters — workplace & personal examples

11:08 Mini exercise: practice situation → behavior → impact

13:22 Framework 2: Power Mapping (Paths to Power)

18:19 Case study: Sheryl Sandberg’s power map

20:37 Case study: Carol Bartz at Yahoo

22:05 Mini exercise: map your own power web

23:21 Framework 3: Executive Communication (SCQA model)

25:10 Example: marketing spend pitch & SCQA breakdown

27:00 Case study: Amazon press releases & clarity

28:12 Mini exercise: write & test your SCQA pitch

28:41 How these frameworks changed our careers

29:03 Wrap-up, reviews, newsletter, and next episode

👀 Newsletter: https://cherieluo.substack.com/

🎁 Survey: https://forms.gle/rXpQtbpwU3qShHW26

Why trust us?

▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo – 100M+ views demystifying big tech, finance & MBAs

▫️ Jean Luo – ex-Goldman, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor

▫️ Together: 4 Ivy degrees • built billion-dollar products • two startups — decoded for you

What you’ll get (and keep):

▫️ 🚀 Ivy League cheat sheets – no $250K tuition required

▫️ Personal finance playbooks – salary jumps, investing, money psychology

▫️ Networking scripts – behind $100M+ deals, job offers & VC intros

▫️ Real talk with unicorn founders, VCs, and billionaires

▫️ Mindset resets – clarity minus the pricey life coach

▫️ Fashion, wellness, and productivity hacks that actually work

💛 LET'S CONNECT:

~ CHERIE ~

🤳🏻 Instagram – / cherie.brooke

📱 TikTok – / cherie.brooke

✍🏻 Substack – cherieluo.substack.com

👩🏻‍💻 LinkedIn – / cherie-luo

~ JEAN ~

🤳🏻 Instagram – / jeanluo_

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We’ve uncovered the real daily habits that set the top 1% apart. In this episode of Tiger Sisters, we break down five habits that actually move the needle — not lemon water or 5 a.m. wakeups, but science-backed methods used by the most powerful women in the world (and tested by us). Each comes with case studies and mini exercises you can apply today.

✅ Separate fact from feeling to stay clearheaded

✅ Audit your calendar so it reflects your real priorities

✅ Language shifts that make you own any room

✅ Why top women ask for feedback before they’re ready

✅ Identity habits — the “I am” statements that rewire action

🐯👯‍♀️ We’re the Tiger Sisters — Your Wall Street & Silicon Valley big sisters

Decoding Money • Power • Love✨

New episodes every Monday | Shorts all week ✨

🎯 Sponsored by mbaMission, the #1 MBA admissions consulting firm (Poets&Quants). Their expert team has helped 15,000+ applicants get into top schools. Start with a free 30-minute consultation at www.mbamission.com/consult and select “Tiger Sisters.” Use code “TIGERSISTERS30” for 30% off onTrack, their guided MBA application platform.

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⏰ Timestamps

00:00 Why do some women seem unshakable?

00:18 The 5 habits that actually work

01:38 Habit 1: Separate fact from feeling

02:59 Case study: Indra Nooyi

04:12 Mini exercise: Fact vs. Feeling

05:42 Habit 2: Ruthless calendar alignment

07:00 Case study: Sheryl Sandberg

07:18 Mini exercise: Color-code your calendar

08:50 Habit 3: Own the room with language

10:41 Case study: Michelle Obama

12:08 Mini exercise: Record yourself

12:42 Habit 4: Ask for feedback early

14:08 Case study: HBS class participation

15:23 Why women must ship before it’s perfect

16:29 Habit 5: Identity habits

17:11 Case studies: Beyoncé & Simone Biles

19:00 Mini exercise: Daily “I am” mantra

20:21 Wrap-up & recap👀 Newsletter: https://cherieluo.substack.com/

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Why trust us?

▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo – 100M+ views demystifying big tech, finance & MBAs

▫️ Jean Luo – ex-Goldman, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor

▫️ Together: 4 Ivy degrees • built billion-dollar products • two startups — decoded for you

What you’ll get (and keep):

▫️ 🚀 Ivy League cheat sheets – no $250K tuition required

▫️ Personal finance playbooks – salary jumps, investing, money psychology

▫️ Networking scripts – behind $100M+ deals, job offers & VC intros

▫️ Real talk with unicorn founders, VCs, and billionaires

▫️ Mindset resets – clarity minus the pricey life coach

▫️ Fashion, wellness, and productivity hacks that actually work

💛 LET'S CONNECT:

~ CHERIE ~🤳🏻 Instagram – / cherie.brooke📱 TikTok – / cherie.brooke✍🏻 Substack – cherieluo.substack.com👩🏻‍💻 LinkedIn – / cherie-luo~

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Most of us were never taught how to make life’s biggest decisions — not in school, not in our first jobs. At Stanford GSB, we learned frameworks that rewired how we think about careers, relationships, and life itself.

This episode is Part 2 of our most downloaded series (“Everything We Learned at Harvard & Stanford”), where we break down three powerful tools from Stanford Business School and show you how to apply them — with real company case studies and mini exercises you can try right now.

We share:

✅ Jobs to Be Done — why people really “hire” products (LinkedIn, Netflix, Sisters Matcha)

✅ Mini exercise: uncover what people are hiring you for at work

✅ Decision Trees & Expected Value — how billion-dollar companies (and you) make better choices without spiraling

✅ “I may be wrong, but I’m not confused” — a decision-making mindset shift

✅ A 4-step method to evaluate job offers, entrepreneurship, or any life pivot

✅ Life as a Product Roadmap — how to use OKRs (Objectives & Key Results) to prioritize what matters

✅ Real examples of health, fitness, and creativity OKRs — and how accountability helps you follow through

🐯👯‍♀️ We’re the Tiger Sisters — Your Wall Street & Silicon Valley big sisters

Decoding Money • Power • Love

✨ New episodes every Monday | Shorts all week ✨

🎯 Sponsored by mbaMission, the #1 MBA admissions consulting firm (Poets&Quants).

Their expert team has helped 15,000+ applicants get into top schools. Start with a free 30-minute consultation at www.mbamission.com/consult and select “Tiger Sisters.”

Use code “TIGERSISTERS30” for 30% off onTrack, their guided MBA application platform.

💌 Partnerships: [email protected]

⏰ Timestamps

00:00 Why no one teaches you decision-making

00:15 The 6-part Harvard & Stanford series

01:56 Framework 1: Jobs to Be Done

02:52 LinkedIn + Sisters Matcha case study

04:10 Mini exercise: What are you “hired” for?

05:37 Framework 2: Decision Trees & Expected Value

06:31 Real example: job offer vs. entrepreneurship

07:49 Case studies: Netflix, Amazon, VC firms

09:23 “I may be wrong, but I’m not confused” mindset

09:45 Mini exercise: Map your pending decision

11:04 Framework 3: Life as a Product Roadmap (OKRs)

12:04 LinkedIn + personal OKRs

13:18 Examples: health & hobby OKRs

14:34 How OKRs give focus + guardrails

18:45 Mini exercise: Set your personal OKR

19:24 Wrap-up & takeaways

👀 Newsletter: https://cherieluo.substack.com/

🎁 Survey: https://forms.gle/rXpQtbpwU3qShHW26

Why trust us?

▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo – 100M+ views demystifying big tech, finance & MBAs

▫️ Jean Luo – ex-Goldman, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor

▫️ Together: 4 Ivy degrees • built billion-dollar products • two startups — decoded for you

What you’ll get (and keep):

▫️ 🚀 Ivy League cheat sheets – no $250K tuition required

▫️ Personal finance playbooks – salary jumps, investing, money psychology

▫️ Networking scripts – behind $100M+ deals, job offers & VC intros

▫️ Real talk with unicorn founders, VCs, and billionaires

▫️ Mindset resets – clarity minus the pricey life coach

▫️ Fashion, wellness, and productivity hacks that actually work

💛 LET'S CONNECT:

~ CHERIE ~

🤳🏻 Instagram – / cherie.brooke📱 TikTok – / cherie.brooke✍🏻 Substack – cherieluo.substack.com👩🏻‍💻 LinkedIn – / cherie-luo

~ JEAN ~

🤳🏻 Instagram – / jeanluo_👩🏻‍💻 LinkedIn – / jeanluo

👉 Hit Subscribe & tap the 🔔, then WRITE A REVIEW and rate us ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ on Spotify & Apple Podcasts!

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Are you settling in your career, relationships, or life — even if it all “looks good on paper”? In this episode of Tiger Sisters, we expose the hidden signs high achievers are wasting their prime years — and exactly how to break free without blowing up your life. From value drift that slowly pulls you off course to the sunk costs that keep you stuck, you’ll learn how to recognize settling in your career, love life, and personal identity — and the exact steps to get unstuck.

We share:

✅ #1 red flag you’re settling (and why “fine” is the danger zone)

✅ How high achievers talk themselves into staying small

✅ The psychology of staying too long: cognitive dissonance, sunk costs, fear of regret

✅ 3 clarity questions that tell you when it’s time to move on

✅ Mini exercises to stop settling — starting today!

✅ Reese Witherspoon’s career pivot from her “zone of excellence” to her genius

🐯👯‍♀️ We’re the Tiger Sisters — Your Wall Street & Silicon Valley big sisters

Decoding Money • Power • Love

✨ New episodes every Monday | Shorts all week ✨

🎯 This episode is sponsored by mbaMission, the #1 MBA admissions consulting firm five years in a row (Poets&Quants). Their expert team has helped 15,000+ applicants get into the world’s top business schools. Start with a free 30-minute consultation at www.mbamission.com/consult and select “Tiger Sisters” in the drop-down. And use code “TIGERSISTERS30” for 30% off onTrack, their personalized MBA application experience led by leading MBA expert Jeremy Shinewald.

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⏰ Timestamps

00:00 Are you settling without realizing it?

01:35 Symptoms of settling

02:47 Mini exercise: 12-month projection

03:07 Why high achievers settle

10:40 Dream job that still felt empty

12:35 Mini exercise: “I’m scared to walk away because…”

13:02 Sponsor: mbaMission

14:21 Cognitive dissonance & why we stay too long

15:25 Mini exercise: Rate career, relationships, identity

18:30 3 questions to know if it’s time to move on

19:11 Case Study: Reese Witherspoon & Hello Sunshine

22:21 Mini exercise: Letter from your future self

24:04 Practical steps to stop settling

26:05 Visualize your future in 1, 5, and 10 years

27:27 Find your “board of advisors”

28:03 Wrap up

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▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo – 100M+ views demystifying big tech, finance & MBAs

▫️ Jean Luo – ex-Goldman, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor

▫️ Together: 4 Ivy degrees • built billion-dollar product lines • two startups — decoded for you

We turn Harvard and Stanford MBA case studies + hard-won tech & finance lessons into frameworks you can use this week.

What you’ll get (and keep):

▫️ 🚀 Ivy League cheat sheets – no $250K tuition required

▫️ Personal finance playbooks – salary jumps, investing, money psychology

▫️ Networking scripts – behind $100M+ deals, job offers & VC intros

▫️ Real talk with unicorn founders, VCs, and billionaires

▫️ Mindset resets – career clarity minus the pricey life coach

▫️ Fashion, wellness, and productivity hacks that actually work

💛 LET'S CONNECT:

~ CHERIE ~

🤳🏻 Instagram – / cherie.brooke

📱/ TikTok – / cherie.brooke

✍🏻 Substack – https://cherieluo.substack.com/

👩🏻‍💻 LinkedIn – / cherie-luo

~ JEAN ~

🤳🏻 Instagram – / jeanluo_

👩🏻‍💻 LinkedIn – / jeanluo

👉 Hit Subscribe & tap the 🔔, then WRITE A REVIEW and rate us ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ on Spotify & Apple Podcasts!

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What if we told you Mel Robbins’ wildly popular “Let Them” theory… might be doing more harm than good?

In this Tiger Sisters episode, we take an unflinching look at one of the internet’s favorite self-help mantras — revealing where it actually empowers you… and where it quietly erodes your boundaries. From Microsoft CEO Satya Nadella to Taylor Swift, we break down real-world examples of when “Let Them” works — and when it’s just conflict avoidance.

Then we take it further: introducing “Let Me” — the mindset shift that puts you back in control.Mel Robbins made it famous. We’re breaking it open — and showing you how to use one of today’s most viral mindset tools so it actually strengthens your power, relationships, and clarity.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗹𝗹 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲:

- What the “Let Them” theory actually means (and where it came from)

- Real-world case studies from Microsoft and Taylor Swift

- When “Let Them” becomes toxic — and how to spot red flags

- Why emotional labor is not your job + how to set clean boundaries

- How to shift from “Let Them” to “Let Me”

🐯👯‍♀️ We’re the Tiger Sisters — Your Wall Street & Silicon Valley big sisters

Decoding Money • Power • Love

✨ New episodes every Monday | Shorts all week ✨

🎯 This episode is sponsored by Read AI, a meeting co-pilot that takes notes, analyzes meeting sentiment, and shares smart next steps for you and your team.

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⏰ Timestamps

00:00 Is Mel Robbins wrong about “Let Them”?

00:49 What’s in this episode

01:22 Sponsor: Read AI

03:01 What “Let Them” really means

04:50 Case Study: Microsoft CEO Satya Nadella

07:39 Cherie's friendship breakup story

15:55 “Let Them” in dating

20:26 The upgrade: “Let Me”

25:38 Case Study: Taylor Swift’s power move

29:08 5 ways “Let Them” fails

32:52 Mini exercise: "Ice Box"

35:50 Wrap up + next steps

❤️ Check out this episode's Read AI report: https://app.read.ai/analytics/meetings/01K1V0DJH50BD3XPHWVM70JRPK?utm_source=Share_Nav

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Why trust us?

▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo – 100M+ views demystifying big tech, finance & MBAs

▫️ Jean Luo – ex-Goldman, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor

▫️ Together: 4 Ivy degrees • built billion-dollar product lines • two startups — decoded for you

We turn Harvard and Stanford MBA case studies + hard-won tech & finance lessons into frameworks you can use this week.

What you’ll get (and keep):

▫️ 🚀 Ivy League Cheat Sheets – no $250K tuition required

▫️ Personal Finance Playbooks – salary jumps, investing, money psychology

▫️ Networking Scripts – behind $100M+ deals, job offers & VC intros

▫️ Real talk with unicorn founders, VCs, and billionaires

▫️ Mindset Resets – career clarity minus the pricey life coach

▫️ Fashion, Wellness, and Time Hacks that actually work

💛 LET'S CONNECT:

~ CHERIE ~

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🎓 What if we told you the best part of Stanford GSB… wasn’t in a classroom?In this Tiger Sisters episode, we’re breaking down 3 of the most mind-altering frameworks we learned from the #1 business school in the world — and how you can use them right now to upgrade your thinking, decisions, and relationships.

Forget the casebooks and jargon. We’re giving you a Stanford MBA crash course in how to think better, live bolder, and design your life with intention.𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗹𝗹 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲:

◦ 3 mental operating systems that changed how we approach work, relationships, and risk

◦ Why most people optimize for the wrong things — and how to fix it

◦ The actual Stanford course that made us rethink our entire identities

◦ How to spot your “narrative traps” and escape them for good ◦ The single most underrated skill successful leaders master

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⏰ Timestamps

00:00:00 The Real Value of a Stanford MBA (spoiler: not the classes)

00:01:18 A Word From Read AI, our sponsor!

00:03:13 Framework 1: Design Thinking

00:04:35 How to Use Design Thinking

00:06:55 Design Thinking Mini Exercise

00:08:06 Framework 2: Test & Learn

00:09:17 Test & Learn Example from Cherie & Jean

00:14:02 Framework 3: Reversible vs. Irreversible Decisions

00:15:43 Jean's Example of Type 1 vs. Type 2

00:18:33 Share Your Mini Exercises With Us!

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🐯👯‍♀️ Tiger Sisters — Your Wall Street & Silicon Valley Big Sisters Decoding Money • Power • Love✨ New episodes every Monday | Shorts all week ✨We turn Harvard and Stanford MBA case studies + hard-won tech & finance lessons into frameworks you can use this week.What you’ll get (and keep):

▫️ 🚀 Ivy League Cheat Sheets – no $250K tuition required

▫️ Personal Finance Playbooks – salary jumps, investing, money psychology

▫️ Networking Scripts – behind $100M+ deals, job offers & VC intros

▫️ Real talk with unicorn founders, VCs, and billionaires ▫️ Mindset Resets – career clarity minus the pricey life coach ▫️ Fashion, Wellness, and Time Hacks that actually workWhy trust us?

▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo – 100M+ views demystifying big tech, finance & MBAs

▫️ Jean Luo – ex-Goldman, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor

▫️ Together: 4 Ivy degrees • built billion-dollar product lines • two startups — decoded for you

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💛 LET'S CONNECT:

~ CHERIE ~ 🤳🏻 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/cherie.brooke

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~ JEAN ~ 🤳🏻

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Is PE destroying your favorite brands – or quietly saving them? In this crash course, Jean & Cherie unmask the most mysterious corner of capitalism in five binge‑able bites.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗹𝗹 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲:

◦ PE 101 – Why firms buy entire companies instead of a few Robinhood shares.

◦ The Money Machine – “2 & 20,” carried interest, and jaw‑dropping payouts.◦ Leveraged Buyouts – House‑flipping on a billion‑dollar scale (RIP Toys “R” Us).

◦ Bad‑Guy Narrative – Layoffs, asset‑stripping, and the Hilton comeback you missed

◦ What It Means for YOU – As founder, employee, or customer when a PE firm moves in.

Get hot‑girl clarity on money, power, and the incentives that shape everything from your salad chain to your hospital.

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⏰ Timestamps

00:00:00 PE just bought your fave store – here’s why

00:01:10 Private equity in 30 seconds – no MBA needed

00:03:35 The “2 & 20” fee that mints millionaire managers

00:05:25 LBOs: buy with debt, profit with someone else’s cash

00:06:47 Toys ‘R’ Us autopsy: debt vs. nostalgia

00:08:22 Four red flags that tag PE as the villain

00:09:58 Hilton glow‑up: how one PE deal made $14 B

00:11:15 Job watch i.e. three clues your company just got touched by PE

00:12:20 Higher prices or shockingly better service for customers

00:14:05 Verdict time: PE – evil empire or misunderstood fixer?

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🐯👯‍♀️ Tiger Sisters — Your Wall Street & Silicon Valley Big Sisters

Decoding Money • Power • Love

✨ New episodes every Monday | Shorts all week ✨

We turn Harvard and Stanford MBA case studies + hard-won tech & finance lessons into frameworks you can use this week.

What you’ll get (and keep):

▫️ 🚀 Ivy League Cheat Sheets – no $250K tuition required

▫️ Personal Finance Playbooks – salary jumps, investing, money psychology

▫️ Networking Scripts – behind $100M+ deals, job offers & VC intros

▫️ Real talk with unicorn founders, VCs, and billionaires

▫️ Mindset Resets – career clarity minus the pricey life coach

▫️ Fashion, wellness, and productivity hacks that actually work

Why trust us?

▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo – 100M+ views demystifying big tech, finance & MBAs

▫️ Jean Luo – ex-Goldman, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor

▫️ Together: 4 Ivy degrees • billion-dollar product lines • two startups — decoded for you

👉 Tap “Follow,” turn on 🔔 notifications, and leave us a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rating if you enjoyed the episode!

💛 LET'S CONNECT:

~ CHERIE ~

🤳🏻 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/cherie.brooke

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~ JEAN ~

🤳🏻 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jeanluo_/

👩🏻‍💻 LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanluo

🎵 Music by Sammy Signal – https://open.spotify.com/artist/2HsyknHuxhT8RoZfn5rqMS

🛍️ Sisters Matcha & Merch – www.sistersmatcha.com🌀 Everything else – https://amzn.to/3z0dx5b

👀 Read AI's free downloadable guide to Agentic AI and Generative AI — https://shop.beacons.ai/cherie.brooke/e60ea9c0-0630-4d48-81c6-70708b2c205c

🎯 This episode is sponsored by Read AI, a meeting co-pilot that takes notes, analyzes meeting sentiment, and shares smart next steps for you and your team. Try our favorite productivity tool free for 30 days: www.read.ai/tigersisters

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🌀 Starting over isn’t failure. It’s power.

In this vulnerable, tactical episode, we walk you through the 3-part toolkit for reinvention — with wisdom from James Clear, Brené Brown, and Esther Perel.

Whether you're recovering from heartbreak, making a big move, or just feeling lost, this episode will help you hit reset with confidence.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗹𝗹 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲:

◦ James Clear’s 4-step formula for habit change that sticks

◦ How to become the kind of person you want to be

◦ Vulnerability as a tool for connection, not weakness (feat. Brené Brown)

◦ How to rewrite your romantic or personal story after setbacks (Esther Perel-style)

◦ The real story behind Jean’s broken engagement — and how she reframed it

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⏰ Timestamps

00:00:00 Starting over at 29 and 36

00:03:05 Why atomic habits work when you feel stuck

00:04:53 Jean’s “Don’t Break the Chain” habit system

00:06:05 Saying yes to social invites → dating success?!

00:08:39 Why starting over doesn’t need to wait until January

00:10:33 How to use vulnerability as a career superpower

00:12:39 LinkedIn layoffs, social accountability, and owning your story

00:15:07 Weakness or strength? The mindset shift that changes everything

00:17:51 Rewriting your narrative — Esther Perel’s framework

00:22:19 The real story behind Jean’s broken engagement

00:25:12 Bonus exercise: say it out loud for the first time

00:26:42 Final mini exercise — and how to reframe the old story

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🐯👯‍♀️ Tiger Sisters — Your Wall Street & Silicon Valley Big Sisters

Decoding Money • Power • Love

✨ New episodes every Monday | Shorts all week ✨

We turn Harvard and Stanford MBA case studies + hard-won tech & finance lessons into frameworks you can use this week.

What you’ll get (and keep):

▫️ 🚀 Ivy League Cheat Sheets – no $250K tuition required

▫️ Personal Finance Playbooks – salary jumps, investing, money psychology

▫️ Networking Scripts – behind $100M+ deals, job offers & VC intros

▫️ Real talk with unicorn founders, VCs, and billionaires

▫️ Mindset Resets – career clarity minus the pricey life coach

▫️ Fashion, Wellness, and Time Hacks that actually work

Why trust us?

▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo – 100M+ views demystifying big tech, finance & MBAs

▫️ Jean Luo – ex-Goldman, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor

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💛 LET'S CONNECT:

~ CHERIE ~

🤳🏻 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/cherie.brooke

📱 TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@cherie.brooke

✍🏻 Substack – https://cherieluo.substack.com/

👩🏻‍💻 LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/cherie-luo/

~ JEAN ~

🤳🏻 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jeanluo_/

👩🏻‍💻 LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanluo

🎵 Music by Sammy Signal – https://open.spotify.com/artist/2HsyknHuxhT8RoZfn5rqMS

🛍️ Sisters Matcha – www.sistersmatcha.com

🌀 Everything else – https://amzn.to/3z0dx5b

👀 Read AI's free downloadable guide to Agentic AI — https://shop.beacons.ai/cherie.brooke/e60ea9c0-0630-4d48-81c6-70708b2c205c

🗓️ Habit Tracker free downloadable — https://shop.beacons.ai/cherie.brooke/c42691a4-a8be-4a74-bf44-05e3fd329537